Fantasy- sex or enema

How many of you wonder which you would rather perform with an attractive person you've just met:

Have sex with them or give them an enema?

I have to admit that these days I mostly would like to administer an OTK bulb enema.

I would definately want to have some sort of sexual experience with them. I save my enemas for special relationships

Would love to have one administered to me. just don't seem to have the opportunity. i think i would always take the enema. more difficult to find enema partners that sexual. sexual i would think is easier than enema.

I'd have to agree with Ginnie. Having a sexual relationship with a new friend is easier than sharing an enema.

I have no question in my mind that I would rather fuck a new person silly than give them an enema.

I'm one who would prefer to go for good sex at the beginning, and then if the relationship lasts, the enema is certainly welcome later.

I definitely agree with Susie !

Fuck til you forget your own name !

Different strokes for different folks. While I would never turn down a good fucking, I believe that an enema is more intimate and personal and therefore I would like to give one first, followed by sex. I think Ginnie and lilanne think the same thing and would rather have sex than give up the browneye. My 2 cents

For me it would be fucking no question

Sorry I came into this discussion due to crude language used on one reply. So I will not contribute any thoughts regarding the question.

Denise ??? Fuck ? Or Fucking ? Just curious to what you call crude language , ON A KINK SITE !

I've not been one to give "the goods away" without an emotional attatchment so would go with giving an enema to someone I've just met.

Probably wouldn't do it if the opportunity came about. It's just who I am. Enema giving and sex go together for me so much that to separate would bw difficult. Though not impossible. It would be something I would just have to work out for myself.

I would definitely want to engage her in a mind blowing, over the top, all day long, fuck session. Unfortunately I can't. But, since this is a fantasy question, that is my fantasy answer.

@Anoldguy said “ But, since this is a fantasy question, that is my fantasy answer”

BINGO ! That seems to have bemused some members .

Sorry, I meant Fornicating like a bunny

Since this is a fantasy , I would hope that we could do both at the same time. My two favorite activities all rolled into one fantastic night.

Sorry, I meant Fornicating like a bunny

I meant exactly what I said --- FUCKING LIKE FARM ANIMALS.

I've not been one to give "the goods away" without an emotional attatchment so would go with giving an enema to someone I've just met.

Interesting that you think of it as "giving the goods away".

I look at it as I'M TAKING THEIRS.

I am the Domme!

Interesting that you think of it as "giving the goods away".

The word I first thought of instead "giving the goods away" was I'm not a slut who sleeps with just any one. But I didn't think that was the best word because of how it may be seen from others eyes.

Domme or not, I have my view, susie you have yours, on what amount of sex is to be given away. I don't give myself to just everyone.

MissStress said

The word I first thought of instead "giving the goods away" was I'm not a slut who sleeps with just any one. But I didn't think that was the best word because of how it may be seen from others eyes.

Interesting that you think of it as "giving the goods away".

Before we had children and used to swing, I didn't consider that I was giving anything away because I wasn't. I was taking control of the men and using them for my benefit and pleasure and I frequently let them know it while I was fucking them. This was especially true in high school and college.

The only penis inside me since having children has been my husband's.

Again this was a FANTASY question !

“ Giving the goods away” does in no way make one a slut . I do not give myself to just anyone either . I can still count on two hands ( and have several fingers left over) how many men I have slept with .

But being an adult with a healthy sexual appetite means you can meet up with someone and have instant chemistry with them and just cant keep your hands off each other . Why not go with those feelings ? Enjoy each other ? Because you dont want to be a “ slut “ ? I dont buy into that for one minute.

I guess I am not that egotistical.

Theres no question how much i love sensual enemas. when i meet an interesting woman one of my first thoughts is whether they love enemas too and i certainly fantasize about that. but that having been said the level of intimacy involved would never allow2 for an enema to be part of our first intimate encounter

I am more reserved about whom I share sex with than with whom I give enemas to. I have often - over many years - given enemas to women I have never shared sex with. Some of these I barely knew and our conversation led from their not feeling so well to constipation issues to enemas. Mere presence of an unclothed woman does not turn me on, notwithstanding her level of attractiveness, unless I desire it and sense the feeling is mutual and that an ongoing affair may likely result.

When I meet an attractive girl I'm always like daamn I wanna spread her cheeks and insert the enema nozzle deep inside her rectum and fill her with warm water.I also often wonder if the girl I'm talking to has enema or any kind of strange fetishes.

Good question. Why not have sex with them while giving them an enema? Sorta like two birds, one stone.

I just posted here on another topic about "finding that right person." I believe that you have to be up front about your interests. Sex is a tremendous driver for me, but I think if we are true kinksters, we will be upfront about our interests. Too many people on here have been in relationships that don't work for them and their kinks (I certainly was, for many years), and have had to enjoy their interests in secret. I keep reading these "I wish" posts, and they make me sad, because there are certainly people just like you on the bell curve--you just haven't met them yet.

I no longer believe in that. So I suppose, if something happened to my wife, I'd find someone new, and I might have sex with them, but I would definitely seek out another person like me (my counterpart, really) who accepts or loves my kinks and wants to do them with me. I need someone who is sub in the bedroom, but I love strong women outside the bedroom--go figure. After many years of dissatisfaction and internal pain, I decided that my true partner would accept, if not want, all my kinks, and (I've told my story elsewhere) at the same time want some sort of life outside the bedroom. So we hike, go places, have all kinds of fun--but in bed she is sub/slave--with the modification that I know she has to have her needs met, which I make every effort to do.

You mean we have to choose? I'd prefer both

If a strong inclination weren't immediately apparent, I would be happy to flip a coin.

Easy, I would go for the bulb enema every time. Nothing is so invasive and intimate in my view.

When I see an attractive woman on the running track, I always find myself fantasizing about a bdsm-lite enema encounter with her ... either me giving her an enema that pushes her limits, with a side order of fingering, spanking, etc; or having her do it to me. Sex could be nice too, but I'd get a year's worth of masturbation fantasies out of just the enema encounter!