Have you ever seen spanking marks on your friend/collegue bottom?

It never occurred to me to watch for this (spanking marks), nor was it something discussed amongst my peers.

In high school we had to take PE, our coach always carried a large wooden paddle and he often would paddle our butts if we weren’t performing to his expectations. When we all took our showers you could see red marks from the padding. Also often times you could see marked butts from parental spankings, especially the day after report cards were sent. This was in the late 50’s and early 60’s when spanking was considered the preferred method of discipline for children.

I had a friend that we both knew each other got spankings still at home. One night we were out and were both going to be getting home late past our…

How how were you when this spankings happened ? Did you cry a lot during the spanking both of you ?

How long did the spankings lasted ?

I had a friend that we both knew each other got spankings still at home. One night we were out and were both going to be getting home late…

l know just what you mean, LameUser name! Whether it was with my brother Mark or cousins Peter and Andrew, as well as a few friends and acquaintances as well, comparing the different states of our bottoms and who had come off better or worse was a fairly well established ritual! Of course some of my friends were a little coy about showing off their ‘war wounds’ or even revealing details about their spankings and whippings! Though their brothers and sisters were only too happy to provide us with the information!! LOL I think the post spanking ritual of mutual inspections was motivated by a number of things: Firstly, reciprocal comfort; since spankings, obviously, were painful and humiliating events to be greatly dreaded! They were in themselves highly ritualized procedures, at least in my case and that of my siblings and cousins as well as some of my friends and acquaintances,, full of emotion, drama, fear and even excitement! As victims who had each experienced this we were able to provide each other with comforting emotional support. Secondly, there was what one might call camaraderie and even a certain amount of pride when it came to spankings! Just about everybody got spanked; spankings and whippings were virtually impossible to completely avoid and trying to pretend you did not get them was futile! You were, so to speak, ‘a member of the club’ whether you liked it or not, so you might as well learn to live with and even share your experiences with others! Also many of us liked to maintain that our Moms wielded the ‘meanest hairbrush that left the ‘worst marks and most blisters’! Or our Daddy's belt was the thickest and heaviest and produced the most pronounced welts that talk the longest to fade and disappear! Bragging rights were really important!!! LOL And finally thirdly there was the erotic and sexual aspect also! Looking back now it is clear to me that the disciplinery spanking of children and teenagers was in many instances highly sexualised. Both from the perspective of the adult administering the spanking to the child and teenager receiving it! In the case of the former, it is clear that quite a few adults enjoyed giving kids spankings or at the very least did not find it a disagreeable task! I well remember my Aunt Rose for example, saying casually in the middle of a conversation about spanking ,with my Mom and several other ladies. “how cute” my cousins Peter and Andrew look when over her knee and how, after a recent spanking after being caught playing with matches, “their butt cheeks looked like two ripe tomatoes after I had finished applying the hairbrush”! Much to the amusement of the other ladies present, most of them mothers themselves! Mrs Gibson our next door neighbor then added; “And of course when the Good Lord created bottoms he designed them for spanking”!! A remark that produced much laughter and universal agreement from all those present. Remarks like this, and the frequency with which spanking was openly discussed often with references to ‘cute little bottoms’ and ‘sweet little butt cheeks’ left me in no doubt about the erotic and sexualised side to ‘purely disciplinery spanking’! From the point of view of the victims, us kids, l think for many of us spanking had a sexual and erotic dimension. Once the actual spanking was over and the intense, burning, heat on our bottoms had subsided to a warm and prickly glow I well remember those sexual and hormonal feelings you refer to, LameUser name; and indeed our dicks were hard!! Many times my brother Mark and I, as well as on occasions my cousins Peter and Andrew, had those feelings after our ‘rumps had been roasted’! Coupled with the female anatomy lesson I my brothers and cousins got when witnessing our sisters spankings (my cousins sisters also), along with sneaky looks at my friend Jack's Dad's Playboy Collection, it was spanking that aroused in me the first sexual awakenings and feelings of my life!

Thalie we must've been around 11-12 maybe. I'm sure I whined and cried and pleaded to not be spanked. Not sure how long or how many spanks. It was a long time ago and I didn't really count. But I would guess around 20 smacks or so on the bare butt. I do remember remaining and going to bed bottomless that night to let it cool off lol

And creator, yes there was definitely some sexual hormonal things happening, especially after a spanking for me. I never noticed anything like that from my parents. But I do know I almost always got a boner after the spanking was over. My brother did too. We often had to remain bottomless or naked (however we got spanked) in our shared bedroom after a spanking. It was time for us to be embarrassed and think about what we did. After like age 10 or so we always got bones during that time.

Pretty sure that's why I have such a spanking/embarrassment kink now.

Thalie we must've been around 11-12 maybe. I'm sure I whined and cried and pleaded to not be spanked. Not sure how long or how many spanks. It was a long time ago and…

We never had to ‘remain bottomless’ as such unless we were doing corner time when our bottoms of course had to remain exposed! However, for a long period after a spanking you DID NOT want to have anything covering your buttocks, anyway! Since even after the ‘intense burn’ had cooled a little your butt cheeks were still tender and ‘sensitive to the touch’! The only thing you wanted the skin on your buttocks to come into contact with were a cool and damp washcloth or some kind of soothing cream and/or ointment!!

In high school we had to take PE, our couch always carried a large wooden paddle and he often would paddle our butts if we weren’t performing to his expectations. When we all took our showers you could see red marks from the padding. Also often times you could see marked butts from parental spankings, especially the day after report cards were sent. This was in the late 50’s and early 60’s when spanking was considered the preferred method of discipline for children.

I to remember PE coaches and their paddles and they were to be greatly feared! And the marks from parental spankings were a very common sight to! Sometimes, especially if the spanking or whupping had been a particularly hard one, you would first of all see the marks not long after the punishment had been given; the damage still being fresh and even colorful and vivid! Then a week later the marks would still be there although they would have greatly faded leaving in there wake markings and bruising of a yellow and light brown hue! Comments would often be made like; “Someone got it good”!

Report Cards were the reason for many spankings and whuppings as you say! After the day they were sent out bottoms everywhere were in for a tough time if grades and conduct were not up to the required standard! The showers and changing rooms were, particularly during these times, full of kids sporting ‘damaged behinds’! My sisters and girl cousins assure me that their showers and changing rooms were just the same! As you say, in those days, that is just how it was back then!

Had a girlfriend a while ago who had marks on her cheeks from belting. Took time to open her up and she told me that severe domestic discipline was common in her family. When she revealed some details strangly it turned me on.

When in school during swimming lessons and showers I do see spanking and caning marks. We just keep quiet and do not say anything as we do not want to embarrass one another as spanking was common in those days you might be the next red bottom girl.

I have to confess that I myself was spanked and cane so when we have our swimming lessons or showering together my bottom is bare for everyone to see it embarrassing but what can I do. It was fortunate that my classmates never say or ask me about it except for some of my closer classmates when we are alone.

There were a couple of times in athletics, once in middle school and once in high school when I noticed other girls with marks. Of course all of my adrenaline kicked in and I obsessed and fantasized over what might have happened, but I wasn’t close enough to either of them to ask about it. Undoubtedly at some point I’m sure some of them saw my marks too, although I would usually do my best to hide when I had to change if I knew I had ones that were easily visible just because I didn’t want to discuss the topic with anyone who wouldn’t appreciate it.

Growing up in Texas in the early 2000s, it wasn’t very common anymore I don’t think, but it was still perfectly socially acceptable. I do remember other students occasionally talking about it but very matter-of-factly.

There were a few times in the changeroom during gym class in Junior High that I saw a classmate with red marks on their bottom. I also had several boy cousins show me their reddened bottoms after their mother or father had spanked them.

No. The only time I’ve seen any marks at all was when swimming, a guy my age at the time (18/19), was in the shower nude and there definitely looked like a couple of faded belt marks on his bottom. But not so clear it was obvious.

Several years ago, I was in a consensual spanking relationship with a redhead (or Ginger as she called it) who was in the Army Reserves. She craved hard spankings to include my hand, paddles, straps and the cane. Being a redhead, with freckles over her entire body, she always marked and would keep those marks for 4-5 days. There was one spot, right in the crease of her right butt cheek and thigh that many times would open up. It got to the point where we would put a Tagaderm bandage on it before we ever started, so she could get the spanking she craved.

Like I said, she was in the Army Reserves and she was scheduled to go to a base in California for her 2 weeks Reserve training. She wanted a sore ass before leaving and invited me over.the night before her flight. I gave her what she wanted, and because she would be gone 2 weeks, maybe a little more. She was definitely marked. Being a Sargent, she was confident she would have a private room and was not worried about the marks.

Late the next night, I got a text from her saying it was difficult to get dressed and keep her butt against the wall. It turns out she did have a private dorm room, and the showers were private, but all the showers had a commom room to undress and get dressed. She said her fellow Reservest thought it strange she was so self-conscous about herbackside when had been in the Army for 6 years and deployed twice.

Yes, especially in the locker room and showers at my swimming club that I attended between the ages of 8 and 12.

Most of my peers had their bottoms more or less red or striped at some point, depending on what spanking implement their parents used, or how intensely.

As in my case, it was possible to go "unnoticed" after a belt spanking that had taken place more than a day before, but it was impossible to go unnoticed if the parents had used a cane or a switch.

Usually no one would comment on anything unless the "victim" started the conversation, but sometimes I would share the locker room with larger groups of teenagers who were not shy about laughing or making jokes.

Much more embarrassing for me were that sleepover with my boy cousins, where it was impossible to keep the secret of my recent spankings, so, once we were left unattended, I had to show them the spanking marks and give explanations or details...

On the few occasions when my cousins had been spanked before the sleepover, they were always happy to show off the marks...

I saw spanking marks (pink to dark red in color) on my sister a number of times. Also on some of my girl school friends when at a younger age. Even a boy one time that I think he thought it to be an honor badge or something to show how tough he was.. lol. Seeing my sister's red bottom was kinda of a turn on before I knew the meaning of a turn on, but seeing and hearing her getting a spanking and her howling was much more so of a turn on. Denise

Never on friends or colleagues, other than at play events, but did see some quite red cane marks on a young lady in passing. She was getting something from the trunk of her car and was wearing a shortish Summer dress, which the wind blew up just as I was stopped in traffic going up the hill past her. Didn't seem to phase her much. Just brushed it back down again casually. Not sure if she realised how much she displayed. Very cute bottom with a pair of thong panties and about six stripes across her cheeks.

That must have a prolonged looked to count the stripes LordJim!! lol

Heavy traffic @Denise . 😃

I saw spanking marks (pink to dark red in color) on my sister a number of times. Also on some of my girl school friends when at a younger age. Even a boy one time that I think he thought it to be an honor badge or something to show how tough he was.. lol. Seeing my sister's red bottom was kinda of a turn on before I knew the meaning of a turn on, but seeing and hearing her getting a spanking and her howling was much more so of a turn on. Denise

Were you spanked (bare bottom I guess) as hard as your sister ?

Not really, just occasionally would see a bare bottom in the locker room that was a bit rosey, made me wonder. I didn’t dare ask.

During my Junior High years on the '60s, showers were mandatory after PE class. I saw marks on a couple of girls' derrieres when we were showring. In fact, one time a girl named Donna had been paddled by the the female math teach in the class before gym. Her bottom was still red from the paddle when she showered.

@ddell2 what had she done? 😀

@Jacana I really don't know but I think it had to do something with the problems that Donna was suppose to be working. I heard the teacher shout. "Donna, I have had it with you. Go out into the hallway!" Then the teacher went to her cupboard and retrieved her paddle. A few minutes later we heard whack as she left the door to the classroom open. As I remember, Donna got 5 or 6 whacks. When Donna reentered the classroom, she was red faced and teary eyed.

This is going back a few, quite a few years. I remember in Jr. High school seeing the guy next to me changing, and he had a red bottom. There was no mistaking it, a spanked red bottom. No Marks, no welts, just red cheeks.