Men being submissive during a rectal temp taking

Have you noticed how men get very submissive during a rectal temp taking?

At least this is my experience with my BF.

I notice he's not eating well and he seems a bit tired. "What's wrong, baby?“ I ask as I walk up to him and push his hair out of his forehead," Let me feel you." I press my hand against his forehead and whether he feels hot or not I say “You feel a little warm, honey. Go to bed, I need to take your temperature."

He will argue that he feels fine but I insist that we really need to have him checked. So after a bit of protests he goes and sits down on the bed. I head for the bathroom and retrieve the things I need, the glass thermometer (I prefer Geratherm), a bottle of baby oil and some tissues. He takes off his pants and I instruct him to lay down on his tummy. He does so, reluctantly. I sit down next to him and as he looks nervously over his shoulder, he sees me shaking down the thermometer. He doesn't like to have his fever measured. At this point he is protesting and saying that he doesn't want me to take it "the baby way". He even tears up a little at the sight of the rather big thermometer. I pat his bottom and explain him that it's the most accurate way and that it's not gonna hurt. I push his shirt up a little and tell him to lift his middle so I can pull his undies down a little, only to his thighs.

Then I dip the tip of my finger inside the baby oil and carefully spread his cheeks with my other hand until I can see his quivering little hole. I lube him on the outside and then gently press the tip of my finger inside his anus. He tenses up at this and I have to explain that I'm just applying a bit of oil so it won't hurt when I put the fever thermometer inside. He is so tight back there and so hot. It wouldn't surprise me if he did have a fever. Once he is well oiled, I remove my finger and grab the thermometer. I give it a few more shakes and then spread his cheeks again. "Just relax, baby and hold still for me." I press the metal tip against his hole and gently push the thermometer inside. He whimpers and whines as I do this. "I don't like it", he protests. I still manage to put it in its place. "I know, honey, it will just take a few minutes ok?". I hold the thermometer in place so he won't push it out and my free hand rubs his back and his cheeks soothingly.

And suddenly he's gone completely still. No protests, no whining, and no squirming anymore. He just lays there very still and quiet and lets me do what I have to do. He's become completely submissive. Its so unlike him that I actually become worried and I use my free hand to feel his forehead once again. It does feel a little warm and his cheeks look a little flushed. Maybe its because he is a little embarrased, or maybe he does actually have a bit of a fever. We're about to know.

I take a look at the thermometer that sticks out from his bottom and I can see the mercury line rising. "Two more minutes, sweetheart." I say. I keep rubbing his back and praising him for being so good and letting me do this.

After three minutes I ask him to breathe in deeply as I take the thermometer out. As soon as he feels its out, he rolls on his back. I hold the thermometer against the light. 100,8 *F.

"Oh sweetie, you do have a bit of a fever." I tell him. “Let me clean you up." I put the thermometer aside and grab a tissue. Since he is on his back, I hold his ankles and lift his legs up in the air and push them slightly towards his chest. I carefully wipe his bum and then pull his undies up.

He gets into his PJs and into bed. I leave the thermometer on the nightstand, knowing I will have to check his temp in a few hours again. If he still has a fever before bedtime I will probably have to give him a suppository.

If you like, I can tell you about that one later.

I do think that it is a submissive thing, especially when it is during a medical exam. Play exam likely becomes less so. Being told to undress even if just to my briefs and get weighed feels submissive as well. Then being directed to the table and having my bp taken adds to the tension, which is only increased if there is a rectal thermometer displayed near the exam table. It often means that this is going to be required regardless of how I feel or wish. When told to either lower my briefs or remove them, it is time for me to do as told. The temperature taking is necessary and with it will come a description of my exam. Before long, the doctor is examining my genitals and conducting a rectal and prostate exam without regard to how I am reacting. It's just the two of us but for me, it's very intimate, very personal, and very much a sensitive time of psychological and physical reactions. I do wonder if the doctor even realizes as he seems focused and very matter of fact about conducting the exam.

I have had my share of exams; different docs for sure. Yet, the anticipation and experience in the room hardly varies once my briefs are down or removed. There is something about being told to raise up my hips and have them yanked down or being told to take them off that is truly the definition of submissive.

Nick

Welcome @X1900 and thank you for raising this interesting issue. Your description of the procedure is lovely.

For my part, a large part of the pleasure of having my rectal temp taken is the embarrassment of being treated like a child, unable (for whatever reason) to use the oral thermometer. Being passive while the temperature is registering seems quite consistent with that, especially if my GF or nurse is holding the thermometer in place the entire time. It would, of course, be even more embarrassing once I roll over onto my back and she sees my reaction to the whole procedure!

Continued...

After letting him rest for a few hours I come back to see if he still has a fever. I find him sleeping and gently wake him up. I feel his forehead again and by now it's really warm. "Baby I need to check your temperature again," I tell him. "Do you have to?" he asks in a small voice. "Honey, we need to know how high it is. Be a good boy for me" I say. He is clearly not feeling well, I can see that. And sometimes it helps to soothe a patient when you maintain eye contact with him. That's why I decide to leave him resting on his back and take it in the diaper position this time.

I pull his shirt up to his waist and his undies down again but this time I remove them completely because its better to do that when you hold someone in this position. I take the baby thermometer from the drawer where I left it earlier and shake it down again. He gets a bit anxious again as he sees this but I smile at him reassuringly to keep him calm.

I lift his legs up a little and apply some baby oíl to his opening. He squirms only a little as he knows what's comming.

In this position its harder for him to clench his buttcheeks so its easier for me to put the thermometer inside him. "Please take it out", he whines. "Shhh, sweetheart, its ok. Its almost in," I say as I push it in a little bit deeper, enough to get an accurate reading. "Look at me, honey," I say knowing that it helps him relax when I smile at him. I'm always gentle and very patient with him. I know he doesn't like to have his temperature taken. I hold his ankles with one hand and keep the thermometer in place with the other. Even if he protests a little, he holds very still while it registers.

He gets a bit anxious after two minutes and tries to push it out. I know its uncomfortable and emabarrasing for him, but I prefer this method. "Don't push, sweetie. It will be over in a bit."

I look at the thermometer between my fingers. Its quite a nice sight to see it sticking out from his little hole that's wrapped so tight around the glass rod. I wait for another minute just enjoying the sight of it while I mumble sweet reassurances to him.

After four minutes I slowly take it out. I'm still holding his ankles while I check the reading. "103.1*F." I announce as I put his legs down. I stroke his forehead and carress his flushed cheeks lovingly. "I'm going to give you a suppository. Ok, baby?"

I will tell you the rest of it later if you like.

No, not ever that I recall. But I am a straight male Switch, and enjoy being in the very submissive role during D/s when I'm given an enema plus kink session by a trusted Domme ex GF. There's nothing wrong about rectal temps and I actually very mildly enjoy them, but the depth and diameter of the old glass thermometers is just not long or thick enough to make me feel submissive. I barely notice that it's being done, but I'm glad some or many of you can really enjoy the experience of an RT.

Eric

@X1900: Great story! Let's see how it continues...

For most guys it's a natural reaction. Most of us here don't mind having our temp taken rectally. In fact we enjoy it. For a lot of us it brings us back to our childhood days when we were submissive to mommy or daddy who was about to take our temperature in our bottom. So doing it as an adult gives us a chance to do a little age playing. Nothing wrong with that. We are here to have fun.

Being naturally submissive to begin with for me it is natural.... so I don’t mind being told it’s gonna be taken and how and any resistance is met with a good spanking.

If a woman that I know personally, and like, offered to take my temperature rectally, I would say, absolutely ! If they want to take your temp., why wouldn't you let them ? I'm not sure that the term submissive, passive, or soft, does justice to anyone. I would prefer to describe it as mutual cooperation. It comes down to refusing or accepting how your female companion can take your temp. Who am I to argue with a kind and persuasive woman ?

@X1900,

I enjoyed very much your posts.

Rectal temperature plays an important part in my relation with my girlfriend and we use a lot thermometers in our sexgames.

So, may I ask you a few questions ?

When you take your boyfriend's température, is there anything sexual involved ? Does your temperature taking cause him to have an erection ? Do you play with the thermometer when holding it ? Does your boyfriend take your temperature when you are sick, the way you do it with him ?

@Svensson

Hello. Thank you for asking.

Yes, it is sexual when he is not sick. I keep it more professional when he is not feeling well, which doesn't mean I"m not enjoying it 😉

Yes, he always gets an erection most of the times, maybe not when he is too sick.

When we are playing I like to move it inside him a bit.

@X1900,

Thank you for your speedy reply.

You say you act ''professionally''.

Do you work in the medical field ?

And what about your boyfriend taking your temperature ?

Think about it, you are told by your mother , or girlfriend or wife that your tempeture needs to be taken. Ok , but then you are told to take off your pants and underwear. At this point if you comply you are submissive and she is in charge. Now your told to lay down on your stomach and spread your legs wife. Again that is a submissive act on your part if you comply. Then you fell a thumb and forefinger between your cheeks spreading them and your anus so she can see the target. Again a submissive act. But then the glass tube is inserted, and you feel the hard glass sliding into you. You are in a way being raped, then you are told not to fight it, it has to stay in 3 minutes. . When it is pulled out and you can dress, now you are a man again, but during the process you were submissive, that is if you complyed.

@Svensson

No Im not a professional, I just use the term to describe it. Haha you know what I mean.

And no, he doesn't. In our case this is a one way thing.

@X1900 ,

With my girlfriend, we have a reciprocal approch to rectal temperature. We take eachover's temp and we both enjoy rectal temperature as giver and recever.

Why does not your boyfriend take your temperature ? Do you oppose it yourself or is he not interested ?

@X1900 Like your lucky boyfriend, I too am almost always the patient. LOVE reading your descriptions.

The submissiveness of it is one of the reasons I enjoy it as much as I do.

Men who were imprinted as infants, toddlers and boys to have their rectal temperatures taken, likely find it easier to yield to the rectal thermometer as adults. Most tough men like getting babied once in a while. Completely letting one’s guard down is very therapeutic.

Taking my temp rectally was the only way my parents did it. And it's the only way mommy and daddy take it too. Laying across mommy's lap, her breast in my mouth giving me her sweet milk, I feel my nappy being undone. I love the special attention I'm receiving. But, being the baby, i have to play the part. I start to fuss as i feel a vaseline coated finger lubricate me inside. The finger is pulled out, i soon feel my butt being spanked hard by daddy's hand. I'm bawling my eyes out. Mommy consoles me, telling me to 'just telax and it will be over soon,' 'daddy and mommy are only doing this because they love me, and its for my own good.'

Have you noticed how men get very submissive during a rectal temp taking?

No wonder for a man anal penetration means complete surrender. Once, I talked to a friend (female) about measuring the temperature in the rectum.

I was surprised that in countries where children are measured rectal temperature, boys are measured at an older age than girls.

The friend said that it's easy, the mother wants to have control over the boy longer.

Can you continue the story?

@X1900

I agree with @Hallabakka, would LOVE to read the continuation of this story!

I do think that as males we are conditioned to being in control or at least believe that we get to decide! This is not intended to offend anyone but I do see it as a difference though surely changing these days. So when it comes to having to experience a RT or DRE, it generates all sorts of psychological reactions for men. It is for me submission.

As one that has nature submissive tendencies, it will always be that way for me.

As a man, and a man who likes rectal temps, I'd have to say I'm submissive in regard to rectal temperature taking. Though I'm not gay I do prefer male on-male RT play.

I do think that as males we are conditioned to being in control or at least believe that we get to decide! This is not intended to offend anyone but I do see it as a difference though surely changing these days. So when it comes to having to experience a RT or DRE, it generates all sorts of psychological reactions for men. It is for me submission.

For me it's not submission, but very pure kinkyness

Though I'm not gay I do prefer male on-male RT play.

Sounds very nice

I think may people get submissive when someone is paying attention to them back there. I know I do for a temperature check, an enema, or anal sex. I think it's natural. 😃

During childhood, my mother used to give me suppositories. I also received a memorable digital rectal exam from our female family doctor. In later teen years this reemerged as submissive fantasies of women sticking a finger up there. So yeah, for me it's as @EJM says.

First of all @X1900 fantastic story and writing, and you sound like a wonderful and caring person. As far as rectal temps and I go, I do notice that once the thermometer is prepped I become a bit more subdued, and once inserted I am still and quiet, and really only speak if spoken to. This holds true for Mom, a nurse, whomever. For some reason the same is so but to a lesser degree for a suppository or enema.