Who is better spanker a woman or men?

My mother would spank, my step father used switches (he was a great guy, i deserved most of it). As an adult prefer a woman spanking me and even better if i am in lingerie. Strong women can deliver some hard blows and i like hair brushes.

I've found that the better spanker is determined by the individual. Women/mother figures can be very stern and unyielding, especially with a hairbrush or paddle in hand. I've found that male spankers tend to tread more lightly, possibly from the fear of injury.

My mother was nicked named Sting Fingers by my Dad. But now I am the SPANK MASTER! See dave3's album.

I received many school swats from the dean of boys and coaches, all men and several from my aunt and later from a female acquaintance and also now from my wife, I must say I much prefer surrendering my bare bottom to a naked woman paddling my naked ass, i was never spanked by my father always my mother either over her knee with pants and underwear down with her hand and once as an older teen was told to pull my pants and underwear down and lay across the bed, she tore my ass up with a belt

Definitely men,my mum could lay it on hard but my Dad could really wallop my butt,it stung for ages after dad finished.

Mt father was definitely the harder spanker. He was a big man police officer very strict but not abusive. He spanked over his knee with his hand but always on our bare bottoms!!

Im a man and i can light it up if you like it that way.

Depends of your definition… to me spanking is a sensual and erotic experience vs a punishment. if my partner is into it then it doesnt matter of they are male or female.

I STRONGLY prefer women. But in my experience men are better spankers.

Has anyone seen Dr lomp videos. Highly aggressive cat. Caning and whipping. What he promises these girls women, I gotta know what it is. Dam when I see blood start running from those Caning strikes I start to lick the screen. Highly recommend if you're interested.

If one of you beautiful ladies, are interested in caning my ass, you have to be naked with me .no need to tie me up . I'll hang onto what ever I'm against, preferably another woman. Don't worry I won't let you get hit. I have not done that. Caning that is. I wanna do it. But can't find a mistress. I respect and cherish all woman. Just in case I got a taker.

I'm wound up. It's been a spell, since I've been, touched, smelled ,tasted , a woman. I would have to have to have an coffee enema first.

Women hands down. my X could tear my ass a new one. bless her heart. she in in the flower bed now…

I believe Womans, they have a firm and caring attitude while spanking someone. They know what is the appropriate amount of spanking required.

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In my opinion and only my opinion for me, I would say women, they know what you need when you misbehave ,especially when you are younger and not afraid to care out the punishment, but in the end their doing it because they love you and care about you, but not afraid to spank that bare bottom of yours over their firm knee's.

Women.

My mother bye far all ways made good job on me.

What women lack in strength compared to a man is more than made up for in determination and desire to thoroughly punish. Nobody has ever exceeded my mom's spankings, not even the harsh school paddlings.

I would have to say, women, for sure! When my Mom or Aunt decided that a spanking was necessary; you knew you would not be getting back up and off their laps for quite some time! They fully intended, with their hairbrushes, to make damn sure your buttocks were crimson, epecially around the 'sit spots' and crowns, hot to the touch, too sensitive and sore to sit comfortably on, and radiating a prickly heat that only a real spanking can generate! Blazing 'rosy sunsets over Butt Hill'! They also wanted genuine tears and authentic contrition before the spanking was concluded; along with the 'usual full orchestral performance' so as to demonstrate to them, that 'the medicine was working' and 'the lesson was being driven home!' Looking back now these punishments were not called DAMNED GOOD SPANKINGS or GOOD OLD FASHIONED SPANKINGS for nothing; they were intended to be memorable and indeed unforgettable; and boy, oh boy, oh boy, oh boy, were they ever!!!!

My mom is a spanko so definitely her in my case. Lol

I think it depends on how you define better. In my experience,men spanked harder,making me sob like a baby with fewer licks. However, my spankings from women left me feeling more loved and forgiven and better inside overall.

Better spanker - men or women? Back in my young years, women seemed to be more into it....

I have never read anything that made any distinction between the sexes. I did hear a tape by Eve Howard, one of the founder of "Shadow Lane" where she stated that "Switches" administered the hardest spankings.

@ddell2 as a switch I can only say I give as hard I as get. I wouldn’t do anything to a lady I wouldn’t expect them to do to me. Momma always said, “What’s good for the goose is good for the gander.”

I really don't think it has anything at all to do with gender. I think both some men and women (fathers and mothers) are quite adept at delivering a thorough, effective spanking to the recipient while there are some men and woman (fathers and mothers) who fail miserably at the task. It seems more a matter of attitude, temperament and willingness to get the job done well. This may be particularly true with fathers and mothers with errant children but also true of adult spankings. While care must always be taken to never cause damage, I would think that the fear of hurting the recipient might be a significant variable in how effectively someone spanks. Of course the idea of giving a disciplinary spanking IS to inflict unpleasant and unwanted pain. Without that, it's hardly punishment which a spanking is supposed to be. Some parents/adults recognize that fact and proceed accordingly with purpose and without remorse or reacting to the tears and pleas of the recipient. These, I think are the "better spankers".

I really don't think it has anything at all to do with gender. (...) Of course the idea of giving a disciplinary spanking IS to inflict unpleasant and unwanted pain. Without that, it's hardly punishment which a spanking is supposed to be. Some parents/adults recognize that fact and proceed accordingly with purpose and without remorse or reacting to the tears and pleas of the recipient.

I'm of the same opinion. In my house, my mother administered corporal punishment. However, I was spanked as a child by two other women (a teacher, an aunt). Both of them beat weaker than my mother. Mom was able to give a spanking that was painful but did not cause any injury. Someone who spanks must not be afraid to cause pain, and at the same time not exceed certain limits. This is a difficult task and does not depend on gender.

Back in my day (early 1950's) women were the ones doing all of the regular spankings.... it took lest to tick a mother off is what I'm saying...

That was not my experience at all growing up in the 1950's. I could be spanked by either of my parents until I was 5 years old. After that it was considered my father's task. Where I lived, most children got spanked at least occasionally. Some quite frequently and the boys seemed to be spanked more than the girls and fathers were very much involved in providing this punishment. If I "ticked off" my mother, she would see to it that Dad gave me a good spanking before bed that night. Where I grew up women were not necessarily the ones doing all the regular spankings.

Having been spanked growing up by mom and friend's parents, mostly moms (normal in the 1960s and 1970s) I found that women were thorough and better spankers and men spanked harder.

Having been spanked growing up by mom and friend's parents, mostly moms (normal in the 1960s and 1970s) I found that women were thorough and better spankers and men spanked harder.

What makes a mom spanking better and more thorough than a harder dad spanking?

Did moms spend more time delivering a spanking? Did they tan a greater portion of your bottom? Could you tell a mom spanking apart from a dad spanking by just looking at the bottom afterwards?

I feel like this is probably a matter of preference and perspective. My father was not around and I never really had a familial father-type figure. My mom spanked me up until I was 16. I'm sure that's had an impact on my preferences now as an adult lol. I've never really had any interest in being spanked by a man. It just doesn't appeal to me.

This is one of those "unanswerable" questions. I don't think men are inherently better spankers than women are, or vice versa. In our home, my mom and dad were both very capable spankers.