Discussing your exam with others

When I return from a doctor's appointment, I usually tell my dear wife what happened. But then again, I've never had any truly "annoying" medical tests.

The exception was my only prostate exam 10 years ago.since long done now with a simple blood test, but then via a rectal exam done by a female docter.

I found that too embarrassing to tell my wife, especially because she would most likely pass it on to my now-adult daughters.

I prefer to reserve the discussion of such exams for here on Zity, as some good female friends here know.

I discuss my health issues with my wife, and people who I feel comfortable with. Men my age, have similar medical issues, and are curious about treatments that have helped. We’re beyond the age of worrying about whether our sperm count is sufficient, or what we can do to prevent hair loss.

At my school they were required annually, and I was always curious about what the boy’s exams were like. My girls classmates and I were curious, but we didn't have the courage to ask the boy’s .

@maria_fetish I would be happy to discuss what the boys exams were like in school. You can ask me anything, I'm not shy. Ask me here or send me a private message. I always enjoy remembering those exams.

If I have a real medical appointment I won’t even acknowledge that much outside of my family.

I do discuss my exams to my partner and four very close friends. I have also shared them with the Zity community. The four best friends have supported me 100% and are curious to learn about my MtF transition journey.

From reading others posting on their experience, I have learned a great deal. One the best ways to learn in my opinion. Especially the more sensitive private exams.

I always share the details of my examination with my wife after each doctor session I have. Sometimes she comes with me to my appointments too.

On the other side my wife shares details with me. A few weeks ago, she had doctor appointment for breast examination and I accompanied her to the appointment and surprisingly the doctor (hot male doctor) examined her breast in front of me. It was such a hot experience!

I usually share the details of medical exams with my wife. I rarely talk about them with other men. Occasionally I will discuss them with female friends who I know to be medical professionals of one sort or another or who may have had similar experiences.

Yes, I’m very open about my medical experiences. I happily share the details with close friends, family and even coworkers when we’re at that level of comfort. I seem to have completely missed out on the embarrassment gene!

I’ve posted quite a few of my own exam and procedure stories here on Zity too. I genuinely enjoy hearing about other people’s journeys, there’s something comforting and intimate about swapping those vulnerable moments. It can ease worries, spark interesting conversations and sometimes even help someone feel less alone.

And yes… I’m very aware that for some members here these stories stir all sorts of delicious fantasies. I’m not just comfortable with it, I quite enjoy knowing I’m getting you a little hot under the collar.

So go ahead… ask me anything. Tell me exactly what you want to hear. I’ll describe every slow, intimate detail just for you.

I do with other women and encourage them to tell me about their exams too. I've overheard women in our office telling the men what happens at our workplace medicals. Any time I leave to go for my medical during work hours it's extra embarrassing as I know that they know I'm going to get my labia pulled back.

I had a school medical well after everyone else partly due to age then further by my mother not filling out a consent section either way. The medical itself was embarrassing and I was aroused in front of the doctor as probably 100s of boys had been before me.

Anyway, I got back into class and the teacher said “Well…” I looked at him and he went on “did you enjoy that?” I just know that I went beetroot.

So obviously they had been talking.

The day before yesterday, my employee, a 40-year-old single woman, told me about her cardiology appointment. It was very exciting.

When we have physical exams, some girls in our class asked me about it. They were especially interested in the Genital Exam. I was a little bit shy, but they persuaded to Tell them everything.

One day, a female colleague of mine complained that her automatic blood pressure monitor was inflating the cuff too much for no apparent reason, as her blood pressure wasn't high anyway. I had the opportunity to discuss using a manual blood pressure monitor.

Yes, I share with a female friend. I like the embarrassment of telling her about my exams. She probably likes it somewhat, but to be fair she probably tolerates it more.

I’ve not talked much about it to people in my personal life. One girlfriend in particular, though. A lot of my experiences were different from hers and she had an interest in hearing quite a lot about it, and I enjoyed sharing.

I once had a boss who used to have regular hospital treatment for MS and used to be somewhat of an over sharer!

I heard first hand about her ailments - "spent yesterday with my (huge) tits out all morning" being my favourite anecdote.

Yes I enjoy exam stories very much. A friend of mine came over for dinner and movie and I told her that I had had a physical examination that day, and that the doctor had performed genital and rectal exams. I told her that I had enjoyed the exam, and she asked me for details. I asked her if she had ever felt man's prostate and she said no, she hadn't. When I asked if she would like to feel mine she said yes, but that I would have to give her instructions. I gave her gloves and a tube of KY, and talked her through the procedure while I was bent over the coffee table. Then she thanked me for the anatomy lesson.

Yes I enjoy exam stories very much. A friend of mine came over for dinner and movie and I told her that I had had a physical examination that day, and that the doctor had performed genital and rectal exams. I told her that I had enjoyed the exam, and she asked me for details. I asked her if she had ever felt man's prostate and she said no, she hadn't. When I asked if she would like to feel mine she said yes, but that I would have to give her instructions. I gave her gloves and a tube of KY, and talked her through the procedure while I was bent over the coffee table. Then she thanked me for the anatomy lesson.

I wouldn’t have the guts to even ask this to my girlfriend, so to a friend! But I can use this for alone time material!

I rarely discuss my medical exams with family, and they don't often come up naturally with friends either. I'd hate for things to get awkward! This site is really the only place where I feel truly comfortable opening up about these kinds of experiences, since everyone here understands and shares the same interest. As for hearing about others' experiences absolutely! I find it genuinely fascinating to compare notes and learn what other people have gone through during their exams. It's always interesting to discover just how different, or sometimes surprisingly similar, our medical experiences can be.

I tell my wife about my exams and she tells me about hers. Recently a friend and I were on the golf course together and I commented that I had a physical recently. He asked who I saw and I told him. Apparently we see the same procedure and he mentioned that she is fairly old school for her young age. I agreed with him and commented that most providers her age don’t check the twins anymore. He told me about his experience with her checking his genitals and I in turn told him about getting mine checked.

I don't have to tell my wife. We go to all of each other Dr. appointments.

I do like to share my experiences, it is part of the embarrassment and can be a bit exciting as well. I have shared with friends on this site and some on the outside.

My exams are pretty much uneventful. But I do enjoy reading about women's experiences, and what they like and how they feel about what is happening to them in the moment. I have been fortunate to have had some discussions on here with women who have been very open about sharing their experiences.

Things I like to learn about: How are they gowned or not, how is it manipulated during the course of the exam. If they enjoy having breast exams. If there are ever chaperones present. If they've gotten wet, and if the doctor could tell, and how they feel about the whole thing. Did they have someone accompany them, like a spouse or a friend. What their first time having to show their breasts to the doctor was like. If they could sense the dominance innocence dynamic of them with their doctor. All kinds of aspects that I can think of. The topic seems to interest me, enough to ask questions and maintain my attention. Occasionally I'll even make a suggestion , like how to go about trying to make something happen that they want.

With one of my friends. We always discussed about our exams as teen.

I have a couple of friends that I compare exam experiences with.

I have discussed exams with friends or family on a few occasions. My brother in law saw the same doctor as me for a while and we joked about how thorough the doctor is. I usually tell my wife about my exams. She gets a kick our of my exposure and getting examined.

I absolutely love to hear about others' exams. My wife tells me about hers if I'm not along. Usually if the exam will be somewhat invasive, such as her gyno exams, she likes me to join her. She enjoys the company / comfort and I enjoy the show.