Fellatio, better when a man does it vs a woman?

I can say that I have had bjs from both woman and men and I will state that it’s just like pizza there isn’t any bad pizza some is better then other but all are great ! Also never got any complaints on any bj I have given . So I would assume that it’s in the receivers opinion that counts .

I find this question, "A little hard to swallow!".

I have no experience from a man and very little from a woman, but I think the important bit would be a desire to do it and a willingness to learn how.

That and it being from your preferred sexual partner. True that a mouth may be a mouth, but sex has a very big mental component.

Ok, the op did qualify "generally," but even then, there isn't a black or white answer for me. i don't think that just because guys have the same equipment they are therefore in a better position to understand what the suckee likes. In my experience, not everyone likes the same thing or technique. We all have tongues, but we don't all have the same tastes.

My only experience with a woman was with my former wife, and she obviously didn't get into it. It was clear to me that her only goal was to get me aroused so i could pleasure her. But i know that that is not a universal phenomena. Same with guys. Which for me identifies an important component, i.e., is the person i am with really into what they are doing?

i don't care how mechanically capable a guy is, if i don't sense that he is into it, something is missing for me, it's very similar to masturbating. On the other hand, even if the person i am with isn't all that skilled, if they are obviously really into what they are doing, i'm going to end up really enjoying.

In my experience, the two often go together, i.e., those who are really into sucking cock usually have developed a certain amount of skill because part of being into it is the pleasure they bring.

i don't think it really is a question of male or female or knowing the anatomy because we have the parts. i got good at giving my former wife oral sex, mostly because i got a great deal of pleasure giving her pleasure that way. It wasn't a task for me to give her pleasure. Same with the guys i am with. If i have a sense He is not connected or doesn't care about what i am doing, it goes full circle for me and i stop enjoying what i am doing and it becomes a task and i'm sure i'm not as 'good' at it at that point.

I am 54. I've been giving men blowjobs since I was 13. I now give gum jobs, which men find even more pleasing. I am very happy to suck a dick and to swallow a man's cum when he busts his nut in my mouth. He's happy to get off, and I'm happy to swallow. We both win. I've never had a train pulled on me. I'd like to have that done to me just once in my life to see if I like it or not. I am quite at home with pushing my 3" wide Dildo into my ass about once a month or so. I love the feel of a huge cock slipping in and out of my pooper. I was meant to be bent over and also be on my knees. And when it comes to cock sucking, a man definitely knows how to do it better. I like to swirl my tongue on the underside of the head of a man's cock. They really like that............

Guys give better head hands (and tongues) down. And if the guy giving the head really enjoys doing it, as I do, it's stellar.

I want to be the giver. I love the taste and swallowing.

Gonna sound silly . But [ no pun] I have had great blow jobs from a few Females.

And some fantastic blow jobs from males. I think the deciding factor Is who ever at the time really wants my cock. I mean At this time my cock is the only thing in the world they need and want.

I use myself as the yard stick . I have given blow jobs , just to get one in return. Yet there are times when I not only want his cock, but need his cock in my mouth.

Sorry ladies, while you may think you are great, you will never be as good as one with the owners manual. Just as I will never be able to eat pussy like a true woman, no woman can give head like a man.

A lot of men have experimented. It’s normal, I think.

Sorry ladies, while you may think you are great, you will never be as good as one with the owners manual. Just as I will never be able to eat pussy like a true woman, no woman can give head like a man.

I disagree. There’s no reason a woman can’t perform felatio as good or better than a guy and vice versa for men doing cunnilingus to a woman. Some large percentage of the “ quality” of the act is the connection of the partners - hetero or homo.

The best blow job I have ever got was from a hooker. She knows the value of time and can suck start a harley.

The best blow job I have ever got was from a hooker. She knows the value of time and can suck start a harley.

The problem with that is that a lot of the time the best sex is slow. Sure, quickies are fun now and then, but a long drawn out experience gives you so much to enjoy along with a very powerful orgasm at the end should you go to orgasm.

The best blow job I have ever got was from a hooker. She knows the value of time and can suck start a harley.

I didn't know you could "suck start" a Harley.

Does that take more or less suction than sucking the chrome off a bumper?

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I pictured it as the fellatio equivalent of "cart-starting" a B-52.

Technically if you applied sufficient vacuum to the exhaust and one piston was at a favorable cycle you could possibly do it. You could definitely do it with a 6 cylinder.

Not making any other comments, after all Dan was the one who used "suck" and "Harley" in the same sentence.

Best blow job I ever got was from a hooker. Nothing else has even been close. It was so intense that I almost couldn’t stand the pleasure. I have never experienced anything so incredible. I’ve gotten lots of blue jobs from guys and they have all been okay. Some better than others. I’ve found that many women don’t really like to give blow jobs so the ones who do are really good at it.

I'm pretty sure that I'm better at giving a blowjob than 95% of women out there.

Maybe a man might be better at it, though I'm not sure I could tell the difference (my women GF/wives have given spectacular ones, including the only time I ever had an orgasm from fellatio alone). But for me, no thanks. I'm too straight. I'll stick with my GF's, thanks.

Eric

I've gotten from both over my life and here's my take on diff sex with both...

For penetrative sex, a penis in a vagina is the bee's knees. Amazing and fun. Really, it's just fantastic and absolutely no comparison to anything else. And that shouldn't be a surprise since that's nature's design right there. Hand, meet glove, fingers and everything...perfect. And the nonsexual stuff that's still intimate...spooning, cuddling and all that...well, my experience doing that with other guys is limited, but the feel of woman's body against mine, it just feels...*right*.

But...other than all that, I'm going to have to say, guys win out in every other category when it comes to working other guys...oral, handjobs, prostate/anal play, all of it...what to touch and how and exactly when...they are just hands-down way better at it. And I don't mean a little bit better...I mean that if I'm very very honest about it, three of the five best cums I've ever had were from gay guys doing their thing to me.

I'm not saying any of them were good enough to make me leave my wife, give up pussy and find a dude to be my SO...but I AM saying that from a physical sensation perspective, my limited sampling of having a few gay guys work me has made me glad I was open minded enough to try it...or drunk enough anyway. lol

I am a shy guy and have some social graces. Yes I am horny.

The world has no place for horny people.

Just look at what it has done to the population. 😁

I have had limited experience with both men and women, so this post may not mean much, but the most intense sexual experience (after first coitus) was fellatio from an absolutely wonderful woman who loved doing it. It took her perhaps 10 seconds to get me splashing what seemed like a quart of myself and part of my soul into her mouth. I felt totally drained of much more than just my penile essence. It is hard to imagine a more intense sexual experience. I still love a long-drawn-out period of foreplay and slow-hand intimacy, but seldom has anything been so memorable.

A lot depends on experience and perseverance. My introduction to sucking cock was at age 11. At first I gagged a lot. After time I learned to enjoy the feel and taste of precum and ejaculate. I learned to use my lips and tongue without raking my teeth on the cock. A smooth, wet, warm adventure. I get so excited I sometimes spray the floor or wall. Likewise I enjoy being on the receiving end of a great sucking. I have had both good and bad from men or women. Now after nearly 60+ years I still think cock sucking is the best sex act. 😜

The two best blow jobs I have ever received were from women. No one else has ever been close. In my experience both men and women vary in how good they are. The best seem to really enjoy what they are doing.

I will chime in again. My last post was meant to be the start of a new thread and that is why it ends by asking the same question as the OP on this thread. The moderators realizing it was a duplicate question, moved my thread starter post to this one since it had already started ahead of mine.

So let me respond the question itself. I have received BJs from both men and women. Maybe I have been lucky, but I have yet to receive a bad one from either sex. So now we are down to looking at the small difference between good and great- a 9 vs.10. Keep in mind that the skill and experience of the individual varies so I am making a judgment call putting aside an individual's skill and lumping all the guys together vs. all the women.

So looking broadly as a whole based on my experience, I will give the guys the slight edge in giving BJs. They seem to be really into it and turned on while giving the BJ, which adds to my experience and pleasure. They will tend to be more likely to deep throat vs. the women. The guys seem to spend more time giving the BJ, again because they seem to be so into the process.

There are some men who only want to give BJs; get the guy off and receive no reciprocation. Performing the BJ and getting the guy off is their sexual reward. I know some women will do this, but it seems to be very common on the men's side of the aisle.

So my vote goes to the men by a slight margin.

Never been blown by a guy so i cant really say, so i will let you know when it happens

Girls are way better for licking the and sucking the cunt than even the best guy from my experience . Gils have smaller thinner tongs to get in and around the folds. Plus girls know the neighborhood rely well. From this I think having ones cock sucked by a guy would be a similar thing.. Next time some chick has gobbled your cock down her throat and is licking your balls looking up with her submissive eyes saying gorp, gorp, gorp begging for approval ask this question again wile lookin down at the view. If you have not had a guy suck you off by now you do not want it that bad.

The best blowjob ever was the first time I got sucked by a gay friend in college. Of course maybe it was the moment , but he was good.

From my own experiences men who suck cock are overall better at it than women but like everything there are always a few exceptions. Likewise except for the occasional exception I have no doubt that a woman performing oral sex on another woman is way better at it than men

For me a man especially a gay man who made love to me a straight man was far better that my girl friend who have me fellatio. The gay man suck my cock so hard with such desire of wanting me to cum in his mouth. And when I did he swallowed all my cum and I felt so good of having the feeling that he had a part of me. It was sensational.

From the age of about 9, an older male I knew showed me photos of males sucking the cocks of other males. I didn't see photos of women doing it until I was a lot older. I was very intrigued with the photos and realised that it must be very pleasurable, and in some shots saw the semen flowing. By the time I was 13 I had a slightly older friend who had let me suck him and then sucked me.

It was absolutely amazing and I always found it incredibly enjoyable from then on. I do find that males always seem to arouse me more, and even now in my late sixties I still enjoy so much having a full oral release with a male, or helping him have one the same way.