Years ago I scribed an article for Beth Tyler (The petite blond or original one). The hypothesis of the article was that more women take enemas than men but more men find enemas erotic. The the reasons that I feel why more women take enemas than men are as follows:
1) More women are constipated than men. This is a medical fact. In the article, I footnoted the statement from a medical journal. There are myriad reasons for this like exercise, diet and of course, the female menstrual cycle. The excursive factor has changed a little from when I penned the article. Today, I see more women walking or running than men so the point might not be as valid as it was during the time of the article. The diet factor. I think is still valid. My parents, both competed in sports in college so I was raised on an extremely healthy diet. There was no coffee and donuts breakfasts for me. It was oats or cereal, fruit, toast, eggs (Mother had more ways of fixing eggs than Betty Crocker), bacon, ham or steak, juice and a cup of tea but I am a rarity. I didn't know how unhealthy girls ate until my days in the sorority house. My college roomate lived on donuts, fast food and pizza and consequently she was always constipated. She kept suppositories in our small refrigerator. Last but not least, is the female menstrual cycle. Mother used to say, you dad and brother wake up every morning feeling the same. We don't. They don't know what cramps are nor do they know what it's like to retain water or feel bloated unless they do something stupid like drink too much or stuff themselves with junk food.
2) Most women have a enema devise in their bathroom closet. While they might not be used on a regulars basis, a hand held douche syringe can be used for an enema in a pinch. I certainly wouldn't want to use it for the original purpose after and enema without it being sterilized.
3) I think men have a tendency to ride illness out more than women. My husband has to be had dead before consulting a doctor while I go to one at the drop of a hat.
Now that I have giving you some reasons why more women are more likely to take enemas than men. Lets look at why I feel more men are likely to find them erotic than women. Some of the reasons are as follows:
1) Men are far more likely to have an enema from the opposite sex than women, In a family environment, it is far more like to have the mother of the family administer an enema to male child than the father. I can't fathom my dad administering an enema to me or any of my siblings, while mother administered probably hundreds to my sibling and me.
2) My first enemas were administered over my mother lap. I can only guess how erotic this could be for a young male. Warm water stimulating the anal passage including the prostate while the penis feeling the warmth of a women's lap. Now I have read where a female's G-spot can be stiluatle through the anal wall. I know that I can't as I have had a skilled female try to stimulate mine using a G-finer and she had never touched it.
3) Last but not least, men are far more easily stimulated than women. My first husband was a naval aviator, I used to meet with other wives for coffee with other young married women. Needless to say, the subject of sex came up. I was amazed at how many of the women had trouble climaxing. Another one of the girls and I actually had to teach two of the others how to stimulate yourself during sex. I never will forget the two girls thanking us for our help when they acheived orgaizms during sex swith their husbands.
While I concur that my thoughts are most generalities, I still there is credence to my thoughts.