Am I sick?

Thats not sick. Thats hot. I wish there were more like you!

Sorry you are an ex member. You would learn much from this forum and realize all this is just different strokes, and lots of excitement.

No, you are not sick. You are just enjoying being you. I have injection fetish and i thought i was sick until i found this site and various injection movies in youtube.

Sick? Of course not! We are the true normal - and this site is proof! Let the world say what it like. We are who we are - and we will enjoy life our way Zity is a place we can truly be ourselves! I love everything about giving injections to beautiful women - it's what turns me on everytime. Here, I also got introduced to other aspects of MedFet - and guess what? They turn me on too! I read stories, fantasies and thoughts. It's terrific! And also concerns, fears and questions. But there is always comfort, consolation and answers from all over the world!

Let's just enjoy what we have, right?

I'm sure your are not sick. I only wish I had someone like you to share me deep feelings.

If you enjoy it and it doesn't hurt anyone else then don't worry about it, what some people consider unacceptable is due to their own views and repressions and may not reflect the reality of society at large.

Definitely not. There's a difference between kink and a full blown mental disorder. You're fine.

I spent a lot of my younger days agonising over why I had the desires I had. I would build up a cache of toys, then bin them in fits of angst and guilt over what I was feeling. I learnt to embrace my kink, and to enjoy it. I wasn't hurting anyone, and I wasn't a bad person; I just had to come to terms with my inner most desires and allow myself to be who I was.

I say enjoy your fetish, and let it enrich your life as opposed to worry you. It is even better that have a willing partner....couples who play together, stay together. Enjoy and best wishes.

No you are not sick and don't let anyone tell you you are.

No Amy. Don't ever think you are sick. I was spanked bare behind up nearly 16. When I was little got enemas the same way from my mom.

"Sick" is a term for someone who forces someone to do something against their will. If you have a fetish for something "not normal", embrace it and dig deep within yourself to find out why it's there. Then find someone who loves you enough to satisfy yours needs. Don't ever degrade yourself and be ashamed of who you are, I did for too long so I know.

I guess I would save the term "sick" for politicians and bureaucrats who lie to us and make promises they can't keep to steal more power and money from us.

There a a fine line between being sick, and being twisted. Being sick then indicating that there is something wrong.... but it can be fixed

What you might likely be experiencing is called the Stockholm Syndrome. The love of your captors as such. But since you grew up with being punished in such a way, your mind has twisted around that to cope with it. Eventually resulting in liking it, loving it in fact, wanting to come back for more

This is the most likely cause, but as for any fetish, and let me take the diaper lovers as an example here, there are a infinite reasons why people turn to like them, some being the most probable, but you can't really label any specific cause for it, the reason being the causes to diverse

No, definitely not! My experience as a bi dominant has told me that "possibly bad experiences" turn up many years later as an obsessive fetish. Practically all submissives that like to be spanked whipped or paddled, were punished THAT way when they were a child. Fetishes are a subject for Freud. Myself, I was given enemas as a child and I believe I acquired that fetish because of childhood enemas.

You are not sick but just a very sexy very creative young woman.

As someone who is studying psychology in college you are not sick. This is no mental condition. You were exposed to something as a child and the memories, experiences and feelings from your childhood are transferring over to your adult life. The way you were treated as a child is obviously impacting your sexuality as an adult. This is perfectly normal.

^^^So how do you explain when fully developed mature adults become attracted to various "proclivities" who as children have never been exposed to anything remotely related to fetish's ??

You are NOT sick. It is your particular proclivity. BUT Tell your bf, or better yet, let him read this post. If you are so embarrassed, tell him you found this post and have him read it because you want to know his opinion.LadyM

Nope you are normal according to this group but I have watched a few series on tv and saw that there are alot more (how can I say this) mentally unstable people that actually hurt and kill people but in your case having a healthy sex life that is you are not forced into is normal in my books aswell

^^^So how do you explain when fully developed mature adults become attracted to various "proclivities" who as children have never been exposed to anything remotely related to fetish's ??

That's a conundrum all right. I suppose it is usually explained by the very human failing of forgetfulness, either real or subconsciously repressed. The last explanation works best since if it manifests itself as a fetish later in life, it must obviously have been an important event at some earlier point. Or so the reasoning goes.

I'd also venture to guess that many proclivities come to be embraced not necessarily because people experienced anything similar when young, but maybe by hearing tell about them in some way or another or maybe even by simply reading. Explanations needn't always be tied to actual events or needn't be so cynical.

"Sick" is when you get hurt [although sometimes that can be fun as long as you heal easily] or when you hurt others to the point that they need medical care to heal. Some degree of pain and minor injury is fine as long as it is self healing and doesn't lead to incapacity or permanent damage.

No you are not sick at all. Bringing age play into your marriage is a good thing. It's something that you both enjoy plus helps you deal with the memories of when you were growing up.

My Mom and Step-Dad did the same things to me. I've used age play in my marriages to help me deal with those memories.

No, you are definitely not sick. See Freud's "A Child is Being Beaten."

Just saw a post on facebook: I saw an attractive man spank his kid at McDonalds for throwing his fries on the ground. So I also threw mine on the ground.

Very funny 44.

the sick is if it moves from kinky to obsession. you clearly arent. welcome to the list you are with friends. talk to any one of us, questions deserve answers.

If you're sick it most mean all of us here are. But don't think kinky is sick just different.

The member is no longer around to see any responses. She deleted her Zity account at some point.

It is not uncommon for people to recreate childhood punishments as an adult - especially if the punishments were of an abusive or humiliating nature. I didn't learn this til' grad school unfortunately. We live in a Puritanical STUPID, and ignorant society unfortunately, one in which shame abounds and knowledge is in short supply. I was exposed to diaper-punishments a child and re-create this as an adult with other CONSENTING ADULTS but not everyone understands...

What one feared most in youth often becomes a fetish later in life, so you are not sick (unless I am too!).

Having grown up in the era of penicillin shots, every doctor visit ended with the painful humiliation of bending over his receptionist's lap to get one when I went to his surgery or rolling over in bed for one on house calls. Even when I wasn't ill, routine medical examinations usually involved booster shots across the receptionist's lap. Getting injections in my vulnerable bare bottom (especially with the girl presumably watching) was my worst fear well into adolescence and the first time I went to the doctor knowing in advance it was for an injection, my only worry was where I would get it.

As an adult, my attitude has completely reversed. I am now thrilled whenever a beautiful nurse makes me drop trousers, pull down pants and bend over for one or more buttock injections to the extent that I even insist on getting shots back there when they could be given in the arm.

I don't think you are sick at all. Many members here can relate to you. Many of us are similar. You are part of a understanding group of kind people now.