Language used to initiate genital exam

I don't remember ever having my genitals examined when I was younger. The first time I remember was for a sports physical when I was thirteen, and the doctor just simply said, need to check you for a hernia drop your pants and underwear. Over the years I been told in different ways, but basically it is always the same. The doctor I have now doesn't say anything, he just tugs on my belt when he is done with my abdominal exam, he knows, I know that means I am supposed to stand up and drop my pants and underwear. He doesn't waste words. He has been seeing me long enough he knows, I have the routine down he doesn't need to tell me what to do.

No language is what I got used to when younger, and what my favorite doctor as an adult would do.

In my pediatric exams up through the age of 16, the doctor usually said nothing, but would just grab the waistband of my briefs and pull them down for me. Since I was a late bloomer, he and my mom would talk about my development or lack thereof. Maybe once when I was older he made a joke about checking the plumbing, which my mom laughed at, but since I was so used to their concern about how far behind I was, I never found that joke funny. He probably was trying to make me feel better, because he could see how stressed out I was, but it didn't help.

Then as an adult, my favorite doctor examined me only in a gown, and while I was on the table he just folded the gown up to my chest without saying anything. As he proceeded with the genital exam, he would say "there's one testicle, and theres the other, and now your penis."

“Going to take a quick peek at your privates”

Growing up, the pediatrician usually did not say anything. I would either by laying down on the exam table or sitting at the end of the exam table and the doctor would simply slip his hands into my briefs to do the exam. Sometimes, he would slide my underwear down a bit or pull them out to look inside after palpating my penis and balls.

"Now I'm just going to ckeck your plumbing"

"Now I'm going to check your penis and scrotum. Just relax."

My physician in Seattle, who was gay, was the same one I had from start to finish. I did my first two genital exams standing up, but then it was on the table, with a huge umbrella-like cylinder of examination-mat paper, with my knees bent and separated. And he always had a soft, breathy, way of saying standard words like "your penis" or "your testes" that increasingly sounded rather seductive.

I looked forward to that part of it more and more....made it more tolerable for the rest.

After abdominal palpation it’s always ‘Stand up and drop your shorts for me, then we’ll check your prostate. Cough twice. Turn around and elbows on the table. You might feel like you need to pee. Here are tissues for cleanup. You can dress and I’ll be right back.’

Growing up, the pediatrician usually did not say anything. I would either by laying down on the exam table or sitting at the end of the exam table and the doctor would simply slip his hands into my briefs to do the exam. Sometimes, he would slide my underwear down a bit or pull them out to look inside after palpating my penis and balls.

My doctor did the exact same thing. Growing up I always knew it was coming after the stomach palpation without warning or permission. Then as I got older, I also got a hernia portion standing in front of him.

I can't say I remember what a real doctor says. From a playdoc though, no announcement at all is what I really like! Just do it...

My doctor did the exact same thing. Growing up I always knew it was coming after the stomach palpation without warning or permission. Then as I got older, I also got a hernia portion standing in front of him.

@Kid89 this is why I would have butterflies in my stomach and a tingling in my genitals during the stomach palpation. I knew what was coming next, but I never knew when. It was the loss of control that added to the arousal from the embarrassment.

I don't remember the verbiage, but I doubt my Doctor ever said "Let's look at your cock and balls.."

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As a child at school in the UK in the 1970s and for many years afterwards, the doctor said nothing but just took hold of your testicles and penis when he was ready. Same with hernia checks. If worn, he removed your underwear.

Now - as other members note - I get asked first. 'I think we should just check...' or 'Do you want me to check your genitals?' I usually answer 'Yes, of course.' or 'Yes, please.' Without trying to sound too enthusiastic!

I think I have posted such an history on zity.

A work medical exam, early 80’s, I was 25/28

A doctor, aged 50.

After all the normal exam, he told me to pull down my boxer, to examine my genitals

And he began to give me a lot of massages, testicules, penis…

So, of course I had an erection.

He keeped on going.

I am circumcised, he told me to lean on the exam table, spread my legs.

He told me to give me a prostate exam.

So…I remember his finger in my anus, while he was continuing to give me a massage to my penis…

Everything was alright, but I remember a great ejaculation.

He seamed to be satisfied.

My regret, is not to have put my hand on his trouser, cause I saw he had a big erection under.

But 2 years after, we did more…

My only memories are the doc saying let's check you for a hernia and once i was older he'd do the prostate check. Nothing too memorable.

My pediatrician: Please remove your underwear young man. I need to check the plumbing,

Please, can you take off your pants and underwear and lie on the stretcher and I will examine your private parts and anus to check if there are hemorrhoids.

At times nothing other than lift up for me as my waistband was lowered from my waist to ankles

My current doctor doesn't say anything. This year during my annual exam after he was done with the abdominal exam he raised the top half of the gown back up to cover my chest, then pulled the lower half of the gown up over my stomach and just started doing the genital exam without saying a word. After the genital exam the only thing he said was roll onto your left side.

@Ccc During that scenario, at what point does your doctor glove up?

@BenDover. Once he is done with the abdominal exam he will pull the gown back up to cover my chest. Then go and put gloves on before raising the the gown to do the genital exam.

One of my first physicals with a doctor, after standing up to do a agility, flexibility, and spine curve check bending over in my underwear with the gown pretty much falling off my arms, the doctor proceeds to glove up and lets me know that he typically ends his physicals with a quick hernia check and testicular exam and to lower my briefs. My gown was already dropped on the floor while getting back upright so I got to do this part with my undies at my knees. I also had to turn around and bend over for him to check my perineum and anus for possible hemorrhoids.

For me at the pediatric it was always normally I am just going to check your private parts. It is only okay because I am a doctor and because mom is here. At that point when laying down I would have my underwear pulled down.

My doctor has always been gentle and direct about it, never apologizing because we both know its an important part of every physical! Mine always says something along the lines of "slip your underwear off/down for me and I'm going to examine your genitals for a minute." and then would proceed to examine testicles and check hernias before giving me the okay to put my clothes back on.