Does Gender Matter in PLAY Exams

The TLDR for me is gender isn't much a factor.

Long answer: When I first really was looking to engage in fetish play, I was only looking at female partners. I had a number of male crushes, but really suppressed that side of me, having not really processed what being bisexual was or even being able to accept it. I had a couple of cursory experiences with female romantic partners in my late teens and early twenties, but nothing that was a full on medical fetish play.

I had my first male play exam when I was 21 as a patient, and it proved to be a great and fulfilling experience on the one hand. On the other hand, I had a lot of shame around allowing another guy to make me orgasm. Eventually enough time had passed where I accepted the situation a little more, and had a number of medical fetish experiences with guys since, all as the patient. I've had a few experiences with female partners as well, mostly in the play doctor role. Both have ultimately been fulfilling.

Now in my early 30s I've matured enough to accept being bi and started to desire more playing the doc role with male and female patients. I'll always be a patient at heart, but gender of the patient or play doc isn't particularly important to me, more so that they get turned on by the experience.

I'm going to say a qualified yes. Part of the appeal of MedFet for me is the 'forced' exposure. It feels more uncomfortable to be forced to expose yourself to a man than to another woman so it would be missing that element. That being said, I could get past that for the right person. I've not played with a woman as an adult in a MedFet space. I'd be willing to under the right circumstances with the right person.

No, this isn't an expression of interest or intent.

It does to me. Not particularly interested examining a guy.

For me, gender on the play exam is very important. I don't want to examine men and being examined by men on play exams. In real life I would prefer to being examined by a woman doctor, but I know I cannot decide on it every time.

It does matter to me. I feel more relaxed and prefer a female over a male. I have not done a medfet exam yet, but i would rather have a female. I am interested in medfet exam.

Gender is very important to me. I prefer a man

Great question! I'm male, but prefer to be examined by a female, although i have had a couple very good exams from male doctors. I have noticed that female doctors are sometimes more nuturing which i like. If I was in a doctor role, I would strictly want the patient to be female.

I’m a male I prefer a female exam me and would prefer to exam a female but wouldn’t mind a male.

I’m only attracted to women.

Absolutely a woman, both as a doctor and as a patient, even if medfed doesn't appeal to me

Definitely yes. If examined or treated, this would have to be with a woman as doctor/nurse/caregiver. With me as examiner, I'd rather examine a woman, though I admit I would be interested in giving a genital and digital rectal exam to a male.

For me, it's definitely biologically female for my patients. I'm cisgender male / heterosexual, and since medfet is, in fact, sexual for me, that's where I am.

If I ever had a play exam, it would most definitely be a woman.

I believe that for many people, their preference isn’t solely based on the gender they’re sexually attracted to, but rather on the gender of the doctor they encountered during their childhood. People have different reasons for enjoying play exams. For some, it’s an act of foreplay, while others find it a way to relive their childhood experiences. Additionally, some simply enjoy the power exchange involved.

Does gender matter? Certainly, it matters to the extent that the individual is comfortable with their play partner.

I have had role play examinations from male and female 'doctors' and enjoyed both.

The gender of the Play Doc wouldn’t bother me at all.

As a play patient, I do not care about the gender of the doctor, the doctor is a figure of authority and I actually prefer not being sexually attracted to them. As a play doctor, I prefer females.

I'm surely only attracted to women.

For me it matters. Men only.

I have been told at one point, that when it comes to a fetish, gender doesn't matter, its about the fetish. I don't know how true this is for people, but after reading 2 pages of responses, it seems that for some people, examiner preference follows sexual preference, and I find this true for me. Now if I submitted to a female play doc, I would probably say no to a semen sample, because I am male attracted. I actually have a lot of respect for the guys who are heteroflexibe.

I have been told at one point, that when it comes to a fetish, gender doesn't matter, its about the fetish. I don't know how true this is for people, but after reading 2 pages of responses, it seems that for some people, examiner preference follows sexual preference, and I find this true for me.

I definitely need a male play doc. Even if I'm receiving an exam that doesn't include sex beyond getting off, it's the combo of being dominated in an otherwise normal situation and the threat of being fucked--or, in the case of a rectal exam, the simulation of getting fucked by the doctor--that turns me on.

I'd also say that my medical interests have shifted from a fetish (i.e., I used to almost exclusively watch male medical porn) to a kink, but that feels like a tangent for a completely different thread.

Gender doesn't matter to me at all. Over the years I've done Medfet exams with men and women, and have always found it very enjoyable and satisfying.

For me it has to be a male doc

I prefer females to exam me in real life and in role play exams.

First, I need to say that I have never had an actual play exam. In reality, I have had both male and female doctors. That said, it is something I have thought about but honestly don't know how to find a fellow participant. This is something I either came to later in life or perhaps accepted later in life, and my current partner is not particularly interested in it, or even sex in general. (Long story)

All that said, it really doesn't seem to matter to me. I can fantasize about either. It is more the power dynamic that anything else. I would be the patient. I spent many years in the Navy doing physicals and sick call, and that aspect holds no real interest to me. I would prefer to be the one yielding the power to another.

As a Playdoc i have examined both male and female patients and also i have been examined myself by male and female Playdocs but female ones are pretty hard to find these days so as far as gender goes it doesnt matter to me.

I am a male "doctor" and only see male "patients". My specialty is proctology and regardless of the reason for a visit to my "clinic" every patient receives a THOROUGH proctology examination. I LOVE my job. 😉

I think so, yes, there is a difference. Being naked in front of the opposite sex is much more shameful.

I see all genders of patients - I enjoy the natural power dynamic between the doc and patient, so gender is irrelevant.

I agree about the power dynamic but as a male there is something about submitting to a male doc that makes it more realistic for me - I have had few real examinations from female doctors but never felt the intimidation or no-nonsense vide I received from male docs.