Since the question is you can do one or the other....For me it would by far be to administer the enema, or a series of, along with some touching and oral.
A long time ago i saw a big woman scolding a small boy. He was crying and she just kept on hollering at him. i fantasied about following them to her house, sneaking in, using a toy gun [looked real] and punish her for being a bad woman. As the boy watched, I would make her strip down to bra, panties, and high heels. I would tie up her hands behind her back, pull her over my knees for a bare bottom spanking while the boy watched. I would order him to go get the enema bag, fill it clear up and hold her over my knees as she got the full bag being held real high by the kid. Then before I would let her go to the can, she would stand up, and as I took off her bra she would appologise to the boy. Often this sounds like a siicko scene but it mis only in my fantasies and no ,way would i ever do it.
I do suggest trying both together. It is amazing!! Best position for this (for us anyway) is ass in the air on the edge of the bed, hands restrained above head with him standing behind the bed holding the clip to the bag. The bag is hanging on an IV stand purchased for that purpose. Nice deep penetration, and hunny says he loves the view. He says he also can feel the water flowing up my ass. Many intense orgasms, and it has been noticed I can take more. However i cannot hold it as long.
@lilianneI'd have to agree with Ginnie. Having a sexual relationship with a new friend is easier than sharing an enema.... unfortunately, that is the rule.
I agree that for most of us having a sexual relationship is easier than getting your partner involved with play enemas. I think enemas between partners is several levels of intimacy beyond just having sex. Certainly both together is best, but I think it is rare that it starts that way.
I agree that for most of us having a sexual relationship is easier than getting your partner involved with play enemas.I agree that an enema can be more intimate than sex. I would much rather start out with an enema than have sex although sex isn't bad either!
Most of my enema relationship, enema mates started with having a mutual attraction, and winding up in bed, once that became a normal relationship (who can say what's normal) If the woman did not bring it up I would complain of having some other problem, and usually the maternal instinct would kick in, like whats wrong, and the question of bowel movement would come into the conversation, at which point, if she was in the age group of 1960 to 1970 where enemas were still common, she might suggest trying some Pepto, or Exlax, and when I would say that did not work for me she usually would go to the Douche, enema bag. That worked for me, and it was off to the races so to speak. I was fortunate in my relationships, 6 of the last relationships the woman I was seeing was into giving, but only 2 were into receiving. Being that I am one of those people that because I make decisions all day long it is nice when in the bedroom I am reasonably submissive. Anyway that is how I have gotten more than my share of enema's in every way possible and I am still looking for that one that will come up with a Dildo enema nozzle for pegging while getting. Any woman on long island is welcome to contact me if that is also your fantasy .