Most embarrassing age

Definitley around 14-15, first gyno exams, and first time you actually pay attention and know what is happening at naked physicals.

And you are at an age where lubricant is leakinggg from you vagina, and covering all the paper underneath you and making it soo so noticable to the doc and nurse. I had some humiliating exams at that age, so aware of your exposedness

@Pammy32: 11 - 13, when as a girl whos breasts are just budding, you start wearing a bra.

Exactly! Between getting boobs and then my first period, it was an awful time. In both cases there was a certain envy of my friends who first got theirs, but when I got mine I was at first pleased and proud, but then reality set in. In time, girls begin to accept the bodily changes so let me just leave it at that.

Definitely the 12 to 15 ages because those were the years when I first had to get a jock strap, experienced my first nocturnal emission which was scary because I had no idea what it was, grew hair in new places, had to start using deodorant, and had to endure those sessions with my father when I received "the talk" which included explanations about what was happening to girls. While I might have seen my two sisters in the nude when we were younger, after "the talk" everything changed.

Like about everyone else, my teen years were most embarrassing, especially the first few pubescent exams. Being an only child with a single mother, I had plenty of privacy at home. I went a few years without being seen nude, until my exam at 12 or 13. I was on for a shock when it ended with a strange man examining my developing genitals as my mother watched on. She continued to accompany me to exams for most of my teens, though it got less embarrassing as time went on. Once I realized I somewhat enjoyed the exposure, I began to "accidentally" be seen nude at home occasionally too.

Did you mom ever know or suspect that you enjoyed it later on?

@ILuvLadyDocs I'm not positive that she ever caught on, but I have a feeling she knew. The fact that I didn't hesitate at exams may have been a tip... or that fact that I'd occasionally now be seen nude at home and not make an effort to cover. Though I feel she may have enjoyed it a bit also, as she made no efforts to look away or would occasionally talk to me.

@ILuvLadyDocs I'm not positive that she ever caught on, but I have a feeling she knew. The fact that I didn't hesitate at exams may have been a tip... or that fact that I'd occasionally now be seen nude at home and not make an effort to cover. Though I feel she may have enjoyed it a bit also, as she made no efforts to look away or would occasionally talk to me.

And you know what? I see nothing wrong with that. Yall weren't doing anything Jerry Springerish, so there's nothing wrong with mom admiring the beautiful life she created. Nor is there anything wrong with you silently going "hey look ma".

That's why I think those old open gym physicals were so great. The lads got to peacock a little bit, while the moms got to admire and compare their offspring.

Sometimes I think we present humans are too intelligent and civilized for our own good. We overthink everything way too much.

My personal attitude towards the folks in the 70s and 80s who pushed to have the rules changed? Relax- it's just a bunch of fit young guys in their Fruit Of The Looms. That's all. If that offends you, you know where the door is. Don't go crying to your school superintendent or local congressman, and quit teaching these boys to be ashamed or embarrassed by what God gave them.

Around ages 13-14 for guys as they hit puberty. My step mom insisted on being in my exams and performing various ‘check’s at home. Very embarrassing. Though I did learn that my cousin underwent similar home exams from my Aunt. Different days back then. (1970’s)

For both sexes, Early to mid teens when body is changing, especially if a parent in present to witness, no matter the sex of the examiner

Actually, when Inlook back in time, for me it actually were 2 moments.

The first one was the start of a period of development follow up exams (every 6 months) where I got to know the female doctor who would conduct those exams. That period was when I was around 14 (still being bald apart from some ‘lost’ hairgrowth)

The 2nd time was much later and happened to be the period when Inhad to go for the 3 days (actually 2,5) to the Centre of Recruitment & Selection to have the exams for military services. Containing psychological, Fysical exams and sports tests …

"Chris 1971"

Was it a rule doctor or a rule clinic requirement to have a chaperone member of family in the exam room even for teenagers of 18 age or was it only your step mother who wanted to come with you and and watch at the exam ? But she could have waited in the waiting room ?

In that case, why you did not complain, told her that you were too old and it was too much embarrassing being examined in front of her and if she did not agree, told it to your father ?

Did you have to remove completely the gown and stay naked for a while under her eyes ?

Did you have to bend over, and spread your butt for a visual exam of the doctor in a spot which let her see your rear and butthole during the exam? Or were on all fours on an exam table ?

Was it worse with a finger inserted inside your rectum ?

Was the doctor ,(you do not say if it as a woman or a man ?) conscious of your embarrassment and trying to protect a little your privacy by not exposing you too much to her view or on the reverse not minded it at all ?

Did the doctor asked at your stepmother why she was present if it was not required and surprised by her coming ?

Did she looked away sometimes during the exam or on the reverse was permanently looking at your exam directly and ask questions to the doctor ?

Did she commented your exam after while coming back home ?

Did she related it to your father or not ?

In presence of other siblings or not?

"FDNM patient "

Can you give us a little more détails about your pre-draft examination at a military recrutment center when you were 18 age?

Why was it so awkward for you ? And why were you so upset?

Did you were naked for a long time and openly in group and exposed to.the view of a lot of persons including women or girls?

All were medical persons, nurses and doctors or also clerks of offices.?

I think 11-13 when you’re starting puberty it’s the most embarrassing age