Did parents, teachers and other adults derive sexual pleasure from spanking?

In my opinion the answer has to be, in numerous cases, a resounding yes! At the very least I don't think many of them found it a disagreeable task anyway. Conversations between my mom and her circle of friends would often include discussions about spanking and references to recent and sometimes, not so recent, punishments. A favorite phrase of my mother's was "John's bottom had the most delightful glow last night after its 'conversation' with my hairbrush"! Or "Betty Sue's ( my oldest sister ) bottom had a rather intense discussion with THE HAIRBRUSH this morning"! She was very fond of using euphemisms when it came to describing our spankings; much to the amusement and merriment of her friends! It has often struck me as ironic and even rather hypocritical that, in the Southern conservative and Christian communities in which I grew up in, the socially endorsed and religiously sanctioned practice of spanking had underlying sexual undertones!

What are the thoughts of others on this? And what recollections and memories do you have?

Looking wayback to the 60's I would beleive our football coach derived some sexual pleasure from spanking players bare and over the knee when many of us were already bigger and stronger than he--We had to shower dry off bend our naked bodies over his lap and he made a spanking hurt and it was a ridicuolous positio0n for guys as developed as we were--It jurt alot but was of course humiliating I not consider his spankings sexual at the time I just thought he was a very strict guy It was too much especially position we had to assume

I hope my priest did not get any sexual pleasure from spanking me

@Marisa, in other posts you mention you work at a catholic school and 2 yrs ago you were spanked by your priest after confessing something to him ? And you hope he didnt get any sexual pleasure from spanking you ?

You are a grown woman, a teacher and you dont think he did it for sexual pleasure? Come on now ! Did you just fall off a turnip truck ? We didnt . If this is even true there are a lot more things wrong with this picture than “hoping” he didnt get sexual gratification!

I think this is not *necessarily* hypocritical. Getting some incidental enjoyment as a result of a punishment is really just a thing people do. Heck, look at how open people were in the days of public floggings.

But yes, I can imagine some people might get some enjoyment after the fact. As long as they don't cross any lines in the punishment, that is not a problem.

I don't think my mother derived *sexual* pleasure but I think she derived a form of enjoyment of being in control.

Good point, Tohru! To a large extent, it is probably part of human nature! And certainly would not have been anything exceptional by the standards of the times! Spanking being, as it was back then, so woven into Society and its culture!

Hi Marisa, I think you are a little naive! LOL

Yes I really think so, they do.

Marisa said

I hope my priest did not get any sexual pleasure from spanking me

You have to be joking!

With each swat on your behind, he was saying to himself, "oh god fuck me Marisa."

We're talking about a PRIEST, the most sexually repressed (at least they are supposed to be) people on earth. They never get any ass or pussy, or at least aren't supposed to, so they get it covertly by spanking boys and girls asses instead of the mature way with a consenting partner.

I think there is little doubt that priests, or for that matter, religious figures generally, found in spanking and the administration of corporal punishment, generally, an outlet for their repressed and inhibited sexual tensions. In fact, one can safely assume, that people of a religious and especially puritanical mindset would have found in spanking and corporal punishment generally a means of satisfying or, at least, alleviating these frustrations! Convincing themselves, in the process, that in doing so they are carrying out their moral duty and doing 'the lord's work"! By spanking or whipping a bare bottom they can/could convince themselves that they are both 'saving their own souls as well as those of their victims'! And the more cynical priests, nuns and other religious functionaries would have been well aware that this was complete BULLSHIT!!

Let's see now. My high school P.E. teacher would frequently paddle boys using a thick wooden paddle (the kind with holes drilled in it to supposedly allow it to be swung faster). He could have waited until you were already showered and fully dressed and paddled you then. Or he could have chosen to paddle you while you were still dressed for class in just your T-shirt and gym shorts. But he didn't. Most of the time, a paddling from him was administered when you had on little or no clothing at all. Often it was as the class was ending and you were ordered to remove your T-shirt and pull down (or remove) your shorts. That left you bent over wearing just your jockstrap. Some times it was done when you were completely nude, either just before or after your shower.

So yeah, I suspect he enjoyed it.

It sounds very much like he did, Jimmy! As well as deriving sexual pleasure from it, it sounds as though he had some sadistic tendencies and inclinations also!

it sounds as though he had some sadistic tendencies and inclinations also!

Not to derail this thread, but I have absolutely no doubt of that. I had several P.E. teachers but one in particular was a real nutcase. He was a gung-ho Vietnam vet that today would probably be correctly diagnosed with a severe case of P.T.S.D. He had lots of rules because I believe he honestly thought that he needed to toughen-up all the boys in his class to get them ready for military service (the U.S. draft had just ended around the time I started high school). And in true military style, there were strict P.E. uniform requirements along with inspections to make sure you were wearing the complete outfit. If you broke a rule there was discipline, usually taking the form of paddling but also sometimes additional strenuous exercise. The worst thing about him was that he'd sometimes be calm and fairly rational, then when you least expect it some tiny little thing would set him off and he'd turn on you or the entire class. You never knew what to expect. It was scary times.

I know that when I was young, my parents had a lot of "fun" in their bedroom as soon as was possible after we (me and my brothers) got spanked.

I think that I was their favorite spankee because I was spanked ten times more than any of my brothers, always bare and always during a spanking ceremonial who preceded and fallowed my corrections.

Being also a cooperative spankee who always fallowed the spanker instructions and not trying to hide my embarrassment , as result, my spankings become a some kind of sex-prelude, especially for my stepfather, who, I bet that he always had a hard one each time when I started to jump around him cupping my bare butt with both of my hands as I had try to confort the stinging...

Looking back on the spankings I received growing up, I’d have to say that several adults were probably excited when spanking me.

Without a doubt, I believe that my 5th grade teacher had a spanking fetish. Mr. Z frequently would take a recalcitrant child into the cloak room right off of the classroom, where he would administer an over the knee spanking.

I was not spanked by my parents, but I received my very first (and only) childhood spanking from him. I can still feel his hand in the middle of my back as he forced me across his lap. This was extremely new territory for me! I felt his big hand resting on my bottom, and when it disappeared I knew that my first spanking was about to begin.

The first slap took my breath away. By the third spank I was actively crying. He only slapped my bottom 10 times or so, and then he let me up. I remember that I cried all the way back to my chair.

After that I always tried to pay close attention when another kid was being punished. No one could see the spankings, but we all could sure hear them! I guess that's when my interest in spanking got its roots.

To my knowledge I don't think that he ever spanked anyone on the bare, only over their clothing.

My aunt and stepdad both enjoy administering corporal punishment. My aunt would disrobe when she gave a whipping

I know for sure one of my jr. high school teachers at least had a spanking fetish, I am not sure about the sexual pleasure part, but the two go hand in hand.

My first memory of her was stories from older children who were on jr. high when I was in about the 4th grade, about how strict she was and if you didn't want your butt busted stay out of her way.

To my dismay she showed up to teach 5th grade science. Our regular teacher was by training a lit teacher and she taught one course to advanced students in the eighth grade so we ended up with Ms. Parks(not her real name)teaching us science, she was a great teacher and in some ways guided me to my profession. I took the advice of the older kids and was very careful around her and by the end of the year she had applied "Rusty," her reddish colored fairly large paddle to about every butt in that class. As I have said in other posts I enjoyed the show but only got to be the star of the show once or twice. She did not go of in some room or the hallway, she administer the punishment right there in class.

I will skip the long and what became a pleasant sojourn through the 6,7,and 8th grades for now but will get back to it at another time.

I went about 100 miles away to college and majored in Chemistry. One summer I came back home and decided to take Physical Chemistry at the university a few miles from my home town. I figured that P. Chem. was the hardest of the college Chemistry courses and I could just take only that class for the summer and not have to concentrate on other courses. The local University had a very goo Chemisitry Department as well

As I took a seat for the first class the last person I expected to see sat down next to me. Ms Parks.

There is a lot more detail to this story which I may relate later if I am in a less lazy mood, but we became friends by helping each other with this course. She had gotten out of teaching and went to work for a large local chemical company as a math expert as the computer age was starting. She wanted to do more science and only needed two courses to complete her Chemistry degree, the company allowed and paid for her to finish the degree.

I ask her one day if she missed teaching and to my surprise was very very frank. She said I miss swinging that paddle at at the butts of you and others. WE became very close for many years after that.

As Paul Harvey would "The rest of the story later."

Rob

One of my female teachers in junior high school (what they called it back then) was notorious for spanking male students with a paddle on any or no excuse.

The one time I got blistered with her paddle was for talking during a quiz (telling the guy trying to read my answers to get lost.) With a smile, Mrs. K warned me I'd be getting a spanking after the quiz.

I had to follow her into the hallway, where she alerted her friend, the female History teacher across the hall, to the spanking about to commence. Interrupting her own lecture, and unable to conceal a grin, said History teacher joined us in the hall.

Mrs. K told me to bend over, and to my astonishment, I felt her hand smoothing the fabric of my trousers across my hips. "To make sure you feel this," she explained, as she finished with a stroke of her fingertips between my hips. I was too stunned to say anything.

The History teacher kept her own fingertips on her grinning lips and giggled as I got five hard whacks to my hips. I couldn't see Mrs. K's expression as she administered the spanking, but she was grinning ear to ear as she warned me I'd get more of the same if I talked in class again. (I didn't.) The History teacher returned to her class with another giggle. "Let me know!!"

I didn't tell anyone about Mrs. K stroking my butt. But I did end up with a few fantasies about a more extended spanking session involving the three of us, in which our roles would rotate equally.

In my fantasy, my pants would come down for the spanking... but so would Mrs. K's, when it was her turn. And though the History teacher had small breasts, I was pretty sure her nipples had gone hard while watching me being spanked. In my fantasy, I got to check on that hypothesis.

Anyone else end up getting turned on by imagining both roles?

My aunt and stepdad both enjoy administering corporal punishment. My aunt would disrobe when she gave a whipping

The was plainly for her gratification. The priest who spanked Marisa as a grown woman was plainly getting his rocks off at her expense.

My Mom, Step-Dad, Step-mom, Aunt, and Uncle all had sexual reactions when they were spanking me growing up.

Mom was a piano teacher so she didn't use her hands much. She relied on her oval oak hair brush which had a sting like you wouldn't believe. She loved spanking my bubble butt from the time I was 12 till I was in my 20's. Always bare and most of the time over her lap. When I got up I would notice a wet spot between her legs.

When my aunt spanked me, again it was always bare over her lap. She liked using her hand feeling my flesh getting warmer and warmer. She also used her round hair brush. It wouldn't take long before she had me in tears and when she was through just like my mom she had a wet spot between her legs.

My step-mom also liked using her hand to feel my warming flesh and I wiggled my reddening tush over her lap. I was embarrassed more because she would have at least one friend over to watch. When she was through her face was flushed as red as my hiney was.

Every time my step-dad spanked me he would have a stiff manhood which pressed against his zipper if he had his pants on or it would tent his boxers if he was just in his tee shirt and undies. His hand was big and well calloused and covered both my ass cheeks while I was in my early teens. The sound of his hand smacking my bare ass would reverberate around the room like a loud cap gun in rapid fire. It only took about two minutes of his spanks before I was crying like a baby. There were a few times I felt his manhood climax shooting white hot cream into his boxers.

My uncle would take my undies down before guiding me over his lap. I felt his hard on as I was laying over his lap. He had a big hand like my step-dad, it was hard and it didn't take long before he had me crying my eyes out.

I will have to say that a few of the spankings were deserved, however most were not and were strictly for their sexual enjoyment.

My Mom, Step-Dad, Step-mom, Aunt, and Uncle all had sexual reactions when they were spanking me growing up.

Thanks for the detailed explanations. Step-dads and uncles with erections and orgasming while giving a spanking, doesn't get more sexual than that.

I think for most, rather it is spanking kids or adults it comes down to two things and maybe sometimes a little both. One it is a sexual pleasure and probably a release after or it is a power trip over someone. Don’t get me wrong I know a spanking is and can be a positive punishment and some spankers are really good at it. But I think most spankers have at least one or maybe both when they spank.

IMO this is true for 90% cases. And for 100% cases when adult man spanks teenager girls. Huge erection is the best proof.

IMO this is true for 90% cases. And for 100% cases when adult man spanks teenager girls. Huge erection is the best proof.

I personally don’t think a man should spank a teenage girl. A dad is probably ok if he spanked her since she was small. As far as uncles, older brothers, male teachers should not be allowed to spank teenage girls.

Not sure about parents. Teachers yes maybe but I have to assumed the student was clothed.

Personally I would bet my life savings that any UNCLE or STEPFATHER who spanked a female teenager BARE BOTTOMED definitely enjoyed it sexually.

I welcome any man who has spanked his niece or step-daughter to post here and comment.

There is a huge difference between spanking between adults with a mutual interest and spanking children under your care. Spanking children is a task you dread, but carry out because you believe it’s best for the child. In my experience, you literally try to give the child as many warnings and reminders as possible to help them avoid being spanked. There is also a difference in being satisfied and having affection for a child and having SEXUAL pleasure. It’s possible for a person, a mother for instance, to think her son’s spanked bottom is cute, and that the spanking was deserved and effective, without SEXUAL desire. That’s crossing into some really weird territory, and that’s a pretty heinous accusation to throw around as lightly as some people are on this thread.

Good points @oldskoolotk

My harsh reaction earlier is based on two things.

One, the types of comments by female Zity members in other threads who were spanked by uncles & step-fathers when they were minors. Very very questionable circumstances. Some clearly perverted and sexual.

Two, I’ve spent enough time with men who aren’t necessarily friends, sometimes in various states of inebriation, and the things that came out of their mouths, regarding their sexual desires, were shocking. Now, nothing surprises me.

Mrs. K told me to bend over, and to my astonishment, I felt her hand smoothing the fabric of my trousers across my hips. "To make sure you feel this," she explained, as she finished with a stroke of her fingertips between my hips. I was too stunned to say anything.

Was there any skin-on-skin contact?