Men vs women as spankers

I recently moved west to southeast. I had to go back and forth a couple of times and therefor ran into some old spanking friends on the west coast and made new ones around the Atlanta area. As a result I have gotten quite a few spankings in both areas, several from men and several from women. As a result I have given a lot to thought to which gender turns me on more as a spanker.

There are plenty of pluses to having a woman do it, embarrassment at exposing oneself to the opposite sex, submitting to the "weaker sex"(boy is that a misstatement, as they lay it on every bit as heavily as a man) and being under the command of a woman, I love it. Advantages for a man dealing out the punishment; exposing oneself to another man, having to lay over the lap of another man and having to do the bidding of a superior male.

I love to be spanked, humiliated and dominated by either sex and though I had no preference, but after several comparison over the last 2-3 months, I think I dread getting it from a fellow male more than a woman, so being a true Masochist I choose men. It is more embarrassing, it is harder for me to submit to a man, They are usually stronger and can control me more easily and getting sexual aroused from a spanking from a man, to me, is more exciting and humiliating. So by a narrow margin I choose men as I hate to take it more from them than a woman. That is the reverse thinking of a Masochist.

Thanks;

Rob

I've not yet been spanked by a man, but have often spanked and been spanked by women (I'm a switch). Those women hit hard, and I'm guessing they can use spanking implements just as well as can males. I'm not sure why I haven't spanked with a man. Perhaps it's a sexual thing, with my preference for females. At some point I suppose I will trade spankings with a man, and be better able to understand any differences in the spanking and in my reaction to it.

I was sent to have my attitude adjusted and behavior corrected to be spanked by a male (parents were friends with my mother) in my early teen years. Being spanked OTK on underwear and then having them pulled all the way down was degrading enough. Having an erection made it worse. I discovered that men spank much harder then women.

I prefer a female spanker but I would be okay with another male spanker I am an equally opportunity spankee