Does Gender Matter in PLAY Exams

I prefer to play with males. I'm wide open when it comes to men. (OMG, did I really say that?) I tend to be a little more stand-offish with females, although the idea of being examined by a female, with a male colleague in attendance, is intriguing. I don't particularly see myself providing treatment to females with one or two exceptions, and you know who you are!

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It does matter..It will turn me on only if a doctor is a female..

This is a very thought provoking question. I prefer a male doctor, both in real life and in play - but for play would find adding an older, stern female nurse to the mix very erotic.

I prefer a female doctor, thats just me though. I think this is bc i have a huge sexy les crush on my real gyno 😃

I would love to have a female play doc or nurse examen me.

i have always had menexam me.

As a male patient, the gender of the doctor doesn't matter for me as far as the exam is thorough and remains realistic.

Glad to hear that p.lewis! I like to examine both and would really like to examine a male and female together.

Yes, gender matters! In real life I have had a male doctor only twice and that was for the same issue and it wasn't really a choice. In real life it has to be a woman but for my medplay experiences it has to be a male for now, maybe as I learn and grow, having an experience with a woman doc would be fun but for now I want a man's touch.

Gender isn't really important to me, but I want a different type of exam based on the doctor's gender. If it's a female doctor, I don't mind if the exam is a little more sensual. If it's a male doctor, I want it to be very realistic and prefer the doctor to be very authoritative and even rude.

Gender isn't important to me at all. I've recently begun to identify more as pansexual than bisexual, because its such a non-issue for me. As I've said before it is all about personality for me, that is far sexier to me than any other aspect of a person. Thats not to say I ignore the physical, its just not primary for me.

I preffer male doctor, my real doctor is a man. But I play with ladies too.

I am new to this site. i was recently told by a more experienced member that a true MedFet does not care about gender. I am a str8 male that would only like a female doc. Is there a specific "name" for this that would eliminate some confusion about a persons profile. Thanks

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I am new to this site. i was recently told by a more experienced member that a true MedFet does not care about gender. I am a str8 male that would only like a female doc. Is there a specific "name" for this that would eliminate some confusion about a persons profile. Thanks

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I disagree with what that member told you. If it matters to you, sex matters. Most straight people want a patient or doc of the opposite sex. Only two posts out of 49 posts I saw in this thread want a same sex play doc.

Just post that you want a female.

Even though I love both sexes...for medfet play I would prefer to have a male doctor. So yes, for medfet play it does matter to me!

I think gender would matter for me if I were to try a play session. However in real life I would prefer to have a male doctor than a female one just to make sure things don't become awkward.

Thanks, for the answers. Looking forward to my weekend "MD" job.

I'm married and consider myself straight. But find the idea of being examined by a male doctor exciting. It makes it more embarassing. I guess for me this is my bicurious side.

I agree with you, davocea, I guess I'm in the same boat. Not married, but in straight relationship. I like being examined by males. I always like coming across like-minded people on this site! But the spectrum of sexual preferences in this forum is appreciated, of course.

For me it does a little bit...Obv play exams are about erotic and sexual fantasies so for me having a female dr is ideal. however, like most people here, realism is also a big factor in an enjoyable play exam. that being said i have no problem being examined by a male dr since it is what i grew up with and how i developed my fetish in the first place.

I real exams, the gender doesn't matter, just the best doctor possible. Play exams are just that Play! Opposite sex much preferred.

Yes and no. I want to try both but I have not had another female do it before. It would be good to try I guess.

I find it hard to answer this question. I love a woman who pays attention to me and wants to make certain I am ok. In my real life, my primary care physician is a woman, and I would not change that because of the simple pleasure I derive from being with her. In intimate matters, there is no substitute for a woman. A male doctor, on the other hand, makes me nervous because I should not be getting aroused, and as hard as I try, I can not fight against it. For that reason, I say either may apply.

Both variations have equally interesting results. Both enjoyable!

Playing doctor is mostly an erotic game, so in my opinion, the doctor and the patient should preferably be of such sexes, which would turn on one another. So:

male - female for both heterosexual;

male - male for both gays;

female - female for both lesbians.

The other situations can be problematic. A gay patient can enjoy an exam from a straight male doctor and a lesbian patient can enjoy an exam from straight female doctor.

There also is possible, when the patient is a straight male and the doctor is a lesbian, or the patient is straight female and the doctor is a gay, because the doctor examines the patient's sexual responses - not conversely. But that exams might be uninteresting for the doctor.

The worst situations are a straight male patient and male doctor (gay or straight) or a straight female patient and female doctor (lesbian or straight) because such exams can be unpleasant for the patient. There can come a comic situation, when the doctor is excited while the patient is bored.

Never had the chance to have a play exam so i'm not entirely sure, but so far my vote would have to be for a female nurse.

Really doesn't matter to me...though females are slightly more preferred.

Play exams, in my view, are an attempt to recreate real life exams in a more exciting and more fulfilling form. So as a play patient you will likely prefer to have a play doctor of the same sex as the real life doctor or doctors you've experienced. In my case, I've had both, so I'm equally happy to be examined by a male or a female playdoc.

Similarly when I am acting as playdoc, it doesn't matter too much to me whether the patient is male or female. What matters is the quality of the medfet experience - if the patient is as much into the scene as I am, regardless of gender, the chemistry and the enjoyment will be there.

For me it has to be a male playdoc

I am a female and usually prefer males. However, I would try being examined by a female.

I'm str8 so I would prefer a female play dr, however, I also like my exams realistic and have had mostly male drs growing up so a male play Dr wouldn't really bother me