ENEMAS: Give it, Get it, Watch it or Be Watched

I prefer receiving enemas and having someone give me multiple ones during an enema session.

Give, watch, get, be watch. Not a hard choice. Yes !!!

All of the above!!!

I used to say that my preference was to receive. But after having met with a guy for a session in which I gave as well as received I now say both. It was very HOT... I had a great time as I hope he did. Looking forward to getting together again. Mutual play is great, important for both parties to be satisfied.

First of all, any kind of play should only happen with someone that deserves your trust and you too should deserve others' trust. This being said, I think that the best play is with someone that you already sort of know, so that you are aware of the limits. Naturally there needs to be always the way to step out of whatever scene is being played.

Once this is clear (and I would say that this needs to be clarified verbally, certainly not in a written form in front of a notary!), my preference as a giver is to prescribe and to administer suppositories and enemas. Similarly as a received I would like that my mate decides that I need some help that he is administering to me. I also like (but I realise it might sound childish to some) to have to discuss as the receiver, either my mate or myself, could challenge the need and tries to avoid it. Even a bit if wrestle (again, it's for the psychological side of it, NO REAL VIOLENCE) could add to it if both parties are into it.

I would want to be on the receiving end

My husband knows I LOVE enemas. He has told me, usually after anal sex, that I NEEDED one. I remember once when we were messing around he filled a syringe with glycerin and injected it into me. (Around 40 cc) We use it as lube but he put in a bit much. Once he saw the effect it was having on me he "insisted" we have anal sex anyway. OMG the cramps but I'm glad he "made" me do it.

I would love a surprise "forced" enema.

I agree with enemaroma: some discussion ahead of time of the need to be given an enema can sometimes heighten the thrill by creating apprehensiveness and instilling a sense of submission and even mild regression.

I have never given enema to anyone, but given the opportunity, I can definitely see myself doing so. I’ve never seen anyone get one other than myself on video or using a mirror. Didn’t do much for me. But watching enema videos, definite turn on for me. So that leaves getting an enema and being watched getting an enema. I have done both and that to me is what I enjoy the most. I’m an enema humiliation submissive though, so that would figure. Being solo almost all the time makes getting an enema my main focus. In the past I have done enema shows online via chat or messenger. Always a turn on for me. So definitely receiving/watched for me. 😉

I'm a giver of enemas to my sub. I enjoy the reaction, mental and physical, that enemas give to him.

l don't find the pleasure that so many others, my sub included, find with enemas. So taking is not good, except for the relief from the constipation I suffered from causing me to have needed an enema.

My sub would love to put a noozle attached to a bag up my ass. Maybe one day I will allow him to that. He is patiently waiting for me to give him the okay.

Usually I'm solo with enemas. I prefer to have a pleasant session rather than self punishment. If I am giving or getting I prefer a sharing experience instead of a dom/sub routine.

My sub would love to put a noozle attached to a bag up my ass. Maybe one day I will allow him to that. He is patiently waiting for me to give him the okay.

I'll bet he's in for a long wait!!!!

I got them from mom at an early age and it gave me the kink but I just do not like getting them. I do however think the most erotic sight in the world is a nozzle seated deeply in a girls ass. I just love giving and it really does it for me. I must have been an anus in a past life!!

I'll bet he's in for a long wait!!!!

He's waited over 30 years so far. But sometimes paitience pays off. 😉

I place equal enthusiasm on giving and receiving, but would limit the audience to the enemate giving to me. As for her being watched, I would respect her wishes.

I did not grow up with receiving enemas as a child myself. I am probably just under that age when enemas were the common cure for virtually any ailment. Therefore currently, I think my craving is always to be on the receiving end of things as a display of my somewhat submissive inclinations. Would I give an enema to someone else? Maybe so in a rather inept fumbling sort of way if directed to do so, but my preference always will be to be the receiver as embarrassing as that could be.

My preference is to be on the receiving end of a well lubbed enema nozzle!

I've never been watched while taking an enema and probably wouldn't mind if I were.

I have not given an enema and don't care to.

I also wouldn't care to watch someone getting one, because I'd probably be thinking, "I wish I was the recipient that enema!!"

I've done solo enemas my entire life, so anytime I can play with someone that's an enthusiast, I'm all for it.

I have been lucky enough to play with two Zity members over the past few years, but really would like to have many more encounters before I check off this rock.....

Both give and receive enemas .

I know for me it's a weekly thing with my playmates. I sometimes think during the week that I don't like it, but I get so turned on when I see them that almost anything goes. I don't know that this is completely healthy, LOL

As both a giver and receiver, I would enjoy a 'scheduled' appointment at least 2 or 3 days in advance, with regular 'reminders' leading up to the appointment - maybe a butt massage a day or two before, or perhaps some lotion applied in the perfect place, or even a sudden but loving order to strip and spread for the givers pleasure, and of course monitoring of bowel movements leading up to the scheduled appointment, with the giver always reminding the receiver how much they are looking forward to the intimate event

If I am receiving I love being told sternly that I will be getting an enema. This sets the tone which usually involves being spanked to comply.

As a giver, I also want to determine the time when a woman will be getting an enema or three?

With that said, both parties are in agreement. Forcing someone who is not truly into enemas can be very traumatic and very messy.

My husband and I aren't much for medical play, but If I'm sick or otherwise not feeling well, I like him to ask rather than hang a "surprise" next to our bed. I like feeling the anticipation, which helps my getting an enema from my husband more satisfying.

As a receiver, I would prefer to be told that I am going to be in for a session. I haven't had one recently and it is 'for my own good'. This means I am going to get as many enemas as the giver decides I need, along with whatever other activities she may feel are 'required'. I would submit willingly knowing that it is for mutual enjoyment. I might whine a bit or weep at times, but I will undoubtedly enjoy the sequence. The originating of this play is reminiscent of my childhood, and I remember submitting back then and actually ended up enjoying the time I shared with Mum.

As a giver, I would like to play the opposite role.

As a switch I love to give and receive. Receiving brings me back to the time of my preteens and teenage years being over my mothers or step-fathers lap and receiving eight of the 8oz red bulbs full of warm ivory soapy liquid with the black nozzles coated with Vaseline. They loved to do multiple insertions.

As a giver, I would give the same to my sub. I would also monitor the bowel to make sure the enema worked as well as it should and if it didn't then I would do another round of bulbs.

It's a fun role-play we do every so often.

No desire to give or watch, but love receiving. Went for a colonic by a new hydrotherapist the other day and was informed, in a totally matter of fact way that her colleague, another charming lady, would be observing my treatment. Nice! However if it had been a male I would have walked away.

I love to take enemas while someone is watching . It really excites me knowing someone is watching me enjoying myself. It also adds a little

Extra stimulus. I have Skype many times and thoroughly enjoy each time

I am on . Love to hear from anyone that would like to watch.

All the above

During my first play examination which was conducted by a younger female play doctor I was given a couple of enemas to clear me out before a thorough rectal examination including the use of a large proctoscope. She had a male partner attend with her, I assume for her security, so he was in the room the whole time so I have been watched while being given an enema. I don't think I would ever complain about others being present during anything I might arrange through this site after all I think embarrassment is always going to be part of the fun.

I've explored with enemas since I was 8. Never in a million years did I think I would be where I am today with loving them. I'm a submissive guy, but never thought years ago I would allow another person give them to me. It was a taboo to myself that I even enjoyed them. I was fortunate to eventually chat with Dan. We did talk for quite a few years and I always pulled back, but i did let my guard down and went to visit him. Best decision ever....he was/is awesome making me feel comfortable and just a genuine person. I admit it didn't take me long to prop my legs up in his stirrups seeing the enema bags hanging.

In all..I'm a sub guy...simply like enemas givin to me...as many as a day allows..and the other taboo....i love beer enemas.....wine is good...I just fall asleep..Dan knows...