Men being submissive during a rectal temp taking

Very enjoyable story. I found myself daydreaming it was all happening to me. For me, I become instantly submissive when I find myself in a situation where my wife is playing with my ass. It could be anything. Rectal temps, enemas, prostate massages, butt plugs, fingers, or her just spreading my ass checks and massaging my anus. Anything I may have been thinking about up to that moment is forgotten and I do whatever she has in mind. I happily go to a special place, for my submission is reciprocal to her wishing to please me. She enjoys what she is doing as much as I. Arttemp mentioned submission as ”therapeutic.” I absolutely agree. Men and woman have their hands full in this world. Between work and just navigating everyday life, a brief moment of pure submission in any sexual form not only brings partners closer, it also makes life more enjoyable.

For me it’s not about being submissive. I have always preferred the rectal temperature method and still do now.

Many times I have requested rectal measurements and the majority of the times those requests were honored. So again for me it’s not really being submissive. When the procedure is done the only thing is being compliant with the nuances of the individual taking the temperature such as how to position myself or if I am asked to remove my pants or lower my underwear.

I will say for me it’s more complying and making it easier for the procedure to be done.

Some may interpret that ( complying) as being submissive. That’s ok.

Interesting post. This was indeed the case for me, be it a temperature at home or at the pediatrician's office. There were always butterflies once I knew this was ahead, but I accepted without a fuss. I would grow quiet as I was instructed to turn onto my tummy and then even more so once the thermometer was inserted.

I guess all men have different reasons for being submissive, In my situation I am the owner of a company and like today I was hit with a multitude of decisions, about a variety of circumstances, its 1;30 pm and I am just getting to have my second cup of coffee for the day. When my wife was well and I would come home from a day like today and she would want to attend to me, I would always protest that I did not want to have her ministrations forced on me, she would continue until I would accept the attention (give in) the protests were my way I guess to retain my dominant position but underneath I was willing to give in because it relieved a great deal of stress, and I really enjoyed it. For me by giving in and accepting someone else making decisions for me was a relief and usually very pleasant, as was all of the attention that came with it.

If you are submitting to a rectal temperature, whether it is a man or a woman, I think the operative word is submitting. It is a visceral experience to take someone's temperature as well as submitting to it. Allowing another person take your rectal temperature when there are other ways of doing it is saying something about the trust between those two people. That being said, medically there is no more accurate and reliable method than rectally.

I’m not sure that submission, which implies being passive, is an apt term, regardless of gender. Unless you’re being forcefully held down, against your will, you are best off lying still , while the thermometer is registering. Even an oral temperature would be handled that way. Doing acrobatics, might cause problems.

My normally talkative husband ggets VERY quiet when I Vaseline mom's old thermometer!

I have a married guy that I play with on occasion and I usually start out by taking a nice shower with him soaping his nice little butt up getting him ready. Than I lead him into the bedroom make him lay on the bed on his betlly telling I am going to give him a nice massage but I have to take his rectal temp first he get's real submissive as i get the glass therometer out wipe it down with alchol and than dip it in the jar of vaseline I proceed to put a big glob of vaseline on my finger and separate his cheeks and apply the vaseline to his quivering rectum i rum his hole and get him to relax as I slide my finger in deep making sure he is ready for the glass rod I slowly start pushing the rod up his tight little hole as he moans with pleasure than I hold his cheeks together for a few minutes than pull it out and tell him I think he needs a nice warm enema and proceed with that watching him push his ass up in the air for the nozzle to slide in nice and easy as I push it all the way in he moans and tells me how weird but good it feels than I release the clamp and listen to him start to beg to shut it off. It's a great scene and get's us both off and than we get up pour us a good drink and relax.

I think we all tend to get a bit submissive when we have to turn over for the ole rt. It goes with the territory

I'm a bit of a phenomenologist – please forgive the philosophical tone here, if you're looking for something more erotic.

After having observed my responses to:

RT / enemas (Precisely this dynamic of the active male turning passive quiet, and receptive during penetration, his attention totally focused on the voluptuousness of losing control and being TOUCHED down there)

spanking/discipline

anesthetic “knock-out” stuff

wrestling holds

Hypnosis

Looking at the matter abstractly,

I think the dynamic I have to deal with is a fetishization of TONIC IMMOBILITY. Both my parents were keen on being able to put me in a position in which my personality was “out of the room,” so that dissociation was all too common for me as a kid. That is erotic for me now, putting someone else in that state. Which is a hell of a thing to have to write about, as most people find that degree of loss of control profoundly creepy. Still, we google what we google, and it's better to have the thing out front, discussed, and understood, rather than causing pain and confusion, denial and obsession. But again, it's a shitty thing to have, and to have to try to understand.

-1970's boy.

At first I always resisted verbally and physically by not wanting to cooperate but then once pushed and held down, and felt it slipping in, I was afraid to move. The only way I could rebel was squeezing my anus and pushing out with my anus which was uncontrollable, ( a natural reaction?) that I couldnt help doing.

Laying there waiting for it to happen, not being able to see because I'm face down. Then I hear her popping the lid off the jar of vaseline and I know it won't be long before I feel my cheeks being parted and we all know what happens next. I bury my face in the pillow and try to stay quiet, depending on how long it was kept in

1970sboy THats a very deep and sensible assessment. Rings true for me. Thank you for that insight- I agree. It is interesting to speculate on and hear the opinions of others. Thank you again. I know I have that very stunned, overwhelmed and concentrating on the feeling and being in a rare state of mind.

My husband also gets very quiet whenever I take his rectal temperature. I guess that men can be submissive, like I am!

Yes, they can. I am looking for a woman in Massachusetts that likes taking rectal temps, etc.

My husband also gets very quiet whenever I take his rectal temperature. I guess that men can be submissive, like I am!

Maybe being quiet isn't so much an indication of being submissive, but more an indication that he is enjoying the situation and retreating into his inner mind and private fantasies and imagining them in his imagination.

@gabistillgetsit My husband also gets very quiet whenever I take his rectal temperature.

@ruthiney My normally talkative husband ggets VERY quiet when I Vaseline mom's old thermometer!

Yours too!! I’ve hardly ever heard a word from my husband. He’s had to be really ill for me to take a rectal, but he gets quiet alright. Beforehand, though, he’ll lie there and argue that he’ll be OK. Yeah, right. I’ve been the family “nurse“ for nearly 40 years, and I pretty much know if there's a need to use the Vaseline. Lol.

Come to think of it, who really wants to talk during a rectal temp? I know that my brothers, sisters, and I did not say anything.

I think that the term “submissive,” needs to be clarified. Rectal temps. aren't gender-specific. You're either willing to have it taken rectally, or you're being forced into it…i.e., psychiatric hospital patients before scanners came along. I don't imagine that anyone on a rectal temp. forum, would oppose having a significant other sliding a lubed thermometer into their butthole.

I doubt I've ever had my temperature checked rectally. After careful consideration, I am convinced, however, that if confronted as described, I'd request some gentle in/out teasing. Just to soften the blow - ya' know?

In other animals there is often a conflict resolution when one assumes a ‘submissive’ position to the dominant. We do that too: nodding the head, bowing, kneeling, then on the knees, placing head on the floor. How low can you go, submitting? By exposing yourself to someone and presenting your ass for penetration! Maybe one is quiet from the humiliation. Or an inferior isn't supposed to speak unless spoken to.

The first boy patient I had (we were both 16) was submissive in general, I already knew this about him as we’d shared a lot of personal thoughts and experiences already in conversation.

During our very first “exam”, I told him I would need to take his temperature, but I was too nervous to say WHERE. I wanted to take it in his bottom yet hadn’t even seen him completely undressed at that time. Very nervous!

But he responded so shyly, “Does it have to be in my bottom?” to my delight 😁. I said “Yes Max. Now turn over on your tummy for me.” He did and I looked down at his round little cheeks which his undies hugged so tightly, omg will never forget that sight. He didn’t say a word in protest from that moment on.

I think, at least in my case, it is simply a matter of memory - both mental and muscle. Growing up, there was no choice, and protesting would only make it more difficult, at home or at the doctor.

You never questioned mom or the doctor or nurse. I was taught that they knew best. I was a child in the 60's and early 70's, and that was how it was.

Unfortunately, the only one taking my RT these days is myself, so it is not the same dynamic. I always take my temp rectally. First it is more accurate, and second, I have dental issues and holding it under my tongue is uncomfortable, more so that having the thermometer in my butt, but back when someone else would take it, as an adult, I never protested because I always think about what worse would come, just like as a kid.

Part of it is probably just that we’re enjoying the experience. I know I want to focus on feeling the thermometer and knowing the temp taker has her full attention on the thermometer and my exposed rear end. 3-5 min are never enough!

My first encounter with a professional disciplinarian included a pre-punishment medical checkup. It started with the order to undress, including socks and underwear, then slipping into an exam gown. “I’ll need you to lie down on the bed (an antique medical style iron bed) on your tummy,” the assistant said. Already I was being placed in a submissive position. Then the unmistakable sound of the top being removed from a jar of Vaseline. Suddenly I was back in a pediatrician’s office. A warm hand separating my cheeks. The cold glass rod slick with jelly sliding into me. The nurse’s hand on my lower back to prevent squirming.

The roles were set. For the next 45 minutes I would do what I was told. For the moment, though, I had to be still so the thermometer in my rectum could determine if I had a fever. They seemed to be the longest minutes of my life.

Submissiveness is sexy. No problem for me.

My husband started off hating the idea of me sticking a thermometer up his butt, though he always ended up reluctantly letting me do it. Rectal is just more accurate and easier to obtain with cooperation. He's not such a baby having it done anymore. I'll take the kids' temperatures by mouth now days as long as they're not sneezing/coughing nonstop, or vomiting. Otherwise they'll get it taken rectally for just those reasons. It really shouldn't be thought of as such an embarrassing procedure to have done in a home setting. My kids and husband all know I've seen their naked butts more times than I care to count, so they can leave their modestly at the door when Mom's taking care of them.

Submissive never occurred to me. My husband suddenly got out of bed at 4 AM,, sick to his stomach and started throwing up. After a couple of hours, being sick every few minutes, I was wondering if it possibly was food poisoning — he had eaten shrimp at a restaurant that night with two golfing friends — or was it a stomach bug or something. By the way, this was about three years ago.

He felt a little warm. As he lay back in bed, I told him that I was going to take his temperature rectally and could he turn onto the side. This wouldn’t be the first time in our marriage. The only thing he said was, “OK.” Our vintage glass (still accurate) Taylor rectal thermometer was comfortably in his behind for at least three minutes. When I held it up to read where the mercury sliver was, it registered exactly 100°.

I kept him down in bed with ice chips and sips of Gatorade, and took another rectal about two hours later. “Are you going to take it again?” he asked, turning on his left side with no further words. His temp was a hair over 100°. A normal rectal, toward the high-end, but still not a concern. We decided it was probably the shrimp. I never called the restaurant to let them know. I should have.

@nurse_nikki do you find yourself on the receiving end of that same accurate thermometer? I hope your husband takes great care of you, in the same way that you take care of the rest of the family.