The feeling the first time a penis entered your vagina

I remember that the first time my boyfriend and I tried he was only able to get halfway. The second time we tried he just... pushed... I remember clear as day an image just sprang into my mind of when you dive into a pool and swim under the water. So this is what they’re talking about, I thought. That was the beginning, for me.

Hi Ladies

For I was never a part of a defloration, I want to know your feelings. I would like to read your stories.

First time for penis/vagina is so different than later penetrations. Starts out you have a intense urge to receive penetration with normal fore-play but it hurt to lose my virginity, all physical. I still had a orgasm after a extended period sex. I was sore for a short time. I never had that soreness after sex in all other sexual episodes.

Janie

I physically lost my virginity some time before I attempted intercourse for the first time. Girlie games, followed by internal tampons all helped my hymen to rupture and disappear. The main thing I remember about my first intercourse was not really physical in any way, but the mental feeling of knowing that my boy friend, (who said he loved me)was entering me and taking pleasure from my body.

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@JSChallenger said

I physically lost my virginity some time before I attempted intercourse for the first time. Girlie games, followed by internal tampons all helped my hymen to rupture and disappear. The main thing I remember about my first intercourse was not really physical in any way, but the mental feeling of knowing that my boy friend, (who said he loved me)was entering me and taking pleasure from my body.

Didn't YOU take pleasure from HIS body? It works both ways.

A few months ago, there were a few unenlightened people here asking how I felt about "giving myself away" to so many boys and men. I told them I was not GIVING anything away. I was TAKING the use of the boy's bodies for MY pleasure.

@Janie39 said

First time for penis/vagina is so different than later penetrations. Starts out you have a intense urge to receive penetration with normal fore-play but it hurt to lose my virginity, all physical. I still had a orgasm after a extended period sex. I was sore for a short time. I never had that soreness after sex in all other sexual episodes.

That is only if you have not inserted or played with dildos or other penis sized objects prior to having intercourse.

I played with dildos, large candles, cucumbers among other objects and my first intercourse was a lot of fun, a great experience and without any pain. Years of childhood and early teenage playful vaginal insertions painlessly stretched out my hymen years before ever having intercourse.

The main thing I remember about my first intercourse was not really physical in any way, but the mental feeling of knowing that my boy friend, (who said he loved me)was entering me and taking pleasure from my body.

Should we be inserting laughs about here?

Should we be inserting laughs about here?

Why laughing? Too sentimental? Other?

Eric

Why laughing? Too sentimental? Other?

Eric

(who said he loved me) 😄 😃 😁 😁

The little head nearly always does the thinking for the big one.

(who said he loved me) 😄 😃 😁 😁

The little head nearly always does the thinking for the big one.

That reminds me of the song, "Paradise by the Dashboard Lights" by Meatloaf.

"I'll love you to the end of time", in the next stanza after the relationship goes sour, "I'm waiting for the end of time."

It's a pretty funny song.

Didn't YOU take pleasure from HIS body? It works both ways.

A few months ago, there were a few unenlightened people here asking how I felt about "giving myself away" to so many boys and men. I told them I was not GIVING anything away. I was TAKING the use of the boy's bodies for MY pleasure.

You little bitch. All these years I thought you were giving me the gift of a lifetime and now I see you were taking advantage of my good nature! 😜 🌹 😘

I was 15 at the time and didn’t know anything about sex. I was talked into it by a guy that was 21. I remember it hurt so bad and wondered why anyone would want to do that again. The next time (same guy) it didn’t hurt quite as bad, but I still didn’t understand what the big deal was. It didn’t feel that good. After 45 years of marriage I have since changed my mind!

I didn't understand at the time that it was wrong, but my older brother started touching me when I was around 5. He put his penis in both my butt and vagina and I just remember it hurt.

After 45 years of marriage I have since changed my mind!

Please tell us it didn't take all of those 45 years to change your mind.

I had a bad experience with a boy in high school and have only been with girls or alone since then. Now I am thinking (pushed by friends) to explore outside my experiences. I have had a dildo in my vagina but never a penis. I am interested in what a man would feel like, but I do not want a repeat of the selfish boy who tried to use me. I want a caring and gentle man to help me see if that is what I want. I just don't know. My girl friends are all so sweet. I wonder if I can find a man that is caring?

I had a bad experience with a boy in high school and have only been with girls or alone since then.

@DarlaO I feel really bad for you, that all this time has gone on, and you have not yet been able to successfully get passed a bad experience from 35-40 years ago.

We're about the same age, and i think about how little sex i've had in all that time. Certainly should have had a whole lot more. So it makes me feel bad for you, knowing that all that time has gone by, with no fulfillment to show for it.

Hopefully, moving forward, you'll be able to find the right avenues to reach out to.

My first time was with my first cousin who had returned a few months earlier from vietnam. We had sex many times after that as well.

There's nothing to say about the first time except it fucking hurt. It's a wonder we go back for a second time.

As I have said in other posts, for the majority of women, the pleasure from intercourse is more of a psychological one rather than a physical one. So in my case I was not seeking his body for physical pleasure but I knew that him using my body for his physical pleasure gives a great boost to my mental well being at the time.

Ok, so this is really gross, I know.

It was around Christmas and we ad all gone to my uncle's house. I was around 14. The boys all stayed in my cousins room while us girls(there were 2 of us) slept in the den.

Early one morning, my cousin, 15 at the time, came in where we were. He came over to my sleeping bag and nudes me awake. He then went to my other cousin and nudged her awake. He told us that he had something for us. One of us could have it of a morning and one at night. I chose the morning.

He came over and laid down beside me. He then started taking off his underwear. I could see his erection through his boxers. He asked me to strip, so I did. He started kissing my nipples and worked his way down to my pussy. He spread my labia and ate me out. Just before I started to come, he put his penis inside me and pushed in hard a few times. It hurt because I was still a virgin but he gave me an insane orgasm. Out of the corner of my eye I could see my roommate cousin fingering herself while watching us.

It was very tight and my vagina felt very full. That's the only way I can describe it.

@MissPuffyButt no birth control?

I didnt know the difference. Let's just say that holiday is one I will never forget.

I was 18, finished the school and it were my first months in the university. For my parents, I now was considered “adult” enough, so I could be allowed to have a boyfriend finally and even spend some nights outside the house, without being claimed “young sl*t” and harassed. I was rather naive, and he was older (like, 25) and used my naivety. After several dates I said to my parents “I'll stay with my friend to study and do a lab task” (there are different words in Russian for “a friend who is a boy” and “a friend who is a girl”, there is a word like “girlfriend” but meaning that she is just a friend - and I said that, implying I'll stay with some girl who is my friend) but in fact I went directly to him, we walked on the streets, then came to his house, spoke a lot about everything but I knew it will happen tonight.

I came to his shower, leaved it in just a towel, and got into the bed under the blanket while he was showering himself. Then he came, and I was very nervous, but… at least he was calm and gentle. He calmed me down and started hugging and kissing, yet under the blanket. He was touching me softly, and I got very aroused but still had my scared mind fully on (rather than relaxed), “oh he will do it, it will be painful probably”. He was already lying on top of me and kissing and rubbing but still under that blanket and I thought that he'll remove the blanket and throw it away, to do it properly and see my naked body, and I expected everything to happen after he gets away the blanket, but suddenly I felt something is stretching me there, where it never been stretched, and I am now… filled. If there was some pain, it was very little and I probably haven't even noticed it much, just the feeling of stretch. He was slow and gentle, so it was not discomfortable, just unusual. He slowly moved there, I haven't reached orgasm of course but I was feeling some pleasure even on the first time. He came inside me and haven't let me go to the shower (I didn't even had any blood so that was… nasty but okay) till the morning, and by the morning I was feeling completely dirty (after him doing it once more in the middle of the night, waking me from my dreams, and on the morning) - that was probably his plan.

I had been stretching my hymen with my fingers and objects when I masturbated, so I didn't feel any pain when I first had intercourse. I was excited when it finally happened for the first time in my late teens, but there was no physical pleasure really, as it was over before things could get started. We were outdoors on a hike. We stopped along the trail and got amorous. He put his hands down my pants and I was sopping wet. My pants came off quickly and I leaned against a tree and spread my legs so he could enter me from behind. He fumbled around trying to find his way in, so I reached back and guided his penis to the right spot. In less than 30 seconds I felt his semen running down my leg. He was embarrassed. I told him it was fine.

The feeling was all I had imagined it to be! I had been masturbating for many years before then and had essentially taken my own virginity. There was absolutely no pain, but the fullness was exquisite! I was on top and honestly could have sat there with his cock in me for ages! I must have been driving him insane, because he finally begged me to move. LOL! The sex didn’t last long at all and he came rather quickly. I sent him packing and spent the rest of the night masturbating to the memory.