Do cramps enhance your enema experience?

I always got cramps as a kid when my mother gave me a hot soapsuds enema and I hated them. She just told me to take slow deep breaths through my mouth to ease the cramps, squeezing my butt cheeks together tightly so I wouldn't leak but not stopping the flow until the bag was empty. Once all the soapy water was in my bowels she continued to squeeze my butt cheeks tightly together until the kitchen timer, set for 5 minutes, went off even when I pleaded with her that I couldn't hold it any longer because the cramps were so bad.

Aren't (severe) cramps a sign that the body is saying “stop”? That it's time to turn off the flow?

For me the cramping pain is a sexual turn on. They go hand in hand with the feeling of arousal from the enema. Having the giver be in control of all the sensations the receiver experiences is part of the submissive role. Enemas were given by my mother and grandmother who were adult figures of authority so I’ve always felt submissive when I was forced against my will and having no choice to say no to an enema.

Today I still love a dominant figure giving me enemas that cause that sweet cramping pain.

Put me in the "NO" column...absolutely not when I'm taking it....I always instruct my giver so that cramps are minimized or completely absent..as a kid, my mother or grandmother always took care that all worked very smoothly...as for my patients, I ha some that love the suffering, but not my first choice for a party....I've used harsh soapy stuff, cold water, citrus/vinegar additions and so on, but had not really had any fun in giving them...

Yes. In a weird way I associate cramps with the sexual feelings that my mother can give me. I felt as if the enemas were love from my mother filling me up. So therefore I love the crampy feeling that it gives me.

No cramps if I can avoid them. I love enemas, but I don’t need cramps. Pure pleasure is my objective.

My mom always told me that cramps were a signal that the enema was reaching where it needed to be. So basically, "Tough it out kid." She did at least stop the flow until they subsided.

When I began giving myself enemas I followed the same pattern. Cramps are a part of a good enema. But thanks to an aunt and older sister I learned that cramps can be minimized or avoided. So now cramp free enemas are my goal.

Sometimes yes. If it's during sexual play it heightens my senses especially in a beds play

Oh, I hate them, but they do happen. I try to avoid them and a few methods help me: massage, slow infusion and pauses. I also love thick nozzles and good domination - that really keeps me disciplined.

In my view, an enema that the recipient doesn’t feel isn’t really an enema. However, I’m not a fan of excessive pain, which also distracts from the actual purpose of the enema as I intend it: the humiliation caused by the complete loss of control during both the administration and the evacuation.

@DrStrict Did you use those little Japanese enemas to cause this loss of control?

Cramps is part of the enema, it is important to breathe and control the flow of water when it happens. They often help in the expulsion.

I think, @Anne20, you mean Microlax. Yes, I’ve used those as well. They’re very reliable as laxatives and can be administered on the examination chair just as quickly and casually as suppositories—which makes them quite appealing for role-play, because I can, in a sense, trick the patients and present them with a fait accompli—with all the unpleasant consequences and repercussions. But basically, these micro-enemas, with their 5 milliliters and barely noticeable tip, aren’t invasive enough for me.

Cramps is part of the enema, it is important to breathe and control the flow of water when it happens. They often help in the expulsion.

@Anne20, I couldn’t agree more! If I start to cramp while filling, I slow the flow and breathe deeply; this helps me empty the bag. While I hold my enema, I distract myself from cramps by using my vibrator. Finally, cramps help me expel and make sure no water gets “stuck” in my colon.

My beloved Odde likes cramps a lot. She says they make her feels her tummy moving.

I've grown accustomed to the pain of a nice spanking but have never enjoyed the cramps. For me it is a distraction to the pleasures of the prep and administering and being under the control of another. An enema was no cramps goes right to the top of my list.

If I don't have cramps, the enema isn't doing it's job. Starting a small 2 quart on noe with peppermint soap.

As others have said, cramping is part of the enema. While the enema is going in, the cramping is your gut trying to push it back out. I don’t like that part. But, later, the cramping is necessary to get the enema out. The lack of a good cramp is why sometimes the enema gets stuck and only half of it comes out. Cramping is not the main reason why I enjoy my enemas.

I like the feeling of the warm enema going in, and then the feeling of slight fullness as I hold it. Maybe that is why I enjoy coffee enemas. I get a series of mild cramps soon after I get it in but I can resist them and then they go away for ten to fifteen minutes during which I can enjoy the mellow feeling of the fullness in my belly. When the next round of cramping from peristalsis comes at the fifteen to twenty minutes mark I usually let it out. If I hold it beyond that point it is sometimes difficult to get it out when I want it out. Not saying that is how everyone should do their enema, but it works for me.

I enjoy the cramps. I get super aroused by the cramps. The crampier the better during the enema. A glycerin suppository and hot water helps make it crampier. Then, make myself hold the enema while I am cleaning up the enema kit. By the time I've cleaned up the enema kit I am ready to expel the enema and masturbate to ejaculation.

I like cramps with my enema, it is my bodie's way of telling me the enema is working, doing it's thing, also tells me I'm ready to release.

I have always liked the swelling and cramping that comes with getting filled. You could say it was love at first take, the feeling of swelling and the warm invasion combined with the urgency of cramping was such a wild experience for my 12 year old mind to take in. The best thing for me still is to not take more than 2 1/2 quarts with soap because I like it to churn back and forth on its own which can make the cramps change locations as it leaves me helpless to its struggle to try and evacuate. Anymore volume doesn’t seem to let it move about and then I am just bloated and uncomfortable and the cramps are just a steady soreness and it’s not very much fun for me. I guess what I’m getting at is that not all cramps are created equal and a 2 quart peppermint soap enema can drive me nuts without having to cause a lot of pressure to the insides.

I've started something different. I normally put soap in my enema but then can't hold it long because of the cramps that I like, but can't hold it. So now I do two to three quarts of coffee, enjoy myself but no cramps. Then I have a picture with some soapy water, will pour it into the enema bag and take it, doesn't take long and the cramps start, I won't be able to hold it long.

Most often I use enemas to relieve or avoid cramps, so they’re never anything I’m looking for. I want a pleasant, spa-like experience if possible, in which I’m comfortable throughout and experience an easy, productive release with a minimum of return trips.

However, back when I had an excellent giver, I have to admit that I enjoyed his care, coaching, and massage through cramps. His hands on my belly or back were very comforting and made me not mind cramping as much.

Even with his support, I couldn’t wring any enjoyment out of the sort of cramping that triggered my vagus nerve (nausea, sweating, feeling faint). Never is too soon for that.

Unlike many here, I can definitely feel as if I’ve had a “good enema” without it inducing cramping and don’t seem to derive any sexual benefits from cramps; those come much more from the anticipation, lubrication, insertion, filling, and any massage or kind words from the person administering.

Oh gosh, YES!

It’s not a “good enema” without some degree of cramping involved. And the cramping and pressure leads me to having a dynamic climax.

Without cramps and a generally uncomfortable enema, it’s just a mechanical process (minus the good feelings). Just to get your bowels cleaned out.

I like the complete feelings a well administered enema can give you (with a *cherry on top*). ❤️

@Sweetest_Relief and @Moms_Egirl isn't an enema a wonder? With just a little difference in the solution, it can fulfill both of your needs.

Cramps for me are the cue points that I use to determine a good flow rate. I like to hold the enema for a little while, so as I feel a cramp beginning, I will slow or stop the flow till the cramp just begins to ease. The cramp will continue to ease off even though the flow rate is back up. I wouldn't say that I enjoy them, but they are a certainly a part of the experience. I definitely don't enjoy heavy cramping and do whatever I can to avoid it.