Fellatio, better when a man does it vs a woman?

Men suck cock because they love doing it and it shows. Many woman I’ve know do it to please their partners not because they love it per say.

First got excited in boy's / man's cocks as me and another boy traded enemas at a young age. He was the first to pull my pants down and showed me how to masturbate, as he DID IT to me. He had a small / balls and bending upwards cock, which intrigued me. It later encouraged me to just go down on him.

Then I later saw pictures of uncut guys, which pushed my interest, as besides Jr. High showers, never seen these.

Met a guy guy online for enema / other play during the Covid ordeal. He said that he was kinda cut. After us both getting naked and seeing his “ hood / foreskin ”, it got me aroused.

He allowed me to play and examine his cock and ball's. Then to my delight / surprise, I pulled back his foreskin exposing his pinkish red head. I sucked and jacked him off until he blew his load

Whether heterosexual or homosexual - the mental and emotional connection between the giver and receiver plays a large part in how good the blow job is or isn't. Yes, there are techniques that add to the physical pleasure, but that's only half of it - to me anyway.

I had a woman who gave great head and swallowed everytime. But the best bj I ever got was from a guy.

I firmly believe that guys give better BJ than women in general. Not all women donlt give a good BJ and not all men give a good one, but as I said, in general, yes, men do it better. My reason is this - when a guy committs to giving a BJ, it is because he loves giving a BJ and loves swallowing the cum. The experience is better thanks to the fact the guy giving it loves ginving it AND that he knows better how to treat the penis since he is an owner of one. Women on the other hand don't own a penis and really don't know how to treat it very well. Also, (at least in my expereince), they give BJ more as a responsibility or obligation and not as a love. That is especially true when it comes time to swallow.

I definitely know that men suck cocks better than women. Many women have sucked my cock, and I have enjoyed it. However, when a man sucks my cock, it is beyond enjoyable, but addictive, as he gives me, sensations that no woman has ever achieved. Women sucking cocks, normally use their mouths to mimic a vagina, when sucking a man. Men mimic nothing!!. They use their tongues, lips, and head to give a man sensations that women don't normally try. One example is using a tongue on a man's balls and slit. By the same token, women probably eat pussy better than a man, for the same reasons.

I have to say, I had a close friend from HS who i liked in HS, but we went in different directions after HS. Anyway,I met up with her yrs after HS and we always had a connection together. One day we were fooling around and she ended up giving me the best blow job in my life!! That was all before I met my ex-wife, and dated a half dozen other ladies! To this day, no one has matched her!!

The best BJ I got was from a lady. She could work here tongue on the head of penis that drove me wild. She would know when I was about to cum, and she would work her tongue on the underside head of my penis.

When I suck a man I do it with lots of enthusiasm. I know what feels good on my cock and do that for his cock. I'm not just doing it because he wants me to. I'm doing it because I want to, and when he cums in my mouth or on me it is my reward and my goal.

For me it depends a lot on the chemistry. I met a local guy in the middle of the night while his wife was sleeping — he took me in their garage and he sucked me off and i came so hard (he wasn’t into swallowing) that I shot a stream of cum about 4 feet and onto their washing machine. lol. He’s definitely memorable for me.

I’ve sucked enough cocks and you get that rare guy where the chemistry is just right and that’s when things are amazing. I had a young Latino guy (probably mid 20’s) come over to my house one morning about 6-7 years ago and lay back on my bed and I went to town on his cock. He was the first guy I ever edged and i took him high and low for the next 30-45 minutes until he couldn’t hold back and came like crazy in my mouth and I swallowed all of it. He said that he had never had such good head in his life from girls or guys.. But, consequently you get those wrong chemistry situations and you just want to leave. Nothing I do will make it better.. there’s just no vibe/connection. 😔

So.. I think it depends. Yeah, I think many women give bj’s because it’s a job/chore while others just love doing it. The ones that do it as a chore are probably not going to have their hearts in the task and the guy in many cases will look elsewhere for that satisfaction he desires (this is based on my conversations with many married guys).. Overall I think men generally give better head though because they understand what feels good and so forth.

I have experienced 2 different women in my life giving me oral sex. So, I don't think I'm positive to answer my own question definitively. However, I have to say that some of the best, mind blowing head I've had was from older men. Older gentlemen, especially if they have dentures. Wow, it's a whole different thing.

It might differ by the sex. Girls know what girls want, guys know what guys want. So, in my experience girls have always been better!

I think it all depends on experience, attention to other person reactions, communication and lastly physical characteristics of people involved.

I have received both great and completely rubbish blow jobs from both males and females.

And I am pretty good with giving oral to women, but I'm average with males.

I have only had oral sex from females and all were just "ok". It was more like foreplay in my opinion. I was told by a gay friend that I could only get a great BJ from a gay man! I have not had that opportunity as yet!

I assume you’re speaking from a male on male perspective but you didn’t specify so I’m going to interpret this as same-sex in general. I’ve received oral from a lot more men than women so my sample size is skewed. From my perspective it’s about who takes enough time to learn what feels good. Women are possibly more individual as to what they need re stimulation than men. I can use more or less the same technique on multiple men and get a positive result but with a woman you have to adjust more based on her reaction.

The best oral I’ve received has been from my husband with my long term gf very close behind. In my top 5 I’d have 3 men and 2 women but the samples are far from even. If we’re judging on a percentage of sample size the women win.

BTW I’m only mediocre at giving head to women but I’m a rock star at men. Likely because I enjoy sucking cock more than eating pussy. My hand game is tops tho.

I have experienced 2 different women in my life giving me oral sex. So, I don't think I'm positive to answer my own question definitively. However, I have to say that some of the best, mind blowing head I've had was from older men. Older gentlemen, especially if they have dentures. Wow, it's a whole different thing.

I merged your new topic with the one that was already there about this.

In my experience men tend, I say tend, to give better head. Now that being said, there are individuals who love sucking cock. Men and women. That stated that makes their attentions much better. Now, I think, again, in my experience the best head I had was from older, men. Regardless if I was in my twenties, through forties. An older man, especially if he has dentures, loves sucking and then tells you he works slow. Your in for a very event.

If I knew in advance that I was going to be getting fellatiio, I would use a vibrator several hours beforehand so that I would be better able to delay my release and love my partner’s attention for as long as long as I could. It would also provide fresh cum for them to enjoy at climax.

I've read this theory (that a man, including a transvestite) is better than a woman in an erotic comics from the 1970s.

I've read this theory (that a man, including a transvestite) is better than a woman in an erotic comics from the 1970s.

Standard adult comic trope as a way of introducing new sexual angles into what are usually pretty simplistic story lines ... ha ha

Such plot elements were scarce in the early (legal) adult comics in the 1970s, but would become more and more common by the 1990s as gay sex came to be more and more accepted as just another sexual/erotic variant.

@agracier Most of that comics is about heterosexual sex (digital, vaginal and oral) and the scene with the transvestite is not shown, only allude to, if I recall correctly. Maybe they wanted to sound a bit edgy but not too much.

Most of that comics is about heterosexual sex (digital, vaginal and oral) and the scene with the transvestite is not shown, only allude to, if I recall correctly. Maybe they wanted to sound a bit edgy but not too much.

There are so many thousands of erotic adult comics that have been published over the decades. The edginess of the content would have depended on the year of publication.

For instance in the early ones, published in the late 1970s, you'd never see a penis drawn, let alone an erect one. But by the 1990s, all genitalia was illustrated in detail, labial folds, veins on stiff penises and rosebud anuses. Nothing was off limits.

Transvestite sex was not all that uncommon, especially in the 'fumetti' or Italian erotic comics which were published in even larger print-runs in France in translation.

@agracier If I recall correctly, there were penises, but no close-up, no labia either, in that comics, which was meant for a rather wide consumption.

I didn't have much exposure to porno comics other than looking at Popeye and Olive Oyl going at it while I was in seventh grade. A friend stole them from his father's secret stash. However, relative to the men vs women fellatio question, I can only speak from experience. During my lifetime, having received oral sex from over a dozen different men and probably 4 different women, I have the opinion that getting head from another man is better. One reason, I believe, is that another man is familiar with the equipment. But, even more important, when a man gives to another man, I would guess that the draw is he really enjoys the activity. I know I do. The women I have been with were quite willing to satisfy me in that way, but I don't believe they found it overly satisfying. (I would reciprocate by going down on them). One exception, a young lady and I had a summer fling while in college and I could tell she really enjoyed it. She would attack my cock with great enthusiasm and never missed a drop! Unfortunately, we found that the only thing we had in common was being over sexed. Alas, we parted after the summer.

Men give better head because they want you to come in their mouth so they do whatever it takes to make that happen as quick as possible

In order to assess this accurately, I would have to receive head from a few more women.

But what I can say with some level of confidence is that I can give head better than most women.

Men give better head because they want you to come in their mouth so they do whatever it takes to make that happen as quick as possible

There are a few of us men who are certainly not out for "as quick as possible". With a few men, I have had many sessions that last HOURS. We enjoy the relaxing sex. Ejaculating is not imperative. It's the effort that matters, and the feeling of the sexual contact. Older men can't cum that fast, so you have to learn to enjoy the process. Many times, I don't cum at all.

I do know men who are hell bent on the climax. They seem to make it rushed, sometimes get frustrated, and I find it takes away from the enjoyment. I tend to avoid those out for only quickies. I can easily and conveniently jerk off if I want a quickie. With fellatio, I am not looking for a quickie. and I hope neither is the guy on the other end.

As for the original question, I don't feel I can make an accurate assessment, without having had more oral sex from women. I can think things like men taking more pleasure in it, whereas it's more of a chore for women. With women, it seems you pay for it, one way or another. Whereas with men, it tends to come with NSA. But I would really need more firsthand data with women to be able to come to conclusions like these.

Hmm

@Stuffer5

Men give better head because they want you to come in their mouth so they do whatever it takes to make that happen as quick as possible

That's not a serious comment, right?

I had to "come" back to this thread. (no pun intended) When I was a younger man, I tended to receive more than i gave. But for me even the receiving was also instruction. When you get a guy who knows what he's doing, "The Load" is not the big reward, control is. There are those, and I morphed into one of them in later years, that garner great pleasures giving, and controlling the giving. I know what it's like to be on the receiving end of one of those very long drawn out, and amazing sessions, believe me a few times I came so hard my ass almost sucked up the sofa.

But I do think it is better give than to receive, sort of like reverse hedonism, and the wonderful angst, taking a straight man down and long and winding road makes the journey better than the arrival.

I'd have to say the men have it, my sampling would be about 50/50 to date. All the guys seemed to be keen and spent their time, compared to the women who seemed to want to move onto something else- although one girl considered intense quick bjs were her specialty and they certainly turned her on.

It seems that guys who suck cock see it as an end in itself and take care to provide a good experience, some of them are quite addictive