Chastity without use of devices?

I have read with interest many posts / threads about long term chastity. All of whom seem to be achieved by wearing a cage. In my opinion ( and I may be wrong) this removes not only control but also willpower.

Has anyone practiced chastity/ abstinence without any devices? Just cheer determination/ willpower / discipline not to mastrubate or have any other form of sexual relief?

It's something I've considered buying for myself, just to test my own willpower actually. A bit like hiding the biscuit tin, that kind of thing. I'll let you all know if I do it.

@KinkEngineer my question was who practices chastity without devices. But do by all means let us know how you get on. Either with or without cage. 😉

Good point @Secret_sub ! (read the exam requestion again - me :-) To date, I've set myself abstinence challenges, measured in weeks… without devices. Small goals :-)

Yes, I do this without a device - typically, I choose to orgasm once a month. And yes, I do edge, but not to completion.

I suppose this might be a hybrid form of chastity.

In any case I prefer not to ejaculate and usually can go for a month or more without doing so. I do so because afterwards there is always a long letdown/refractory period which I do not find very pleasant. It can take up to a week or so for me to recharge to a level of true sexual desire/arousal. It is also much more pleasant to be in an almost constant state of (semi) arousal.

That said, I do masturbate daily, often more than frequently or what friends might consider normal and prefer to edge while letting erotic imagings run free.

I don't use chastity devices, even though I have bought a few. I only managed to get one on properly. They seem to be devilishly difficult to get on without crushing testicles … ha ha. I do find them intriguing and will have to experiment more I fear or find better fitting models.

So my form of (partial/hybrid) chastity is from willpower only, though is putting too big a word on it, since essentially it is simply controlling myself not to go go beyond boundaries.

Yes, I do this without a device - typically, I choose to orgasm once a month. And yes, I do edge, but not to completion.

Hi Supple, how do you edge without an ‘accident’? I have tried and find I cannot stop even though I have stopped touching.

how do you edge without an ‘accident’? I have tried and find I cannot stop even though I have stopped touching.

Stop sooner and learn to recognize the signs of an impending ejaculation.

For myself personally, I have found that when getting ‘dangerously’ close to ejaculating, I move myself around, turn onto a side, sit upright or whatever. In any case, not to continue laying immobile. Don't know why it works, but it does for some reason.

But the main thing is to stop sooner, maybe think of something mundane or unpleasant.

Its called marriage to a frigid wife

I might be wrong but when I get a little horny I have to do something about it even if it means hunting down ma thumb and her four daughters. who knows they might be throwing the dirt in my face in the morning. just don't want to think why didn't I do that.

@dgh - yes I echo the advice of @agracier - just stop a little bit earlier. This is easier said that done, because you might have a strong desire to orgasm. Also, it takes practice, and the occasional failure is inevitable.

I practice sexual abstinence and abstinence from ejaculation without devices or cages. I do it before running competitions or just because. A certain determination and willpower is required, I refrain from any kind of stimulation. After two weeks it's getting easier for me because my sexual arousal is decreasing and I hardly ever have an erection. After 8 to 10 weeks my body has gotten used to not ejaculating anymore and I hardly ever have an erection. Even if I stimulate myself again, it takes a long time before I get an erection. It also takes some time to get the body used to regular ejaculations again.

I refrain from any kind of stimulation. After two weeks it's getting easier for me because my sexual arousal is decreasing and I hardly ever have an erection. After 8 to 10 weeks my body has gotten used to not ejaculating anymore and I hardly ever have an erection. Even if I stimulate myself again, it takes a long time before I get an erection. It also takes some time to get the body used to regular ejaculations again.

Interesting, with the opposite effect of what I experience.

I do stimulate myself as good as daily, often several times a day in the right situations. My goal with (ejaculation) chastity is certainly not to loose interest in sexual desire or loss of erections. Good heavens no. It is to enhance desire and physical response.

When I became incontinent my wife became the device putting me in diapers to control my wetting.

This is something I've been thinking about recently! I've often struggled to come up with rules that actually make sense in a ds/disciplinary dynamic, and “no touching without permission/supervision” is very appealing especially because there is the possibility of failure, which can lead to discipline.

I have read with interest many posts / threads about long term chastity. All of whom seem to be achieved by wearing a cage. In my opinion ( and I may be wrong) this removes not only control but also willpower.

Has anyone practiced chastity/ abstinence without any devices? Just sheer determination/ willpower / discipline not to mastrubate or have any other form of sexual relief?

Yes - my bf has controlled my orgasms for 13 years now. Most of that time has been without wearing a cage. I like the added control of a cage, but realistically they're not secure for me without having a piercing and aren't always practical, so are mostly symbolic aside from reducing the enjoyment of getting hard.

Over the last several years, I've been allowed to cum roughly once a month or less. My self control is pretty good, plus there's the threat of punishment for breaking the rules!

Although it's not difficult for me to get my dick out of the cage, (and back in) I never abused it. Love the feeling of being horny while my dick is captured. I don't have the self controll when I don't wear a cage.+