Did you prefer one gender first?

My primary attraction is quite obviously towards the opposite sex, but I've had experiences where I was attracted to the same. I'd say 80-85% straight, 15-20% gay.

When I was 8 I sucked a 9 year old boys cock, because he asked me . He also tried to fuck me, but that didn't work. No sperm was swallowed, and no asshole was penetrated. Had no particular feelings , one way or another.

For the next 6 decades , my sex live was heterosexual, but always felt something was missing. 2 years ago, I sucked my first cock, and couldn't believe how great I felt. That was the missing piece of my sex life. Since then, I have swallowed a lot of sperm, and realized what I had been missing all those decades. Still like women for sex, but will choose a man every time.

if decisions have to be made. In this world, I would be classified as bisexual!

I've always preferred (attracted to) females my whole life, never males. Even though my gender is transgender MtF, I still only prefer females being lesbian. Sorry guys, I love PUSSY!

I never liked or have been attracted to the looks of male genitalia, especially the penis. Being my authentic self lesbian, this why I don't want and hate seeing my own penis.

Now that I am a sure Lesbian, yes of course girls first

I think I was fascinated by girls and boys both in adolescence but the understanding of sexual desire came on first for boys. I was very PIV oriented, probably because I actually found an encyclopedia that explained sexual reproduction in detail… I didn’t have as many misconceptions as a lot of people in my school district, I can tell you that.

With girls I think I wanted to either play doctor with them (beyond the normal age when that gives way to more mature sexuality) or imagine contrived scenarios where we’d have to share a bed.

But eventually I realized exactly what I wanted to do with another girl.

As a man I prefer to have sex with a woman first rather than a man. I lean more towards women as they were the ones where I first started my sexuality.

Someone mentioned looking through Playboy magazines when they were young, admiring the beautiful female form. I was like that too. so I guess my honest answer to the question is I was initially attracted to girls first. As I got older, and I began exploring my own sexuality and feelings of gender, I began to also appreciate how good a man could look and whether I could be attracted to them.

In my teens, a neighbor of mine and I engaged in mutual masturbation, cock sucking and anal intercourse. I discovered that I liked it and started looking at other men from an attraction point of view.

I've married, second time, and I still love looking at women, but I can look at men too. And when I need some hot cock, there is only one place to look.

The experiences and desires of @Phoenix7 rings true for me… esp in the classroom as a teen (moreso the female teachers). But I also fantasized about my classmates, boys & girls both.

I remember my first intimate partners were boys, but I think that was about accessibility and either exploring young or needing an outlet for a testosterone fueled libido.

But I think I definitely preferred girls conceptually, but it didn't exactly feel hetero.

Well I figured out the trans girl thing and things made a lot more sense.

It turns out I'm a trans girl who likes other trans girls, and femininity in general, never had an issue with the equipment I just like softer curves.

Growing up I was totally 100% straight. I never even gave other girls a thought, right up until after I got with my first boyfriend and lost my virginity. Even though I never had any satisfying sex with him I was still 100% straight. It all changed after some slightly drunken bed-sharing with a friend got steamy. I mostly flipped 180 and most of my straight fantasies and eyeing up the boys disappeared. Even after I met my now husband, I was still mostly into women. But circumstances changed and as the opportunities to get with other girls stopped and I spent more time with my man, I have become more straight oriented. I do still have fantasies about other women but they are less now than they were. I have had a lot of flack in the past for describing my bisexuality as a learned response to positive experiences, but that is truly what it feels like for me.

Mostly women as teen had some feeling for boys to allways was an still am submissive liked being dominated

I’ve always preferred females, but as a youngster- boys were often way more available for experimentation than the girls were. Not that some girls weren’t curious too, they were just fewer and further in between, and were usually much more difficult to convince about playing along. Boys are more than willing to chuck their undies. The girls were like “OK, but I’m not taking my panties off.”

Definitely boys. Sexual feelings started about 11.

It was always girls at first, although my scoutmaster introduced me to twosome sex, so I had that as background - preference for girls but scoutmaster for sexual release. He probably saw something feminine in me that is now emerging as my serious interest in sexual activity with other males - who are oodles more available than females for sexual activities. I now enjoy enemas, fellatio (both ways0, and experimenting with anal intercourse (pegging) because of frequent use of prostate toys. I am now turned on by wearing bralettes and babydolls, thigh-high stockings, open-bottom panties. Would try other things if I had the time , opportunities and money - garter belts, earrings, necklaces and bracelets, lipstick for instance. I do like to keep it simple for assignations with men.

Yes

Until about 2 months ago I was convinced I was 100 percent straight and was attracted to men only. My friend kissed me, I felt something else, though it was my first kiss.

Nah, growing up in moderately homophobic society, form a certain behavioral patterns, including first sexual needs and dreams. So first arousal and first sex (at my 18 ) was heterosexual. First desire to have sex with other male appeared at 21 maybe, and first homosexual sex took place when I was 27

I've always been ok playing with both boys and girls, for any kind of game...with an older sister, girls bodies had no secrets for me, but was fun also playing with class mates, specially after discovering all the ways to play with a cock... growing up girls became more interesting, but boys never ceased to be fun..

If I'll have to chose one or the other though, I'll choose girls...I think they bring something more to the game..also, I was never in love with a guy....

Never watched and masturbated to anything elese than gay porn. Played with my best friends cock and licked it. But fell in love with a girl.

Can no longer say that I have a preference, as long as they have the same interests now that I'm older, maybe wiser with understanding of ssexuality. Finding Zity has been amazing, as I have found others who share our same embarrassing fettishes.

Back in my teens, I was convinced I was a lesbian whereas now I usually prefer men and masc presenting folks. So yeah, as a certified bisexual, I have had and still continue to experience preferences. Bisexuality is not necessaril equal attraction t o all genders at all, lots of people have preferences (some unconscious/involuntary and some on purpose, i.e. equal attraction but unequal action)

Women from very early on, it wasn't until I was in my late 20s that I considered men sexually and soon realised my interest in bum stuff did relate to something. I like sex with women but always found my sexual energy was too much for most women; with men it seems to be more closely matched.

In my teens, found myself attracted sexually to men more than women. First time having sex was with a man and assumed I was gay and lived as such for many years. Still had attraction to women but living a gay lifestyle was fun and full of men and sex. I had many boyfriends who I cared about and was almost in love with a gay friend but that was a complicated situation.

One day, I fell for a woman (who I was sharing a house with which only complicated things and obviously it didn't work out). However everything had now changed as I had never felt such intense feelings before. It took me a long time to work out that I was bisexual, I can have sex with and adore a man but I think I can only fall in love with a woman.

I could perhaps fall in love with a man, I don't rule that out. But for now I have a partner (female) but I do miss sex with a man.

I grewup attracted to boys and was quite adventurous doing boy/girl sex. That went on thru college till my last few weeks, when my roommate fondled me. Her touch was like magic, changed my whole perspective. Now I live with and am very much in love with a girl.

Girls. Always and only.