ENEMAS: Give it, Get it, Watch it or Be Watched

SeanM58,

After being so embarrassed from having a group watch, why not give a bow and give them a bit of embarrassment. It is just making light of a bad situation.

Dan

In order... give (love, love, love, love, love), get (love, love, love, love), watch (love), be watched (not my thing, but, heck, if it turns someone else on I'm game!)

The best of both worlds. Two bags with two inflatable nozzles. I control hers, she controls mine. Super fun

I've never done this, but I have a fantasy where I'm given a high volume enema with a crowd watching. I receive it standing while my ankles are bound by a wide spreader bar and my wrists are bound and pulled tightly upward to a ceiling hook.

As for things I've actually done, I very much enjoy giving enemas to my wife. I enjoy even more her giving me one.

I've never done this, but I have a fantasy where I'm given a high volume enema with a crowd watching. I receive it standing while my ankles are bound by a wide spreader bar and my wrists are bound and pulled tightly upward to a ceiling hook.

Nice fantasy. I'd do it too if I had at least a full rubber hood so I'd be incognito, and I was stuffed with an inflated latex DBC. And some comfortable socks and sneakers to protect my feet and help me keep my balance during my inevitable moaning, groaning and writhing around during filling.

As to things I've actually done, a few times my ex-wife 2 loved Domme-ing me by watching me sub, dressing me in complete rubber (catsuit, hood, gloves, gag) and tall thick rubber sneakers on the bed. Then she cuffed my hands to my sneakers with knees bent up exposing my crotch. After unzipping my suit she'd spend time playing in my ass with gloved fingers and plugs before finally giving me the (first) enema. She'd edge me until I was begging for orgasm release but then stop and do something else to push my buttons and limits like cover me in a thick comforter to sweat more or leave the room and let me wonder when she'd be back. Eventually she'd come back, masturbate/edge me some more and give me a second enema bag full. After letting me up, she'd demand I fuck her and give her orgasms until satisfied before deciding how much longer she'd deny me orgasm and colon relief, sometimes overnight.

I'll never forget those nights as long as I live! Damn.

Eric

I have no personal exhibitionist in me, so being watched is easily last. Watching a woman take a sexual enema would be extremely erotic for me, but I would always prefer to be involved. I do love to receive but slightly prefer giving as dominating and controlling a woman's most personal bodily functions (and making it sexual) adds a whole other attraction to me.

I have never watched anyone be given an enema in real life unless I was the person giving the enema but I can see it would be really fun depending on who it was I was watching.

Same goes for being given an enema and by that I mean aside from the person giving me the enema no one has ever seen me get one. That being said I rather be given an enema than be the one giving to someone else but sometimes giving is quite fun.

I have done them all and after the first time it got easier.

Enoz4u,

I have done them all and after the first time it got easier.

I may have missed what you are referring to, but I don't understand your statement. 1) "......done them all..........." = ???, and 2) what is it that "got easier"? Just not understanding. Thanks,

Eric

Have given many enemas to my wife to deal with her IBS-C. At first I got off on doing it, but after realizing she saw nothing erotic about them, I now view it as in the same realm as I would helping her zip up a dress.

I've had a few from female partners and they were wonderful, but now I go solo 100% of the time. I wouldn't care one way or the other if my spouse watched me, since they do nothing for her.

I do love to watch attractive females take or be given enemas in videos. Videos of men do nothing for me.

...I do love to watch attractive females take or be given enemas in videos. Videos of men do nothing for me.

Same for me, exactly.

Eric

My preference, is to be told what a woman intend's to do rather than ask permission. Feigning an attitude of not wanting to cooperate only heightens mine, and Her arousal, there is always a safe word, and that word is never (NO) as the enema is administered No, and No more are usual and have no other meaning, other than an expression of discomfort,which we both enjoy, when that discomfort get's to be too much then the safe word can be used. (only My opinion)

If I were giving I would prescribe the enema and then give it. From the receiver's point of view, I would sometimes request one but most of the time I am being told I will be given one.

Prescribe and give it.

Well in role play I would prefer that the giver perform a digital rectal exam or temperature check with a rectal thermometer and then tell me I need an enema to which I would fuss about and try and talk my way out of. That's just my preference when when I'm the patient in a sub role.

I'd prefer to give enemas

I can not live the enema as a BDSM practice or submission. I see it only as an extremely pleasant and sexually stimulating practice. For this I have to choose the type of enema and nozzle to the receiver and choose the nozzle and the type of enema if I am the receiver. Sometimes I suggest and I let myself be suggested. What I consider important is participation and help to reach orgasm. If I want an enema I ask and I'm ready to give it if I'm asked

I would much rather be told that I'm getting an enema than ask for one. Although there is something to say for the pervy sort of kinda embarrassing factor of telling someone you need an enema it doesn't work for me.

Probably because I never "Need" one as in I'm never medicly in need due to constipation or anything. I almost ALWAYS want one so if it has been a while since I've indulged I will drop hints.

If enough time goes by I become crabby and in a lousy mood. I guess than you can say I "need" one but than its a behavior attitude adjustment.

I'm not entirely sure why but I won't really come right out and ask for one. In my head a big part of the fun is pretending I don't want one but am getting one anyway and that gets sorta ruined if I came right out and asked.

In consensual enema play I would prefer that the prior discussed details of the enema were followed without any unwanted surprises. Any variations could also be discussed during the process, but must be agreed upon by all parties. Setting pre limits only adds to the anticipation of giving or receiving the enema.

Within consensual enema giving, usually with me as switch receiving, I normally do it and enjoy doing it in two ways. One is just straightforward "we know we enjoy enemas so lets do one or more and get aroused by it and see what kind of fun sexuality ensues." The other is straight D/s with one of us as sub, usually me, being given a "forced" enema(s) under direction of my Domme with a great deal of moaning, complaining, pleading and so on mixed in with her stern directions and commentary on the fate of my colon and orgasm. Both are delightful, but since I get a great deal of thrill and satisfaction from the submission/humiliation aspects of an enema, I'd usually opt for the D/s scenario.

Eric

Yes all the above

when and where lol

All of the above

Hi Again Group, I love both getting an enema and being watched while it is given to me, I am guessing the humility of it all really gets me all worked up.....I am one woman who wants the person giving it or administering the enema, to be totally in control of my every move, thought and process from start to finish....I have taken many enemas solo, but the best ones I have ever had are the ones given to me....I am a natural submissive and turning this form of control over to another just really arouses me to heights like no other play.....I love to sometimes be forced to take very large amounts and to be made to hold it all in...I have been given enemas in the past in front of as many as 4 or 5 people before, and made to walk around with the hose and nozzle left in me while they all watched this take place....Thinking of this and even mentioning it has me wanting to repeat those scenarios all over again ...Enjoy !...

Looking at a person who takes an enema I like. Like more, if you do not want to take enema because it is ashamed, but then is forced to do enema and try to avoid the look of those present. This reminds me a lot of my adolescence.

Enema-loving-mature-woman, I volunteer to join in watching you. Anytime!!

You would volunteer to watch ???

Hell ...... I'll volunteer to give.

For every single enema I’ve had, I’ve been watched. I’m always out in the humiliating bent over position with my head and chest rested on the bed and my bottom in the air. It doesn’t turn me on at all, in fact, enemas are my least favourite part of rectal examinations and medications.

My favorite of the choices would be to be given to. Second would be to give. I do love to watch pretty ladies being given an enema and, depending on who was watching, it might be exciting to be watched. I'm willing to find out.

Is all of the above a choice, because that is what I prefer

I have given enemas to two people. Both a one time event, which I did enjoy on both occasions. I have not received an enema from someone yet.

But what it really comes down to, is if the person you are giving to or getting from is as into enemas as you are. I am into erotic enemas and if the person you are sharing with is of the same mindset then that can be super hot and sexy.

So which do I prefer? Well flip a coin. Giving an enema to someone and bringing them to orgasm while getting an enema would be so hot. Getting a enema and being brought to orgasm right as the bag emptied, super hot and body shaking.

The key is finding someone who is just like you and has the same erotic desire for enemas, which is easier said than done.