Yet to meet anyone who shares my interests to be able to discuss such topics with in real life unfortunately
I’ve never admitted to anyone, male or female, that I’ve gotten erections during my physicals. I’ve only ever discussed it here.
I have shared with few friends and they have shared their experiences with me. I always ask for a details, how they reacted and how did they feel during the exam. Also I always ask if they had to be naked, or what clothes they had on.
At my school they were required annually, and I was always curious about what the boy’s exams were like. My girls classmates and I were curious, but we didn't have the courage to ask the boy’s .
@YIENPAC First, we were separated by gender, and we waited in line outside the nursing office with our signed authorization for the exam. When our names were called, we entered in groups of three together. The first step was to measure our weight and height on a scale. The second nurse took notes. Then, we asked the usual questions like pain and allergies. Finally, we continued to the doctor who attended to us one by one while the others waited. It was routine and very mechanical for the doctor. I remember that the first step was to sit at the table, and the first step was to examine our eyes, then our tongue and throat, our neck and lungs with a stethoscope, palpate our stomach, and finally, touch the tips of our hands to the tips of our toes without bending our knees. The doctor dictated the symptoms he saw, and the first nurse took notes. The second nurse prepared the blood work and any injections, if the doctor ordered them. When she finished examining the first patient, she would then call the second patient while the first patient was getting dressed. To finish the exam, we could only leave the office when she finished the three patient examamined and they would call the next three patients.
Hmm- based on the replies I've read in other threads, it does seem like the male exams are more detailed and less private than the female ones, as a general rule. As always, your mileage may vary.
My aunt is the only person that I talk openly with about my health and medical exam details. She will also sometimes share her health and exam experiences with me. We trust each other explicitly and have a very close bond. This is a regular and comfortable conversation for us.
I had never discussed an exam, a dental visit or a smear test with anyone before joining Zity, there are a couple of friends here I have now told, and I've really enjoyed the chats and listening to their experiences too, quite tingly during and after chats❤️
I share all experiences and details of examinations, etc., with my wife, even if she is not present during the examination/treatment. We have no secrets in our marriage...
I never discussed my exams with anyone IRL because I'm really shy about it. Some friends of mine told me about their exams, though. First time was in middle school, a lovely girl I really liked told me about an embarrassing exam she had. That night I fantasized a lot, but the next day I felt guilty. The best time was when another female friend told me about her exam at for the army. She was very embarrassed and I found this really exciting. I then discovered that what I like so much about these stories is the embarrassment, and not the exam by itself, probably because of my past experiences with doctors. More recently a friend told me about her gyno exam very in detail, but she wasn't embarrassed at all. I wasn't excited at all.
The only person I talk to about exams is my wife. She is very comfortable with me, so she also tells me details about her exams, which can be interesting, especially internist and gynecology exams.If there is no illness involved, but just a routine exam, we sometimes make a little game out od it, discussing exams later.
I’ve talked with several friends, here and not on here, about exams and results. If serious, I keep it only to very few. I tell my wife, bit she doesn't really understand things anymore, so she just nods her head and agrees. As far as relatives, I've recently become more reluctantant to talk to them because of their judgemental attitudes.
I rarely talk to anyone about medical check-ups. Somehow, whenever I mention something related to a doctor or how they listened to my heart, it starts beating like crazy. Sometimes I tell a friend something that happened, but I feel uncomfortable — my heart starts racing, and I get tachycardia. I know it’s normal for other people to say they went to the doctor, but I never talk about it. Not even with my parents.When I had a medical exam for work, the doctor told me that my heart rate was very fast and that my blood pressure was quite high, but she still gave me the certificate. Of course, I didn’t tell my parents because it would have felt awkward, and my heart would have jumped out of my chest. I don’t know, I just feel uncomfortable talking about my heart. Sometimes I found it interesting but then it is beating like crazy too..
I do share with the right person. I am very upfront about the experience, INCLUDING CORRECT DETAILS, about my age and details.I have a good correspondence with a medical friend who is honest and open about my experiences. This friend also shares in the medical fetish, so it helps to share with them, even when my heart starts beating fast within. They are honest with me about my experience, to the best of theor abilities
This doesn't qualify as someone discussing an exam with me, but many years ago a friend told me his girlfriend had to see a doctor to have a tampon removed from her vagina. Apparently, it had gotten lodged too deep and he either couldn't get it out or didn't want to try. I'd never heard of anything like this. I wondered back then if it was embarrassing to schedule that appointment and then have to spread your legs specifically for that purpose, but now I realize it could be hazardous if not addressed swiftly.
When I was younger I would talk to my mom about it sometimes but most of the time she'd be in there with me. Now sometimes I'll share with my sisters since we still live together but mostly I don't talk about it. I'm trying to talk to more people online though.
Never... I find the whole experience to be so surreal that I think I'd reveal my interest too much by discussing it. That being said, if I see an opening, I'll always ask a friend what happened in an exam they had to almost try and live vicariously through them. Kind of a weird double standard, I know.
Never... I find the whole experience to be so surreal that I think I'd reveal my interest too much by discussing it. That being said, if I see an opening, I'll always ask a friend what happened in an exam they had to almost try and live vicariously through them. Kind of a weird double standard, I know.Actually, that's not weird and I know what you mean. Over the years, girls/women have remarked that they have a doctors appointment. I've been tempted to make some innocuous comment hoping she will provide more information, but have always refrained for fear of them discovering my fetish and thinking I'm perverted.
Even with good friends it can get awkward.I have been looking for a new GP for a couple of years - previous GP retired. I have tried to ask friends and co-workers if they can suggest or recommend a practice or doctor. Even then it can get weird: I stated to one coworker that I was looking for a GP who 'gave thorough exams' and I got a strange look in return.
I discuss my exams with my partner. He's perhaps the only person (besides some of my doctors and my therapist) who knows about the anxiety I have regarding real medical exams and procedures. He understands it partially because he's seen me upset about it before, so it's important for me to feel his support sometimes.I discuss these things also with other friends who have a special interest in these topics such as you. But I don't discuss details with other friends and family usually, or if I do, I leave some details out, like the anxiety associated to it.
When I was in the 7th grade I had a sports physical done by my pediatrician and I mentioned the exam to a friend. We were in the same grade and had been friends since fifth grade. He was an unathletic, effeminate, boy who I was sure was gay and whose dick I had wanted to see for three years. I mentioned the exam to him with the idea that I would try to use it to get a look at his penis. He asked me about the exam and gave him details of genital and hernia exam. He asked me to demonstrate the exam to him in his room at his house. I told him that I would, if he would show me his penis. He agreed. I showed him the technique of genital exam and he wanted to feel my penis and scrotum. He started jerking me off and I stopped him when I was about to ejaculate and made he show me his. He reluctantly dropped his pants and briefs and out came the first uncircumcised penis I had ever seen. He loved my circumcised dick and wanted to jerk me off to completion. That led to a whole school year of him beating me off.
I only share the most intimate details with my wife (and the good people here @zity !) My wife does not share my interest In medical exams, enemas etc but I still enjoy telling her the most embarrassing details!
Apart from this site I am required to relate in detail to my older Master of my role play “medicals”. I’m in a CMNM relationship with this gentleman who enjoys my stimulation when relating my examination experiences.