Women who PREFER anal sex

I finally *met* someone online who has proclaimed that straight out. She is a young adult and fingers her anus for pleasure. Having said that, what's said online doesn't always make it real, so until/unless I meet someone in the flesh, I'll not believe what I'm told without physical proof. I'd love to meet someone who wants 100% anal, but - well - that's just another very long dream.

Well it is possible that womans do prefer anal intercourse. My Wife first hated anal sex and the idea behind. After some smooth anal play she got into it. Now she does prefer anal to vaginal intercourse. To get pleasure from it she uses all the time a small virbator on her clitoris while i penetrate her ass. This way she allways does have an orgasm.

I guess its how a womans anal experiences are, that makes her like or dislike it.

Alright, you guys can say and think all you want, but I'd like to hear from a few women on this.

I like anal sex a lot, but let me tell you something. Anal sex is just unnatural, and let me see, how do I say this, vaginal intercourse is just tops. It's the bees knees. Oh, when you rattle it around just right inside, oooooh myyyy god....

(thank you Lois for lending me this quote)

Really, vaginal sex is better. Anal sex is just different.

Anal sex is good when I want something hard and dirty.

And the G spot is in the vagina, not the anal cavity.

^^^^ That too, although you can reach it from the rectum.

^^^^ Anal sex is more natural than ear sex.

You can access the G-spot rectally, but I find it hard to impossible to believe anyone gets better G-Spot stimulation from anal sex than vaginal sex.

Well, Susie, I cannot disagree with you because we are talking about an anatomy that you have and I do not, and in any case you are far more qualified to talk about pretty much anything anatomical, sexual, medical, etc. than I am.

But we can agree that one person's anatomy does not precisely align with another's, even if they are the same sex. Perhaps the anatomy of some women aligns in such a way that the tighter anal muscles grip the fingers/penis/toy in a way that applies a different kind of pressure on the g-spot, which just happens to be the variation of g-spot stimulation that some women prefer. We do know that different folks like different strokes.

Anyway, quincy said the g-spot is in the vagina- false. As I explained before that, the g-spot is not in the vagina itself- it is adjacent to the vaginal wall and stimulated through the vaginal wall (as well as the rectal wall, as we have said).

Furthermore, if we consider the structure of the internal clitoris within the pelvic floor and its responsibility for the pleasurable feelings a woman experiences during penetrative sex, then maybe the part of the internal clitoris that extends towards the rear, the crura, are more pleasurably stimulated through anal penetration in some women than the corpus cavernosum clitoris, the part that surrounds the vagina, is during vaginal sex.

Too much semantics here for me, but saying the G-spot is not "in the vagina" is like saying the tonsils are not "in the mouth". They are both close enough to be as described.

Based on your reasoning, see how good a time your girlfriend has if you try to stimulate your her G-spot pressing supra-bubically on her abdomen through her bladder.. GOOD LUCK!

I'm still waiting for a woman to chime in.

@Switchablesusie

Well back to main topic. I guess there are womans that do prefere anal intercourse to the vaginal intercourse.

As I discribed my wifes prefers anal sex. A few indicators may have made this possible. She does not agree on those and does not disagree. Maybe she is shy about the following:

She first did not like anything that included anal. I told her that I would like to try it, but she refused all the time. Will giving birth she had a 3 degree "tear of the perineum". Means the part between vagina and anus got teared apart. Even a bit of the anus was included. 3 moths after giving birth we started having sex again by slow steps.

That time she explored that a vibrator on the clitoris colud do some magic. But while doing her vagina she seemd to have pain by looking on her face. She did not agree on that, but I am not stupid, so I noticed. That time I also discovered that her anus was pulsing so sweet when she had a clitoral orgasm.

So I slowly started to include her anus into the play. She started to like it. After some time she told me that she may seems to like anal sex becuase she liked the playing with her anus. Over months I started to upgrade the play. Started to insert my finger, later a second one. then some toys.

The first two times I used my penis I was very careful.

Now she is open to it. If I ask her what hole I shloud fuck her she allways tells I should use her ass.

If I try to fuck her vagina she stops me after a few minutes and tells me to use her ass.

As far as I can tell the birth gave her some internal damage or some kind of trauma that does not allow her to have the full pleasure from vaginal sex anymore. Her face still looks like pain there. But if I take her trough her backdoor she has pleasure and comes to an orgasm fast, without a pain face.

She allways uses a vibe on her clit. So her orgasms and fun are not only from anal sex. Its from both, clit and anal penetration.

Nathie--Quite a turnabout...Some would say fortunate in--deed.

I like anal sex - I love vaginal sex. Vaginal sex - warm, fuzzy, or hot, it will get me off every time, with or without 'help', I will get mine. Anal sex - I like it because it is when I am feeling - 'whip and ride lil buckeroo!' Anal sex - it is, or starts out, when I just want to get fucked, and my hands will be there to make sure I get mine. Vaginal sex - curls my toes, buckles my knees, makes me quiver, all by its lonesome. Anal sex - that's for when I'm not feeling so 'sentimental' and just want to be fucked, but by the right guy.

@That Australian

Well yes. This "opend" some new possibilities for me. I do like anal sex, but I do kinda miss hot vaginal sex as well 😉

I'm a woman and I DO prefer anal sex 😃 actually, I only play solo, and guess what - my ass is the only hole vibrators and plugs go into. So yes, we are real! 😃

Anal sex is my favorite. I love the full body orgasms I get with anal. I also have multiple orgasms. As many as four in the same session. My favorite way is having anal laying on my back on my exam table with my feet in the stirrups. This is a comfortable and intimate position which allows my husband to kiss me. I lose control when he puts a finger tip into my belly button and gently massages me there. I have no idea what the connection is but when I let loose my entire body quakes. I even squirt pee because I cannot control anything. We do anal as deep as possible with my husband penetrating me past my Sigmoid Colon. Those sigmoid muscles automatically grasp the head of his penis. They snap around him like a rubber band. I flex and hold him there. It's at this point where I'm in complete control. I flex and he shutters! We never do the hard jack hammer type anal sex. We go deep, slow and easy with much kissing and eye contact. Often I'll drape my legs over his shoulders or wrap my legs around him. We have been enjoying anal sex for a good 35 years. We use to do the enema clean out ordeal but we quit doing that years ago. We do it as I am. I like it better that way. To me it's more intimate and accepting.

It seems maybe there are three very general groups in terms of most often type of intercourse practiced.

group 1: those that don't like anal sex and don't do it at all and are vaginal exclusive

group 2: those that like to do both vaginal and anal

group 3: those that like anal over vaginal

If this were a pie chart, I am guessing group 1 is largest, group 2 next in size, and group 3 the smallest. As sky said of the anal preferred group, "So yes, we are real!"

Yes they are definitely out there. Maybe not in large numbers but they are out there.

I guess I would say that I fall into group 2.

Mashie

A psychologist could have had a field day with my ex-wife. She purported to enjoy sex but she was very hard to satisfy with vaginal intercourse or even cunnilingus. She said anal sex was painful and disgusting and she hated it. But, give her a couple of drinks and she would willingly present her anus and proceeded to work herself up into a big orgasm in no time at all. It was always baffling to me.

My current wife wants no part of anal sex but we get on very nicely without it, thank you.

I personally enjoy both but vaginally sex is definitely more pleasurable for me.

I prefer anal sex for the simple reason is that there is absolutely no chance of getting pregnant. It is also less messy, because his semen stays inside instead of leaking out. And sometimes I can even have a natural (pee) enema

Mmh. My wife is a big fan of vaginal sex, actually over oral (oral is an appetizer but is frustrating as an entrée, she says), man on top or woman on top.

Yet, once in a while, she just wants anal. The thing is, she climaxes less easily in the rear than in the front (she has to finger herself during the act), while I tend to climax faster in the anus, so it's not for ease of orgasm. It's when she wants to take it in a submissive and shameful way... something like the front hole is for respectable wives and the rear hole is for naughty girls. When she's like that she comes to me and says in a little ashamed voice "tonight I would like it... in the rear", knowing that it involves a little enema or two, a little spanking and then the shameful act (or sometimes vaginal, her orgasm, then anal to finish me off).

So well for her it's: it depends on her mood.

While I certainly fall into group 2, I'm definitely a group 3 person. Love everything about anal sex as long as my partner takes his time and lots of lube is used. It makes me feel so naughty!

Si fut chai in Cantonese means a child born out of the rectum instead of the vagina. Obviously it's an insult.

Si fut chai in Cantonese means a child born out of the rectum instead of the vagina. Obviously it's an insult.

That's one I'll remember. Could be useful sometime.

I can't say my wife prefers anal sex, but there was a period when she would regularly request it, if she was feeling particularly naughty, or "dirty" as she would say. Lately, she will act indifferent or uninterested in anal sex, but once I started to stroke her anus gently with my finger, it's like a trigger: her sighs and moans take on a new tone, she gyrates her hips as I slip one finger in, and then another. By the time, I get 3 fingers into her anus, she is an animal in heat and quickly yields to my penis and full anal sex. Of course, I find it both very satisfying and arousing to bring her through these stages from indifference to the point where she so badly wants it. It's a slow, but incredibly erotic experience!

I would also fall into group 3.

I enjoy all sex, and orgasm from just about anything (lucky me)! Liking anal more really has less to do with the way it makes my body feel and more to do with the way it makes my mind feel. I have things in my past that make me lean that way and the insane mental thrill I get from every aspect, the cleaning and prep to the deed itself, hits just the right spot for me. I have found though, strangely enough, that there are a lot of guys who do not prefer someone who enjoys it over vaginal.

I enjoy anal sex some times but I love love love vaginal sex. I think I must be in group 2 but shouldn't there be another group for women who like me do anal but prefer vaginal?

I have found though, strangely enough, that there are a lot of guys who do not prefer someone who enjoys it over vaginal.

I think the only reason why a lot of guys would rather have vaginal sex is that they think that genital-genital sex is the only way to "officially" "go all the way." So anal is indirect, almost more like how oral sex or a hand job is. Anything that is not putting the "p" in the "v" is a compromise to some people.

I used to feel that way, and I regret that I ever held such naive beliefs. Luckily, I soon met a woman who corrected those attitudes and taught me that it's not the activity that matters, it's how much it arouses both partners and how intensely they both orgasm from it. In many cases, that does not necessarily require vaginal sex, and in many cases, anal sex feels best for both people involved. Sometimes it's great to learn something the hard way, if you know what I mean!

Here's a woman who REALLY ENJOYS her anal. http://www.redtube.com/456863

Group 2 here! I love anal sex, but I have to be in the mood for it; otherwise, it's a no go. Let's face it; vaginal sex is simply easier and progresses along much faster. But, the anticipation that builds up with preparing to be penetrated from behind is bar none THE BEST!

Trust me my friend. There are plenty of women love anal sex me included.