Women and enemas

I love my enemas a nice warm one with a balloon nozzle holding it in for a while empty out then grab my colon tubes and work my way up ..I'm sure everyone agrees

Supposedly as with all paraphilias klismaphilia is predominately a male thing. It does seem to be so here but the female contributors are a strong outspoken lot. Thanks to all you e-ladies.?

From being on many sites over quite a few years (including several that I owned) the ration of men and women that enjoy Klismaphilia is about equal. The ladies that I have done enema play with seem to enjoy it just as much as myself, and sometimes perhaps a bit more!

I prefer a female to administer since it enhances the sexual stimulation and generally leads to a hands free orgasm much quicker than when given by a male. Now if the guy can do digital prostate stimulation - that is definite plus. I have been told by several women I have had the pleasure to administer large volume enemas to, that they really prefer to receive from a male.

I'll let you know there is just as many women as men who like enemas me being one. We just don't brag about them as men do.

This topic surfaced in another thread not too long ago and I still see it as a dynamic of who is comfortable posting comments on forums like this one. The perception that there are more men interested in enemas than women based on the volume of posts men vs. women maybe misleading. I think women are less comfortable posting in general for fear they may become victims of sexual predators.

Even though there are obvious differences in anatomy between men and women, I would venture to guess that being anal erotic and enjoying enemas for eroticism does not favor one sex over the other. If that is true, then there maybe more equality between the sexes when it comes to enjoying enemas for pleasure. One might even go so far to speculate that women who enjoy anal sex are using enemas to prep for anal sex find them erotic too, which may tip the scales higher in the direction of more women than men who enjoy enemas.

Fun to speculate all the possible scenarios but we will never truly know the answer to this question.

Anal sex without an enema is a complete turn of to me, but once clean can't have enough !

Trust me, some of us women are very interested in enemas and do not mind discussing them. My better half? Not so much. Therefore, I enjoy using this outlet.

I probably do more enemas than men but not for sexual reasons. I like the cleansing effect, the empty feeling afterward, and the avoidance of embarrassing toilet visits the next day. A daily enema also avoids the toilet struggle. Instead I merely fill the bag with water, plug the nozzle in, and a few minutes later everything is coming out. No fuss, no muss.

But I think less women post because of shyness and also the fact that there are fewer women here on the forum.

Ahh -- Women who are open to enemas in conversation and in life are a treasure. As with so many of us (both male and female) in this group I am married to someone for whom the whole subject is absolutely taboo. (I think her last experience was surrounding childbirth 28 years ago.) So... I express this interest here in conversation and forum posts. I am grateful to be a part of such an affirming and welcoming community.

I've loved enemas since I was 14 and know quite a few others who also take them regularly. I actually think that more women than men take them, but are less inclined to talk about it.

I agree with Marsha in that women are more likely to take enemas. I think in general, women are more conscious about taking care of ourselves. I used to joke with my husband if men had periods they'd be a lot more sympathetic when we are emotional or when our insides are acting up or our heads are splitting.

My husband is a dream, but guess who has to remind him to see our doctor or quit putting off the dentist? I'm not the best at these necessities, either, but for the most part, guys aren't as concerned about health as we are.

This is no longer the "golden age" when most homes had enema bags, bulbs and the like, but enemas are certainly not dead if you consider the volume of disposables sold, the number of websites selling "equipment," the growth of coffee enemas and colon therapy. If my therapists are any indicator (I go twice a year), about 80% of their clients are women. I'm not surprised that many of their clients work in stressful positions and are moms balancing a career, home and kids.

Gallup doesn't poll on such matters (lol), but if Zity Biz did, I think we'd discover that enemas are still a women's domain for health more than men, but we ladies are not likely to reveal as much on forums such as this.

Well, women have a built in excuse to have a fountain syringe hanging out drying. I would think they had douched recently, but who could know?

I am very interested in them, although I don't have anyone in my life that I feel comfortable revealing that to. I do struggle with my desire for enemas, I feel some shame associated with it, but I think that is probably part of the turn on for me.

No need to have a prostate for liking enemas. Women enjoy enemas for the nice feeling of the water flushing in their bowels, and after the complete relaxing sensation which lasts a full day.

In my case, I'm a female who is interested in enemas (understatement), while my husband wants nothing to do with them. While I'm anal-erotic, he won't let me even touch his behind. I suspect that many women like enemas, but are too shy to speak openly about it. I still have an internal conflict about not being "lady-like" as my mother and grandmother insisted I be, but I'm trying to overcome my shyness in these discussions. I was taught never to talk about private matters like enemas. All my life, I have overheard males, young and old, sharing "dirty jokes," using foul language, and teasing one another about gross bodily functions. If anybody ever reprimanded them, they laughed it off. I grew up in a society with double standards. It's hard for me to break old habits and give up my inhibitions.

Dear ladies, can you tell me what you are mostly expecting from a man who is talking to you about enemas. Your valuable answers will be most appreciated.

Kindest regards.

Well I know my sister got them her whole life. She has no problem talking about them. Her girlfriend didn't talk about them for a long time. I know other women who take them but are less inclined to talk about it even in the company of other women. I think a lot of women think of it as a remedy only to make you poop and so they don't want to talk about it. They may use enemas for just constipation and not for cleaning. They may even hate anal. It's hard to actually say.

Women feel more of an emotional connection with enemas. I think with men it's mainly physical.

Women feel more of an emotional connection with enemas. I think with men it's mainly physical.

I don't know why you think that.

It's all about the physical sensations for me.

It's "all about the physical sensations" with some women, not as much with others, including me. That's the beauty of life.

Many women are interested too.

It's just less politically correct to admit it.

I think with men, among those really interested, probably 80% would admit it in a place like this,

With women, it's more like 40%

My sister and I got enemas growing up and administer to our kids today. I would say of my close girlfriends maybe 50% have used them at one point or another. I am pretty open about it and talk regularly on the subject with a couple friends but as was mentioned below it's more health than sexual.

Lisak said

Many of us women are interested two.

It's just less politically correct to admit it.

I think with men, among those really interested, probably 80% would admit it in a place like this,

With women, it's more like 40%

Where did you get those statistics?

Are they published somewhere or did you make them up?

I think this is the right place to relate the following true story. I frequently go to yard and estate sales on Saturday mornings. Last week there was an estate sale that listed medical equipment. That cought my attention and I decided to check it out. The house was well organized for the sale with a family member on duty in each room. After looking around thoroughly I saw no sign of enema equipment so finally got the courage to ask one of the ladies if her mom had an old fashioned "hot water bottle" with a.... Before I could finish my question the lady strikes a beautiful Statue of Liberty pose and asks "you mean one of these?" I shook my head yes and while still holding her hand high in the air says, "No, she took so many of them that the bag finally split wide open and we threw it away". Now this was her mom she was talking about and you know if mom was into enemas that much her daughters were sure to get a proper enema education. Judging from this comment and the quick pose, I'm sure this lady is a "Holder"This lady also mentioned that they were going to have to have another sale to finish clearing the house. My parting comment was to the effect that if they discovered another hidden "item" to please put it away and hold it for me to which she agreed. Boy, would I like her to "hold it for me"!

I have no data, this is just my perception:

Women are more likely than men to admit to a friend they have used, or still do use enemas. But they will most likely claim it is for health benefits. Is it because women are more prone to constipation or other bowel problems, therefore more likely to use enemas? I think few women will admit that they derive some sort of pleasure from enemas.

Men are less likely to use enemas for any reason than women, and they almost certainly would not admit to liking them. Put a couple of buddies in a bar and they will brag about their new girl or wife. "Hey Joe, did you get any last night?" "Hell yeah!!" "three times!!" That will never be followed by, "And did she give you an enema too?" Not gonna happen. Am I right, guys?

You sure can't judge by numbers and comments here on Zity. Because these postings are anonymous, there is no way to know what is real. Are most posters here male? Probably. But I would bet the house most of them would not admit what they post here to their friends or co-workers.

I can only speak for myself, but I have never, nor do I foresee ever discussing enemas with another guy, except in the confines of this website. I have broached the subject with a few women, but mostly to feel them out as to their interest in enemas, for obvious motives,

I operated a colonic clinic in Pittsburgh for about 3 years, basically as an investor to help the lady that owned it to get out of debt. Obviously because of my love of enema I gave colonics, too.

As I had full access to the client database I can say in this clinic it was 70/30 female clients. I can also say from my observation at least 25% of the females were enjoying sexual stimulation, probably more, but they kept their feelings private

Cheryl 7717 wrote:

Women are more likely than men to admit to a friend they have used, or still do use enemas. But they will most likely claim it is for health benefits. Is it because women are more prone to constipation or other bowel problems, therefore more likely to use enemas? I think few women will admit that they derive some sort of pleasure from enemas.

Yes, I can identify with Cheryl. My group of closest girlfriends rarely share our sexual exploits, but we do talk openly about health issues. Now our 50s, all of us over time have had enemas, mainly for minor to moderate GI stuff. Two of us have also done colonics, but I haven't been in quite a while.

Maybe it's because men only have one "hole" that can be filled, while women have "options" LOL!

Seriously, though, I find that when a woman has never had an enema in their adult life, when they do they find out that they can have erotic sensations to their g-spot just like men who get stimulated in their prostate.