Who have you told about your enema habits?

My wife and I are both pretty private but we leave signs out. When I was dating my wife, one night I was at her house she rented, when I walked into the kitchen a hot water bottle was upside down drying in the dish rack beside the sink. That made it easy to ask a few questions but she was obviously embarrassed.

We had known each other for some months and had been more serious for only maybe ten days. As it turned out, she wanted to set the hook, we ended up getting pretty turned on and she said she wanted me to fuck her ass. Afterwards she told about giving herself a couple of enemas to clean out for some hoped for anal sex. I asked her if I could give her an enema and her eyes opened and she smiled and said certainly.

It wasn't long before she was using her bag on me that night as well. She has a nurse friend that she shares enema stories and techniques with, and another friend of mine mentioned one day while dating a new girl friend wanted to give him an enema and he didn't want to say no and was glad he didn't. So we know a couple of families that use enemas for pleasure. We adopted the routine of leaving a douche bag on the back of the bathroom door with an enema nozzle on it. Every so often someone makes a comment or two but no one else has talked about being hooked yet. The woman talk more, and the wife has mentioned to some of her friends that when she gives me an enema it seems to change my disposition in a good way. That is the sum total of our experiences with others and ourselves.

@Mike_E you are lucky to have a girlfriend who enjoys anal sex and enemas

@Mike_E said,

When I was dating my wife, one night I was at her house she rented, when I walked into the kitchen a hot water bottle was upside down drying in the dish rack beside the sink.

When we were kids in the fifties, it was normal to see a douche/enema bag hanging in most everyone’s bathroom, and our bathroom at home was no different. After our RN grandmother taught us personal hygiene as preteens and enemas were our responsibility. My siblings and I started giving each other enemas after school in the afternoon. My girlfriend, having seen the bag in our bathroom, asked my sister if she wouldn’t mind give her a couple of enemas one afternoon. Her period had started earlier that day and she was having cramps. My sister agreed, giving her the enemas, she asked for. During the enemas the girls talked, my sister telling my girlfriend about our after-school activities. A month or two later, my girlfriend asked me, if I would swap enemas with her during her period. I agreed, and we gave each other enemas until we went our separate ways after graduating from High School.

A number of years later, when I was dating the girl who became my wife. Like my teenage girlfriend, she saw the bag hanging in our bathroom. This opened the door, so to speak, for questions. And once we got married, we used enemas for both health and pleasure.

My wife died nearly 20 years ago and she hated my enema habbit. Trying to be TOTALLY OPEN with any new partners, I carefully told new partners of my pleasures and saddly when one of my earlier suitors and I split up, she purposely went around ALL of my friends to inform them of my 'disgusting' habbit. I often wonder when I see those various friends whether the thought goes through their minds when they see my, "I wonder how many enemas he has had today". I have a partner these days that accepts what I do, BUT, my pleasures these days is SOLO. regards, irrigator333.

I usually talk very casually about sexual subjects with the women I’m involved with as we laugh and make jokes.

Hanging out with nurses or retired nurses, when it seems natural to add an enema joke or remark, I do. Usually more laughter.

If the lady I’m with is into enemas for pleasure, the conversation will continue. If not, it goes no further.

I’ve had some women ask me about giving enemas in a more serious tone. At that moment I know more than likely that we will be enemates at some point.

I get amazing sexual arousal from giving first-time enemas to a new lady. If they are totally enema ignorant, I always tell the non-nurses that they will need three bags in the different positions.

I call the three bags “an enema,” never a series.

From that point on, they are always ready for three enemas whenever we play.

Over the years, I’ve been amazed at the nurses who are totally against enemas and are shocked at the thought of getting one or giving one, but because it’s always brought up in a joking way, it passes with no problem.

I told my trusted Medical MD with the facts. He has recommended that i eat more fiber. During annual check up when he checks on the prostate, I have noticed, he also checks on the space or expanse in that area as well.

Nobody - Except for the wonderful people here!

Only my ex knew about it, and she would indulge my enema love and give them to me. I have never told anyone else except on line. At this point in my life if I did get involved with someone I would absolutely positively bring it up.

In my family enemas were not advertised but common knowledge, in the same category of brushing teeth. Growing up I started using enemas for pleasure, but neve hid the use of them. When I introduced my wife to them, she thought it was the best thing. She hated oral laxatives and they became common talk with her friends and family. A bag was hanging behind our bathroom door, and anyone could see it. As with all things that are "normal", nobody paid attention. After her sickness and passing, having the bag in the open, helped a lot in the enema seduction of my longtime neighbors. We enjoyed enemas threesomes and other games for a couple of years until they moved. We are still in touch and have met with great pleasure occasionally.

I have many friends not interested in nozzle games that still come to see me for my cooking and company, use my bathroom and think nothing of it.

They may think me weird or kinky or whatever, but the hanging bag does not scare them off.

I am quite closeted. Only my wife knows and would occasionally indulge my kink. a few years ago she had a hysterectomy and has no interest in anything sexual front door or back. I fly solo now.

Of course, my mom and grandma knew I was giving myself enemas. Did they know it was mostly just for fun? Mom never said anything, but can a girl really be constipated that often?

My sister and I grew up giving each other and ourselves enemas for fun since we were about six and eight years old.

When I got married I tried to get my husband involved. He knew that I gave myself enemas from time to time, and one day when he walked in on me in the middle of the enema , he commented, “You sure give yourself a lot of enemas.” I used the opportunity to tell him that I liked them, and I thought we should do it together. It took some persuasion for him to give me one, and lots more persuasion before he would let me give him one. He never grew to like the enema as fun.

There have been a few others that know I gave myself enemas, but I didn’t admit that I did it for fun rather than necessity.

As preteens, after grandma taught us personal hygiene and we were responsible for ourselves. My siblings and I started swapping enemas. In the beginning, we only swapped enemas after school when we got home. Mom knew grandma taught us personal hygiene that summer. Because we overheard her asking grandma (a retired RN) to cover it with us. Having let us help the previous year, by give one another enemas under her supervision. But we weren’t sure, if she realized we were still giving each other enemas. So, to play it safe, we kept it private, only giving one another enemas after school when mom and dad weren’t home. However, over the next year, as we passed from being preteens to teenagers, we realized she’d known all along what we were up too. Opening up weekends, that we previously avoided. Making it more convenient to swap enemas, whenever we wanted. But only when mom was around.

At our grandmothers, we were even more open than we were at home. Grandma having taught her two preteen daughters personal hygiene, then gave them responsibility for our evening bath, including enemas when I was six. Was quite aware of what was going on. In the forties and fifties, it was commonplace for older kids in a family to take care of the younger ones. Giving them practical experience taking care of children under their parent's supervision.

My mom probably knew I took enemas. She never gave me one, but an aunt introduced me to an enema when I was young and something I fussed about, but led to my lifelong love of enemas. No playmates and no one in family knows of my kink.

Discretion is better. But an occasional hint brings out the best in people.

My Sir/hubby knows I have done it once....since I am new to this kink. I know that I truly feel better after.

One person (male) knows about Enema life. We use to get to gather every now and then and he would give me Enemas for the most part. Now and then I

would give him an Enema but most of the time he gave me the Enemas. Loved it..............Roger E

I've told lots of people in the context of health. Just yesterday, I found out that my next-door neighbors both take enemas for health reasons. Most people who know me well know about it because I've had a couple of chronic problems and it's the perfect way to talk about it. I have never told anybody about my erotic interest, but I would be taking enemas these days, even if they didn't have that component.

I have given enemas to a couple of women I knew well and have gotten several, but the vast majority have been either a colonic person or those that I took alone.

I think most of us are ashamed of liking enemas. It's important to remember that people were taking enemas 4000 years ago! A large teaching hospital still recommends them and coffee enemas were in the Merc nursing manual until the 60s.