Discussing your exam with others

No problem discussing my physicals growing up. whole point of the site.

In the early years of our marriage I'd ask for, and get, all the details of her intimate parts exams. It turned me on so much that I would masturbate as she was telling me. But it also made me jealous as she would open her legs more willingly for the Doc than for me. I can't imagine her telling the doc that she just wasn't in the mood for showing her parts and having them felt.

After a few years of this she really objected to my jealousy and wouldn't tell me anything again. I don't ask now as I know she'll get annoyed. So now I get off alone using my imagination of what happened. I masturbate at real gyno videos.

No problem discussing my physicals growing up. whole point of the site.

Exactly. That is why I am happy I found this site.

No, not details with most family. Because most don't really give a shit about us and our health issues. They seem to have worse issues than we do. They tend to "one up us".

I hear you @MissStress. This is why I stopped talking to my mother about anything to do with my health by the time I was a teenager. Any pain I felt, any discomfort, she always had worse.

To answer the question, I have a close group of family and friends who I discuss a lot of my personal issues, medical experiences, etc with. My dad, my partner, my best friend, one of my cousins, my sister are usually given a rundown of what’s going on in my life. They were a part of each of my pregnancies and my ovarian cancer treatment. Outside of that, my visits to the doctor have been almost nonexistent.

In terms of mental health, my partner, my best friend and my sister often get random messages about various traumas I’m working on with my psychologist. While they take it seriously, they do think it’s sometimes funny to get a message or a call from me like “you know that time that [fkd up thing] happened?” and I’m just so nonchalant about something quite serious.

On occasion, friends have talked to me about their issues or those of their children, including intimate issues; for instance a lady friend of mine told me about getting surgery for an anal fissure. The thing is, I would have a prurient interest in the topic, but I definitely cannot afford to let my friends know about my fetishist interests, so I must be careful.

My Wife was having Heavy menstrual bleeding some years ago , an appointment was made at the local hospital to see a Male Gyno (of course!) it was arranged for soon after our summer Holiday abroad , i used to shave/Trim her Vulva for the pre holiday preparations- something we both enjoyed ! . As she is a Sun Worshipper and had a deep Tan , i got quite turned on and Jealous about a Male doctor inspecting her shaved White & Pink bits & it made me more jealous when she said to one of our Female friends how she had a hospital Appointment" to see some Guy about Down Below".!

I wish I had someone to talk to intimately about the doctor and medfet. When I was younger at school I never really participated in conversations about the doctor I more just observed from the sidelines.

I don't do it in much detail because my fetish makes me embarrassed. I wish I would talk about them more though

Just to the men I'm with that want to hear the details of the ones they weren't with me for... Otherwise, none of us really talk about things like that other than "getting the ladies squished Thursday" or getting asked which doctor(s) I see because they're looking to change.

I'd never discussed exams or my dental fascination with anyone before joining Zity, it has been great to share my experiences and hear about others, I always thought my interest was weird, so sharing has made me more comfortable, and sharing my experiences with smear tests has been interesting too, it's actually been fun comparing 'notes', considering a smear test isn't on my fun list, I'm sure my next one may be more interesting♥️

Yes discussed exams with a lot of friends growing up...one time it got to the point where we showed each other what happened

Honestly discussing with friends is how I found out that mom being present in the later years wasn’t a common practice

Yes discussed exams with a lot of friends growing up...one time it got to the point where we showed each other what happened

As a kid, I too told my friends, both male and female, about my medical visits, and they did too. And sometimes we even showed and re-did what the doctor had done.

Honestly discussing with friends is how I found out that mom being present in the later years wasn’t a common practice

Yes, my mother also attended my visits until I was 17. Once she even asked the doctor if she could listen to my heartbeat.

I was the youngster of the class, sometimes I overheard classmates discussing the medical they had endured at school.

Nobody who discussed them was happy about them, they called the doctor foul names. I knew I would likely get the same medical one year later.

When it came to my turn I directed questions to friends and classmates who were examined previously. Some openly discussed their experience with me.

@JohnTom What you describe reminds me of the following. When I was a young man, I had to take a physical (let's cut a long story short and not explain why). An older guy, who had taken it the year before and had to take it again, joked: "let's have our balls felt". Because of that, I had some apprehension when I went to the physical, and then realized that on top of that the doctor was a woman. Sure, my briefs went down and my testicles were checked.

When I was a boy I used to discuss details of medical exams with my close friend, even the embarrassing details.

Generally no. But I have in a few cases.

Shared a lot with my bff in high school, and she with me. Also with one guy friend in high school. Always wished I’d overhear classmates’ exam stories in group conversations but it didn’t happen much during teen years. One girl complained that her doctor had her naked throughout her entire exam, which she hated, and that got around, everyone knew.

Have discussed some with Zity friends when chatting… more the pediatric experiences than adult.

@graceT It is far easier to discuss such issues anonymously, online, than with people around you! And school friends can be so indiscreet…

Honestly discussing with friends is how I found out that mom being present in the later years wasn’t a common practice

Yeah, I had both sides of that one. Discussing with friends in my mid teens reassured me about my mom being present, because their moms were present, too, at least through age 15. But we all had the same pediatrician. Discussing with friends as an adult was how I learned that what my pediatrician did with moms present was not the universal practice.

Yeah @Jacana, we discussed what was done to us without detail. My older classmate told me my penis then my testicles would be examined. When I asked if he got an erection he said yes.

I never asked him details, what the female doctor did to cause that.

After my medical we discussed them together as a mixed sex group. There were variations depending on parental concent.

The girls had little sympathy, one said we only had to be examined once whilst they had their genitals examined for a lifetime.

Yeah @Jacana, we discussed what was done to us without detail. My older classmate told me my penis then my testicles would be examined. When I asked if he got an erection he said yes.

I never asked him details, what the female doctor did to cause that.

After my medical we discussed them together as a mixed sex group. There were variations depending on parental concent.

The girls had little sympathy, one said we only had to be examined once whilst they had their genitals examined for a lifetime.

I'm not sure I agree with that one girl's assessment. Guys are still subject to testicular cancer, hydroceles, and varioceles. Uncirced guys can suffer from a torn frenulum or phimosis.

@ILuvLadyDocs But from the age of 8 (most phimosis are dealt with before that age, often surgically) to 50 (enlarged prostate), most guys undergo no examination of the genitals, or very few, while women typically go to the gyn every year. That's what the girls meant: the guys are uncomfortable about one examination once while the girls know they will have to spread open every year until old age.

Sure, I've always been willing to share details of my exams. As a kid it was mostly focused on what nudity was involved and if (and where) injections were given.

As an adult, if asked, I'm pretty willing to share my experiences over the years. It usually is triggered by hearing someone has received a diagnoses similar to mine.

In love hearing stories, not much of a sharer myself.

On ward as kid we all chatted about our treatment not much else to do as we all watched each other getting rectal temp enemas injection time had hold enema before going daily talk

I have but only with a couple of people. I used to work with a gal who is a few years younger than I am. We are pretty good friends she was asking me once if I went to the doctor? I told her I did once a year. She then started asking me questions about what he did to me? When I asked her why she wanted to know she said because her boyfriend didn't go to the doctor and she wanted to know what they did to guys? We are pretty comfortable with each other so I told everything that I had done to me. She listened and asked questions. Before we were done talking she ended up telling me about her first gyn exam when she had went in for birth control. I didn't have to ask she pretty much told me everything saying that the doctor had worked her over good. We still talk about what happened at our last appointment. Now though it's more about our health rather than what we had done to us.

In love hearing stories, not much of a sharer myself.

When I was a boy I liked listening to stories about medical visits from my relatives, especially those from my aunts and cousins. I always hoped they would talk about cardiac auscultations.

Yeah I do with close friends

I usually talk with my friends about my medical exams, but it really depends on what kind of exam it is. After my first gynecological exam, for example, it became a big topic because I was the first one in our friend group to go, everyone wanted to know what it was like 😅.

Funny enough, I’m not that interested when other people talk about their experiences. I listen, of course, but I’m not as curious as most of my friends seem to be.