What did you find surprising when you first started having sex?

I think the biggest surprise for me when I first had penetrative sex, was hot the girl's vagina felt on my penis. Never really aware of it previously with my fingers penetrating quite a few vaginas before my penis got the opportunity to go there. A lot more aware of it in my youth as most of the girls I dated then were quite virginal and tight.

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We were both virgins on our wedding night and so we were learning together. There were lots of surprises.

I thought I knew so much because I had read "Everything You Ever Wanted to Know About Sex, But Were Afraid to Ask" but that didn't prepare me at all.

I worked for a guy in high school and four years later just before I got married, I sat down with his wife and asked her what to do on the wedding night.

In 45 minutes, she gave me the following instructions:

- Bring our our bath towel to place under my wife so any blood would be

on our towel and not on the sheets or towels of the hotel.

- Bring KY Jelly which in the late 1970s was pretty gooey and sticky and

not as slick as they lubricants of today.

- Warm up my wife by rubbing her clit for at least 30 minutes

- Go at my wife's pace because I would be ready immediately but she

would need a long warmup period.

- Know that I would not feel any pain, but my wife would.

Surprises?

My wife was surprised at how big my penis got during an erection and that that was going inside of her vagina where only small tampons had been inserted. I'm not claiming to be big--I think I'm about average at 14 inches (36 cm)--oh, wait. That's my forearm.. I was just big for my wife, especially when erect.

I was surprised at how warm, wet, and wonderful her vagina felt on my penis compared to my hand when masturbating.

We both knew there would be pain for her, but we were both surprised at how much pain she felt the first time.

The first time, she felt quite a bit of pain when we did it in the afternoon after the wedding and before the reception. She let me keep going because she knew she needed to get through the pain. I just wanted to get through the hymen.

There was still some pain the second time we had sex right after the reception.

The third time was maybe an hour later and if there was any pain, she didn't notice it because she was really turned on. We were still at the hotel. I was in the bathroom and she was on the bed. She called out, "You better get in here, Mister. I'm ready for you and I'm gonna have an orgasm. I can feel it and you better hurry." I got there very quickly and she was indeed ready and she did cum, as she predicted.

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How HOT, WET & Slippery she was.

My first time but not hers.

It happened after our 3 rd date

That was the week of Halloween 1971.

That night she made me “HERS”.

Still together for ever

And no bloodshed yet, but the day is not over😃😃

She put a spell on me😃 ………

The first time I saw a porn video (which were not easy for a young lad to come by in the pre-internet era), I was surprised by how fast the thrusting was. I wondered if the male had some kind of reflexive reaction and just started moving uncontrollably.

The first thing I noticed was wow, this is an awful lot of work!

The second thing was thing biggest surprise -- while humping away at a pussy feels absolutely great, it's a much more gentle sensation than masturbating... because of this, I was unable to reach orgasm for the first 6-8 times I had sex, but I did eventually get used to the sensation.

I've since read about the "death grip" but really don't think that was my issue.

October 1974 was our first together. Both virgins and my wife only had a tampon to break her In before that night.

She was so turned on and wet down there she barely felt any discomfort, according to her. She was shocked

by the size of my penis when we were done. I'm only 6" erect. According to her, that's more than enough. When we

have sex when she's in that horny time of the month we both feel real comfortable together. Yes, it's real messy and the sheets

definitely need changing the next day. Left a good tip for the maid. Married 52 years and still feels the same.

Takes a lot more time to recover for me. What a way too. No complaints.

I was well-read with some experience with foreplay, but short of penetrative sex. I was quite disappointed that I didn't come, that he didn't know how to stimulate me that way, and worse, that he didn't much care whether I came or not.

Handsome was enough to get him the privilege, but overall, he was a lousy lover. Mr. PinotNoir has always looked to my pleasure before his own, if you know what I mean. A keeper!