I guess my first wife was more typical of women in general regarding anal sex. She was willing to try, but she could not tolerate it. She said it hurt too much. Lord, knows she was willing to try, and we did. We used different lubes, thorough warm-ups, and all kinds of variants, but it did not work.
One night, though, as we were starting to fool around, she told me to take her anally. I started to get lubed up, but she told me to just put enough on to get in her. I entered her and she started to respond and thrust back at me. She had a wonderful orgasm.
Afterward, she said it hurt like hell, but she really wanted to have anal that exact moment. She said she was glad we did it and it was a wonderful experience even if it did hurt her.
I figured we had a breakthrough with this, but we were never able to do it again despite several attempts.
I guess mood and emotion plays a huge part in enjoying receiving anal.
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