MEN wanting to be a WOMAN

Back at the height of my wearing women's girdles, panties, and bras I wished to have a woman's body without being a woman - I know, an impossibility.

I'm a cuckold male in chastity. I don't have sex with my wife. When we use to it was always disappointing for her. I very rarely if ever made her cum. We had sex for procreation but it always left her unsatisfied and wanting. Then to make a long story short, we get into this lifestyle. I'm in lock 24/7, she is fair about it, if she gets laid and is satisfied, when she comes home, she unlocks me and tells me every detail of her date. I'm allowed to jerk off as I listen to her tell me about everything, from how her clothes came off, insertion, how it felt, how hard she came. As she tells me this I close my eyes and in my mind I become here, doing what she did, feeling what she felt. She is very detailed when she tells me how he opened her bra, I feel his fingers on my back. When she tells me how he kissed her neck, I feel his lips, his breath. When he enters her I lift my behind and spread my legs like he is entering my pussy. When she cums I feel her excitement and pleasure. I'm her, I'm a women. . Then I'm locked back in till I can be her again....toni

Also 1 in 4000 to 5000 cis gender, or biological, woman don't have a vagina canal and can't have babies. And there are other reasons cis gender woman can't get pregnant… Are they not female? No, they are true female as well as any other woman, just unlucky to be able to have babies. But they are still woman.

Just like some man with a penis and 1 or more testicles, but no sperm count for example, cant father children, are they still man?

Those are obvious physical abnormalities. They don't make anyone less a man or woman.

To extrapolate, psychological abnormalities don't make anyone less a man or woman, either...

It seems to me that everyone has the right to look the way they feel. However, in our society, all this is suppressed and some people cannot be tolerant and respectful of other people's choices. It makes you feel guilty about being "not normal". But the trick is that everything is absolutely right with you. I admire such people who decided to take such a serious step, because it is a huge willpower to be who you feel and have the courage to open up to others. My admiration, dear.

I'm a 21 male, i accepted my nature but I don't feel ok with this body and this life. Actually I keep dreaming about being a girl since I was 7/8 years old. I can't understand why and I have two theories:

1- I'm so attracted by women that I want to be one. I wanted to feel cute, attractive, fragile and strong at the same time

2- I'm actually both a man and a girl with two equal sides that need their attention

I think I will never do transition because I'm not brave enough and I won't be determined enough to totally abandon my man side.

But I remember myself as a child when I went do bed, keep praying and dreaming about waking up as a girl.

I'm a 35 male, I accepted my nature too, long ago and I never really feeled dysphoria. My story is pretty much the same than Midas. Always dreaming about being a girl, with a fully girl body, wearing pretty dresses, skirts, coton panties, gym leotard and so on. Also, I never wanted to grow up.

I think I am both a man and a little girl in my soul.

I'd define myself as a lesbian stuck in a mans body. I wouldn't want to change my sexual orientation, saying I'd continue seeing women…

Never thought about being a woman, until married and my wife dressed me up as a woman for Halloween. I didn’t realize how nice wearing panties, stockings, garter belt, girdle, short skirt, see thru blouse with bra was. She also put balloons filled with water to the perfect size in the bra.

After that one time it turned into many more nights at home for bedtime fun. Over the years my wife shopped for me buying all kinds of women's clothing, surprising me.

My wife’s biggest fantasy was to be seduced by another woman. I am happy she chose me. My happiest time was when we ordered a strap on penis. On a few occasions I found out what it was like to get penetrated and screwed. I like being a man also.

@ElDesconocido I'd define myself as a lesbian stuck in a mans body. I wouldn't want to change my sexual orientation, saying I'd continue see women…

My feelings as well… and adding to what I wrote below about my wearing women's girdles, panties, and bras when I was younger and wishing wishing I had a woman's body – But there's a paradox in that; if granted my wish, would I still be turned on by the sight of the women's undergarments I mentioned? Women I've know who are into women are turned on to the woman, not to/by the girdles, panties, etc. they are wearing.

My feelings as well… and adding to what I wrote below about my wearing women's girdles, panties, and bras when I was younger and wishing wishing I had a woman's body – But there's a paradox in that; if granted my wish, would I still be turned on by the sight of the women's undergarments I mentioned? Women I've know who are into women are turned on to the woman, not to/by the girdles, panties, etc. they are wearing.

Ahh you mean those stretching longer down the legs, or just like shaping panties?…

…Too bad I can't just shapeshift back and fourth into a woman…

I think every guy should try cross dressing ( complete including prep a 100% feminine clothing and underwear and make up and breast forms ,even corsets). Try and do it in group with a woman coach. Stay dressed all day and partake of activities ,even swimming and meals. You do get a new prospective on being a woman.If you are truly a person who will try most anything ,this is fun and a no-brainer . The challenge is can you pass with strangers ,which is something you do with more experience. I have enjoyed this many times and stayed the part for as long a 4 days. Got out of the habit and have-not engaged for some time. It is more fun doing it with women. The visit to the other sides really was cool. But ,I still like being a guy.

I think every guy should try cross dressing ( complete including prep a 100% feminine clothing and underwear and make up and breast forms ,even corsets). Try and do it in group with a woman coach. Stay dressed all day and partake of activities ,even swimming and meals. You do get a new prospective on being a woman.

That idea does have a certain logic to it. Sounds sensible.

Sort of like getting into character during a historical reenactment or when assuming the role of a character during a theatrical performance. It would certainly give people a new perspective on things like being a woman in this world.

I don’t think that I would actually want to be a woman, BUT,II really do like the feelings I get when wearing girdles and bras (which is virtually everyday). I find both to be very comfortable with my very severe lower back arthritis and very enlarged breasts which are the result of medical issues. I also like the girdles for the abdominal and butt firming action from lots of flabbiness left after losing just under 100 pounds about 20 years ago.

Please check out my PROFILE PAGE for more info about my love of girdles and bras! I am of the “older” generation and still enjoy seeing women dressed in girdles! Sexy, to say the least!

@agracier It would certainly give people a new perspective on things like being a woman in this world.

Back when I was wearing women's girdles beneath my male attire, the feeling of being in a girdle gave me a new perspective, thinking about what real gals wearing them back in the 1950's might have experienced… one thing was a girdle's tightness served as a constant reminder that I had it on, causing me to feel sexy as I thought about the hidden girdle with garters holding up stockings. Created a desire to show it off! If real women felt this, it might have been easier than I thought to chat them up and gain a peak or two of them girdled.

Sigh..if I could win one of those mega big lotteries rather than having the lottery gods laughing their collective arses off every time I get a ticket, I would be on my way in a heartbeat…would be a tough sell to a doc at my age but I would sure give it a go.

Elaine

@ElaineWCD the oldest trans woman I know of had her GRS surgery in her 80's

All you need is 2 referral letters from 2 different shrink's, be in good health, money or a good insurance, and sign up with a surgeon.

Hello

My wife emailed me this and I was told to answer truthfully.

The few that know us know the path we have been on, it started as a fun weekend chastity game and slowly becoming very real. My feminizing was mostly because I needed to be controlled. 8 years later now. Yes if I could become a full time woman, yes. It was a very difficult journey in the beginning.

I always thank the good friends on here that were so helpful and supportive AND YOU GUYS KNOW WHO YOU ARE 💋💋😊…

I would like to be a woman for a few days, assuming is not the period days. I would like to experience sex from a woman's point of view. I would like to seduce men who are attractive to me. I would like to experience giving blow jobs and multiple orgasms from my male partners. I would like to try a sibean and other fuck machines. But mostly I would want to experience real sex with real men.

I would like to be a woman for a few days, assuming is not the period days.

Agree regarding period days and some other days too. Yes I would love a female body to my specifications, boobs , butt, small waist. Would indeed be fun to see how the other side lives and interacts. As far as sex, would love to know what it feels like to have a vagina and get fucked and more. Fashion and being able to dress like women do, that i would love almost over everything. Yes lots of males like me are jealous, but we also know in many ways they have it tougher too.

It’s a real thing…the more I “blend” the gender lines the more comfortable I am in my own skin. I find the more I’m Blanda the calmer I am. I like being both a man and a woman. I just wish I would have found my happy place long ago. My new friends are I think my true friends…the path was a long and winding one. As I slow down on this path I’m enjoying life more.

I think we all are a blend. As I get older I want to experience what girls and women feel. I am happy as a man, and would be happy to be able to feel emotionally and physically as a girl. I have been on hormones for a year and developed some breast which feels great. More important is my serene feeling I attribute to the feminizing effects of the estrogen. I love my new self, and my girlfriend does too. I don't want to trade genders, but love the way life is now.

Yes, still would like to have breasts, and a vagina. Just a few minutes ago, I took a 1 quart soapy enema. Needed relief, and it worked. Next put on an adult diaper and pair of silk panties over the diaper. That’s for leakage, as I am incontinent.

After my wife passed, I have to do things alone, which is not a lot of fun. She would administer my enema, and help me put on a diaper. When she wanted sex, she got out the nylon stockings, garter belt, panties, bra, and dress me up. Sex was fantastic, and I got to be the woman. Now that is all gone. Sad to get old.

I don't necessarily want to become a woman, don't get me wrong I'd love to have breasts. I wear panties 24/7, I keep my legs pubic area and underarms clean shaven or waxed. I wear perfume (victoria secrets “tease” and I also have full face makeup applied occasionally. My main thinking, there's no law that says I can't feminize so I do it because I enjoy. I'm a man, I'm a myth and I've got my own plans.

I always thought it would be nice to see how the other half lives. And have the option for double standards. Wish there was a pill that would let you change for a week.

Not necessarily wanting to - but having the experience of changing sex. Zerophilia is a 2005 romantic comedy film with speculative-fiction elements about a young man who discovers that he has a genetic condition which will cause a change of sex following each orgasm.

Imagine having sex as a man and then the next time experience it as a woman…… and so on, and so on!

@explorer902 I think every guy should try cross dressing ( complete including prep a 100% feminine clothing and underwear and make up and breast forms ,even corsets).

I did it (well wearing a pantygirdle and stockings beneath my male attire to work for a time, and it was certainly an experience! Two things I realized in doing this - 1) an appreciation of what women went through back in the day - Combining girdles, stockings, shoes, bra, all the other things a gal had to getting ready for work (makeup, nails, hair, blouse, dress, etc.) and wow- it's a hassle! 2) a nicely designed, feminine girdle with garters and wearing stockings makes you feel sexy and want to show off.

Speaking of wanting to show off, I did a thread about how dressing up helps in being bi - https://en.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;msg=1112598

My husband lives much of his life in a feminized sissy mode. He has told me a number of times how much more comfortable his panties, thongs, and even his g-strings are than his "tightie-whities" are.

He wears a wide assortment of feminine items under his outer clothing, and quite often as outer wear. Women's blouses, shorts, capris, women's jeans, on occasions a flowing dress or skirt are his dress for the day. It is unusual for him to not have two or more feminine items on or more.

I have instructed him in fem grooming - hair, skin care, tweezing and plucking, shaving and waxing, and appropriate use of make-up. Under my direction and with his submissive disposition we have made some physical body alterations and we continue to promote that process. He really likes and enjoys being in feminine as much as he can, however he has absolutely no desire to be a woman.

DommeOB

enjoys being in feminine as much as he can, however he has absolutely no desire to be a woman

Kind of a paradox, and as one who shaves and wore girdles, stockings, bras, panties - gives me pause to think about my desires. Your husband is most lucky to have you!

As a man, I thoroughly enjoy and appreciate all aspects of femininity. Silk and lace panties, garter belts, thigh high stockings, girdles are all sexy and beautiful , on a man or woman. I have no desire to transition or change my body because I enjoy my cock , and I enjoy anal play… whether a woman is using a strapon and pegging me, or I’m exchanging a tantric nude oil massage and spanking with another man….

Now if I can find my combination and have a threesome with a couple(guy and a girl), that would be hot. 😊

But not easy to find a couple where the woman is “accepting” and encouraging her husband/partner to explore bisexuality with her..

Is it possible that the men that want to be a woman has a birth defect in the sense that their chromosomes (or what ever body part) are not balanced. Like when a man gets older he looses his testosterone and some CD's tend to be more feminine as they get older?