Fellatio, better when a man does it vs a woman?

I'm not even going into "gay"/"Straight" labels. In the world's history homosexual sex was for pleasure and not as a group or orientation assignment. There are straight men, who have had gay sex. If a man busts a nut with/from another man, it does not necessarily mean that he is gay. For those men here honest enough to have experiemented, do you think that a man, (generally) gives better head than a woman? Without going into oral edging or handjobs...but specifically, in receiving oral, has anyone made the comparison???

I think, the males perform fellatio better.

IMO, a man has a better understanding of the penis and can intuitively know what probably feels good. Yes, they usually give better head.

I think men love penises more than women, and thus are more passionate when they perform fellatio. I always worship as much as I suck, and the act of receiving the creamy reward and consuming it is deeply satisfying.

Men who enjoy sucking other men off are the very best at doing it, often women do it as a chore or to get something from the male, but men who like to suck other men off, do it because the enjoy it and thus do it for joy and the pleasure it gives them to give pleasure to a male and his cock. Also the more gay a male is the better he is at it.

Is a man or women better at fellatio? That depends on how experienced they are and which sex turns you on more.

Do women do cunnilingus better? I have had it done fantastically well by men and women.

There are no rules on this topic.

As a gay man Im probably not entitled to give qualified answers but Im sure men give better heads - we do have a penis and know precisely how to work it out;.)

I have been giving head to a bi guy. I really like giving head, with a guy you can't fake it, but I really like it anyway. This guy is in his late 50's and has gotten head over the years from many different people. He tells me he has never gotten better head than from a man. After all we have a close relationshipm with what we are working on!

As with anything on these forums, more in depth research is needed before we can come up with a conclusive answer, and maybe a bit more after that just to be sure. And still more to eliminate statistical errors. You can see where this is going...

I'm sure a man gives better head than most women. I love pleasing the man I'm with and I make sure he is completely satisfied.

My wife loves to see a man suck me

I've had literally hundreds of blowjobs from men in my life. I'm bi, and have also had plenty from women. I generally prefer a man. They know the equipment. They know how rough and how gentle to be. And the gay men that love giving head truly LOVE it. It's not just something they do to get along.

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While I prefer women sexually, I find that men know my anatomy better than women - most of the time. Men tend to give better hand- and blow-jobs than the majority of women. Of course there are exceptions.

I am gay but have one regular play examiner of each gender and both give me blow jobs to completion. Both seem to enjoy their work equally and both are equally skillful. I will say that I am a demanding and exacting recipient and make my needs and requirements very clear. I let them know how far down their throats to take my penis and let them know what areas of the penis I specifically want to have stimulated. Both are equally adept at working the head, specifically the corona, and the meatus. I am glad to be sucked off by either.

If you watch porno videos where a female is giving head to a male, as opposed to a male giving head, you can see the difference in motivation on both the sexes. The female giver is more concerned about how she looks when she is performing fellatio, she winks and tries to show her most alluring facial expressions. Her working on the male's penis seems to be just a chore, and she seems to be in a race to see how quickly she can make the guy cum. When I have seen males giving head, their attention seems focused totally on the receiver, and how he is responding to the giver. He doesn't try to rush it, just tries to give the receiver as much pleasure as he can. Of course, this is just my perception.

Men are natural born cocksuckers. However I prefer women.

I have only had BJs from women. All were quite good at it and to be honest you have to try to not do a very good job.

But I think there might be a slight edge to the guys if we are talking in very general terms. They simple can approach it in terms of what they have experienced and what feels great to them physically.

Of course when you add experience and skill and listening to what the receiver really likes and feels good to them, then either side can deliver. You just have to be really tuned into what your partner wants, which is the most important rule to follow in great sex.

'Men are natural born cocksuckers'

In turns of humor that was and is a great comment. It applies to so many of our postions and manners. We are a group of people engaged in fetish activities that I believe to be healthhy.

As one of the rare women who loves giving oral, I'd be interested to see how my skills compare with a man's since most of the comments seem to suggest that a big part of the difference lies in the enjoyment of the giver. I've worshipped every cock I've ever sucked and I get my share of compliments.

As one of the rare women who loves giving oral, I'd be interested to see how my skills compare with a man's since most of the comments seem to suggest that a big part of the difference lies in the enjoyment of the giver. I've worshipped every cock I've ever sucked and I get my share of compliments.

My take is that men have a greater intellectual understanding of the sensations of penile stimulation, having experienced them first hand. Being more heterosexual, women have a greater emotional attraction for me. If the woman is also more heterosexual, she has that emotional component.

Therefore, for me, the male is more technically better and the woman more emotionally better. I guess it depends on my mood and needs.

Are we talking about ANY woman or ANY man giving the blow job or the AVERAGE woman or the AVERAGE man giving a blow job?

I won't say I give a better blow job than a man, but it will be AS GOOD as ANY MAN. 😁

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from the thread "turnoffs in the bedroom," Jds4med said:

I had a partner who KNEW how to suck dick and give a handjob, just not the way it worked for me. You have to communicate - that includes listening - to find out how your partner likes it.

SO, even the men can't always do it right for each other.

Like I said in my earlier post here on May 5, 2013, there are no rules on this. You LEARN how to be a good sex partner by responding to your partner's needs and desires. Admittedly, some people will learn faster than others.

Different men like their penis handled in different ways. Some like more suction, some like more tongue on the underside and some like the head played with the most. Other men like more ball massage with it than others and others enjoy the blow job in conjunction with jerking them off manually.

Some like more suction, some like more tongue on the underside and some like the head played with the most. Other men like more ball massage with it than others and others enjoy the blow job in conjunction with jerking them off manually.

Wow! I've yet to experience a blowjob, but any of those styles sounds absolutely fucking awesome 😃

Either or, neither nor, the worst I ever had regardless, was GOOD Honey, "what ever floats your boat". MRay.

In the topic on prostate milking ... i think that whether a man or a woman performs fellatio or cunnilingus and how well they do it has a lot to do with reading the 'signs' of the person you are going down on. Going down on my husband is something i really get into and love making his toes curl ... it is the same with a recent opportunity i had with a woman when i went down on her for her first time with a woman ... it has to do with reading the one you are doing and taking your cues from them.

Hubby likes my finger in his ass when i am getting him near the edge ... and delaying his release for as long as possible before i take him all the way off. The few women i've gone down on are each different in their own ways ... liking different things at different times ... i'm the same way when they go down on me ... or when my husband goes down on me ... knowing your partner has a lot to do with whether you think they are better .. or the best .. at either fellatio or cunnilingus.

But my biased opinion is .. that women who really like going down on a man do a better 'job' and pick up on the subtleties prior to the man's release.

I really don't know if there is a an answer to this question, but for those guys who have received BJs from both women and men is one sex better at it vs. the other. Yes I know this is very personal and of limited sample size based on each person's experience, but I have noticed there seemed to be a difference between men and women when giving BJs and their mental approach between the two sexes. It's hard to define that difference, but the question is based on your experience- is one sex better at BJs vs. the other?

I am an experiencer of women and men administering oral sex. I think there is no definitive answer to this

question. There are too many variables. Such as, is the receiver more oriented toward women or men. In my own case, I am essentially heterosexual. So if you put an attractive female naked and an attractive male naked in front of me; no question I'll grab the woman. Therefore, to start with, I am more aroused by a female. The female style of cock sucking I believe is oriented to the the female physicality. The female does more licking, more sucking the head, less vigorous stroking along with licking and gently sucking the balls. Females do one other thing that men don't do much and it's a biggie. They look up and make eye contact with you while they are making love to your cock. It's all wonderful and makes for a wonderful orgasm.

Now men, probably if you were gay or bisexual and mostly oriented to men this would all be the opposite.

My experience with men is this. There sucking style is very aggressive, they suck harder, and usually try to get more of the cock in their throat. The style is harder, faster, sloppy with spit and continuous until the cock surrenders it load to their mouth.

I have found the "finish" is different between the two genders. Women usually quit sucking when the main load of cum is in their mouth ( they either swallow it or let it run out of their mouth). My experience with men is they tend to not stop after you "nut" ("Nut" means you peak with orgasm and start ejaculating; the sensation then begins to fade. Men keep sucking as you're squirming around (squirming because the cock becomes very sensitive after orgasm) until they milk every drop out of your cock. Or as they say until you're completely drained.

These are my personal experiences and on a larger sampling of men may be contrary to their opinion.

I guess I pass Matt Bastardson's test with flying colors and my husband DOESN'T need a man to do it for him. See my 2014 post:

https://www.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;msg=625387 and

https://www.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;msg=943196

😁 😁 😁 😁 😁 😁

I will make the ultimate sacrifice and offer myself as a test subject to all to further enlighten the Zity population and to once and for all settle this matter and put it to bed, or on the bed or under it...

I guess I pass Matt Bastardson's test with flying colors and my husband DOESN'T need a man to do it for him.

Does he often have to rechrome the bumper hitch? 😉

Does he often have to rechrome the bumper hitch? 😉

Yes. Fairly often!