Most embarrassing age

Definitley around 14-15, first gyno exams, and first time you actually pay attention and know what is happening at naked physicals.

And you are at an age where lubricant is leakinggg from you vagina, and covering all the paper underneath you and making it soo so noticable to the doc and nurse. I had some humiliating exams at that age, so aware of your exposedness

@Pammy32: 11 - 13, when as a girl whos breasts are just budding, you start wearing a bra.

Exactly! Between getting boobs and then my first period, it was an awful time. In both cases there was a certain envy of my friends who first got theirs, but when I got mine I was at first pleased and proud, but then reality set in. In time, girls begin to accept the bodily changes so let me just leave it at that.

Definitely the 12 to 15 ages because those were the years when I first had to get a jock strap, experienced my first nocturnal emission which was scary because I had no idea what it was, grew hair in new places, had to start using deodorant, and had to endure those sessions with my father when I received "the talk" which included explanations about what was happening to girls. While I might have seen my two sisters in the nude when we were younger, after "the talk" everything changed.

Like about everyone else, my teen years were most embarrassing, especially the first few pubescent exams. Being an only child with a single mother, I had plenty of privacy at home. I went a few years without being seen nude, until my exam at 12 or 13. I was on for a shock when it ended with a strange man examining my developing genitals as my mother watched on. She continued to accompany me to exams for most of my teens, though it got less embarrassing as time went on. Once I realized I somewhat enjoyed the exposure, I began to "accidentally" be seen nude at home occasionally too.

Did you mom ever know or suspect that you enjoyed it later on?

@ILuvLadyDocs I'm not positive that she ever caught on, but I have a feeling she knew. The fact that I didn't hesitate at exams may have been a tip... or that fact that I'd occasionally now be seen nude at home and not make an effort to cover. Though I feel she may have enjoyed it a bit also, as she made no efforts to look away or would occasionally talk to me.

@ILuvLadyDocs I'm not positive that she ever caught on, but I have a feeling she knew. The fact that I didn't hesitate at exams may have been a tip... or that fact that I'd occasionally now be seen nude at home and not make an effort to cover. Though I feel she may have enjoyed it a bit also, as she made no efforts to look away or would occasionally talk to me.

And you know what? I see nothing wrong with that. Yall weren't doing anything Jerry Springerish, so there's nothing wrong with mom admiring the beautiful life she created. Nor is there anything wrong with you silently going "hey look ma".

That's why I think those old open gym physicals were so great. The lads got to peacock a little bit, while the moms got to admire and compare their offspring.

Sometimes I think we present humans are too intelligent and civilized for our own good. We overthink everything way too much.

My personal attitude towards the folks in the 70s and 80s who pushed to have the rules changed? Relax- it's just a bunch of fit young guys in their Fruit Of The Looms. That's all. If that offends you, you know where the door is. Don't go crying to your school superintendent or local congressman, and quit teaching these boys to be ashamed or embarrassed by what God gave them.