Did parents, teachers and other adults derive sexual pleasure from spanking?

Laura80

When you said your Aunt would disrobe before giving spankings, what would she do during the spankings? Was she nude? Did she make you do anything? Our Mom was the only one who was allowed to spank me and my sister.

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Jacana

I see that now. Thanks

I would have to say yes. You don't think about these things as kids but looking back now I have to conclude that some parents probably did derive some sort of pleasure from disciplining their kids. Being almost 70 I grew up in an era where spanking was well accepted and was thought to be good parenting. I saw a few well paddled or strapped bare asses on boys in the showers after PE. So, I had a childhood friend Jenna that lived a few blocks away from me. We were just good friends, nothing more. We had somehow always ended up in the same class all the way through elementary school and often walked home from school together. OK, on to the interesting part of this story.

Jenna, like many of us, was disciplined at home by her stepdad. Thing is, for some reason she wasn't shy about sharing details. I was very interested in what she had to say but didn't connect the dots back then. We would have been in 7th, maybe 8th grade at the time. I was way less revealling about my spankings although I did admit to Jenna that I was spanked as well. Bare ass bent over the bed with dad's belt. Jenna was much more forthcoming. So, when Jenna was going to get it she was required to fetch a wooden paddle and belt strap and take them to her bedroom. She was to lay them on the bed. Then undress completely. As she put it, dad wants me completely naked. She then placed herself face down on her bed. Mom and dad would enter her room and dad would step over to the side of the bed where the paddle and belt were. Jenna mentioned that her dad thought she reacted much worse to the paddle so that was almost always selected for her spanking. In her exact words "Dad paddled my bare ass raw last night." Jenna also shared some stories about her paddled bare ass being seen in the girls locker room the next dad following a paddling from dad the night before. I did get aroused listening to her accounts as we walked to or home from school. I recall a time when she and a friend were caught passing notes in class. As she told that story I asked her if she would be spanked later that night. "Yes, on my bare ass."

Thinking back on this, I have to wonder why she was so open with such personal and what I would think, private information. As I said, back then spanking was much more accepted and thought to be just good parenting. Still, did Jenna derive some sort of pleasure from the spankings? Did it arouse her to tell me in such detail about them? How about her stepdad. Was he getting any pleasure by spanking Jenna fully nude on her bed? I'm probably more aroused now thinking back on it than I was then when I was hearing about it right after it happened.

How about her stepdad. Was he getting any pleasure by spanking Jenna fully nude on her bed?

Why am I thinking about bears and the Pope? ha ha

Jenna, like many of us, was disciplined at home by her stepdad. Thing is, for some reason she wasn't shy about sharing details. I was very interested in what she had to say but didn't connect the dots back then. We would have been in 7th, maybe 8th grade at the time. I was way less revealling about my spankings although I did admit to Jenna that I was spanked as well. Bare ass bent over the bed with dad's belt. Jenna was much more forthcoming.

Thinking back on this, I have to wonder why she was so open with such personal and what I would think, private information. As I said, back then spanking was much more accepted and thought to be just good parenting. Still, did Jenna derive some sort of pleasure from the spankings? Did it arouse her to tell me in such detail about them?

It's possible Jenna was aroused to tell you the details of her spankings, knowing it would arouse you, but it's also possible she wasn't ashamed of it, knew it was common and didn't hesitate to be open about it. Few people would be embarrassed to say "I'm grounded this week; I can't go out." Being spanked may have been just as pedestrian to her.

I, otoh was private about just about every part of my life, although not ashamed.

Mom did not but my aunt that I stayed with during the summer definitely did. I received two bare bottom spanking from her with a different paddle each time.

My mother was the only one who would spank us. I never got any. But my older sister sure did. I remember her trying to sneak in late once. (we shared a room) She made it to our room and she heard Mom coming so my sister took a notebook and shoved it down her jeans in the back. Then the dummy told Mom that she was too old and too big to get spanked. Mom said oh yeah! Glabbed her by the arm she undid my sister's jeans and yanked her jeans and panties off. The notebook fell out. Mom knew it was there because when she spanked her with her jeans on she could feel it with her hand.

Then she proceeded to spank her ass naked. She wasn't totally nude. Just her jeans and panties were off. Her bra and shirt were still on. Mom was mad and grabbed a belt and whipped my sister's ass. She was trying to get away from Mom but, Mom had her by the elbow. So they were spinning around. I was trying to keep from laughing. It really was funny to watch. My sister's ass was bright red. All night my sister would get out of her bed and wake me up. Then turn on the light and pull her pj bottoms down and put her ass in my face and ask me if it was still red. Oh yes, it was. She told me to feel her ass and wanted to know if it was hot. I was like huh? LOL She meant it felt hot to her. I felt it and yes it was generating heat and bright red. All night she kept waking me up and asking if it was still red and to feel her ass. I swear this is how it went down. She was never late again and I was for sure never late. Lol

I don't think Mom gained any sexual pleasure from it because she was so mad. Lol She kept yelling that she didn't know what had happened to her and that she could have driven off into the lake etc.

Hi Tabitha, it sure sounds like that was one hell of a whipping your sister got! But a well deserved one from a Mom who was genuinely very worried and concerned Mother! Enjoyed reading your post!

See we lived on Lake Havasu. The main bridges are big but we as teens knew of areas where the water was to the top of the road. If it rained you better not try to drive over those small bridges. You could get swept away. It may take a few weeks to find your body. It happened often. But anyway we would go parking in those areas. We knew where nobody would find us. Lol, I was the Tomboy while my sister was the prim and proper one. I could fix a lot of boat motors back then. I was also a fishing guide. If a bad storm came up I was out in my boat helping search for people who had not returned yet. Not my sister she would be inside the house cooking. I am two years younger than her. I have no clue why my sister didn't turn out like me. Lol I used to get paid to spit on old men's worms. I am not joking. It started when I was really young. This man came in about noon and was complaining because he had not caught one fish. Someone said give Tabitha a dollar and have her spit on your worms for good lock. It was a joke. That evening that man came in with a ton of fish. Word got around fast. Anyway, that is why Mom was so mad at my sister. If I had been late, Mom would have thought nothing about it. We own a store and boat rental on the lake. My first real job was working with Daddy and I would clean out the houseboats when they were returned. You can't imagine what you can find on them. I guess that is why I am not shy when I talk. If they left their sex toys I would call them and let them know what they left. It didn't bother me. If you saw me you would think I am all shy. I am only 5 foot three or four and I weigh about one hundred. Long brunette hair to blonde with highlights to my ass and green or blue eyes depending on what I wear. I found a diamond ring once and called the lady. She told me to keep it. It is worth a lot. I used to always ride with Mom to the emergency with my sister. She was always getting hurt like stepping on glass etc. Not me. But I liked to watch the doctor put stitches in people from a young age. I guess that is why I became a nurse.

For a few days, I had a high school P.E. teacher who routinely walked with a paddle in his hand. He looked for any excuse to use it, too (like any kid being among the last five or so in about any activity, race, etc.) Looking back, it almost certainly was a dominance fetish, as he was a retired Marine noncom (he wore white shorts and T-shirt but had his Marine blue trousers hanging by the waistband in the coaches' office.) He was shorter than most students, at about 5'6" or so and maybe thought he had to keep proving his dominance. He was a certifiable asshole and pretty much impossible to please; it was just a matter of time before he would have been beating on me. We had just moved into that district and I had been an athletic trainer in junior high. It took about ten minutes for me to ask about being a trainer for the football team. The head football coach was glad to have me, and that meant I was no longer in the regular P.E. classes. I got to go to the field house training room for my P.E. classes instead, along with the athletes.

It never occurred to me that his thing with paddling could have been a sexual fetish, but it certainly could have been possible.

There is a big difference between sexual pleasure and pleasure. While some parents, teacher and other adult might derive sexual pleasure from spanking their charges, I would suggest that the large majority do not. However, that would not preclude a more significantly sized group from taking pleasure from giving a naughty child a good spanking for misbehaving. I would suspect that almost every parent, teacher or other adult would be likely, at one time or another. to have been quite pleased to put an errant child over their lap for a well-deserved, good, bottom warming.

The pleasure adults derived from spanking took many forms: in some cases real sexual satisfaction and enjoyment; in others they derived pleasure of a non-sexual nature; and in some instances it was simply a case of mild amusement. Of course many adults got no pleasure at all from it!

I think my elementary teacher enjoyed spanking me but I don’t think she had sexual pleasure from it. She just didn’t like me for some reason and always came up with a reason to spank me

I didn't have a clue as a kid that my Aunt found any pleasure or was aroused when spanking me.

As an adult I think she more than likely did. She was always very calm. She was never in a hurry.

Makes me think she she wanted to prolong the spanking for her pleasure.

There is a big difference between sexual pleasure and pleasure. While some parents, teacher and other adult might derive sexual pleasure from spanking their charges, I would suggest that the large majority do not. However, that would not preclude a more significantly sized group from taking pleasure from giving a naughty child a good spanking for misbehaving. I would suspect that almost every parent, teacher or other adult would be likely, at one time or another. to have been quite pleased to put an errant child over their lap for a well-deserved, good, bottom warming.

The pleasure adults derived from spanking took many forms: in some cases real sexual satisfaction and enjoyment; in others they derived pleasure of a non-sexual nature; and in some instances it was simply a case of mild amusement. Of course many adults got no pleasure at all from it!

Very true. It is common to feel (non-sexual) pleasure when a villain gets their comeuppance in a movie. Why would it be any different watching (or administering) a well deserved good spanking to a naughty kid?

Very true. It is common to feel (non-sexual) pleasure when a villain gets their comeuppance in a movie. Why would it be any different watching (or administering) a well deserved good spanking to a naughty kid?

C'mon. It's a bit over the top to start equating or thinking of children as 'villains'.

Children may indeed misbehave, but then better to consider them as 'adults still in training' who need adjustments in their comportment.

I wouldn't want to impart my own sexuality on my parents or other adults in authority. There were rules and guidelines one was suppose to follow while growing up, no matter what age. When I misbehaved there was a punishment to correct or adjust my behavior. Something, in my opinion, that is lacking today with children.

Was it sexual when our kids were disciplined...no! They were doing something inappropriate/wrong/behaving badly/ect and needed to stop.

I went to a all boys Catholic High School that shared a building with an all girls Catholic high school. Many of the classes were coed. There was one female teacher that liked to give out a lot of after school detentions especially to boys. I think the teacher got sexual pleasure from punishing boys.

On the girl's side there was a male math teacher, who had a reputation for giving out after school detentions to girls. The girl's school had a rule that any girl that got 5 after school detentions, got an all day Saturday detention. I knew a girl who had this teacher as a homeroom teacher. One day, during homeroom, he said that it was good for a girl to get her share of detentions because it puts her in her place. This girl was tall and good looking. She got 3 detentions from this teacher plus a few others. As a result she got a Saturday detention. I think this teacher got sexual pleasure from punishing girls.

There was no corporal punishment where I went to school.