Aroused by embarrassment?

How many of you are also aroused by embarrassment?

This is the main factor for me: the embarrassment of being examined or of having to undergo medical treatment is a major turn on for me.

Initially, this meant that I enjoyed watching others who were embarrassed by their exams and/or treatments. Meanwhile, however, I have developed into a sub medfetter enjoying more than anything else situations in which I am being embarrassed in a medical scenario.

How many of you can relate?

Yes Chris, I very much agree.

For me it's about the embarrassment and humiliation of compulsory and prolonged nudity. I'll let you have a read through some of my other posts rather than repeat it here.

This is the main factor for me: the embarrassment of being examined or of having to undergo medical treatment is a major turn on for me.

Initially, this meant that I enjoyed watching others who were embarrassed by their exams and/or treatments. Meanwhile, however, I have developed into a sub medfetter enjoying more than anything else situations in which I am being embarrassed in a medical scenario.

I can definitely relate with one significant difference. I first became excited by medical fetish when I began having to strip down to my white briefs for physicals at age 11. The embarrassment intensified a lot more when I started having my briefs down for full visual inspection of the genitalia at the same age. After I became excited by my own exam embarrassment, I then became interested in how others went through the same experience. So my fetish began with my own personal embarrassment and then grew to include interest in the embarrassment of other boys.

Embarrassment is a huge part of my medical fetish. That's why in my stories and fantasies, I tend to gravitate toward situations where there are multiple people observing or conducting the exam. Group physicals and the like.

Yes love the embarrassment aspects of an exam

Embarrassment is an arousing part of the experience when I go to a dominatrix nurse for buttock injections because she makes me pull everything down and bend over her receptionist's lap for them. No matter how much they hurt my overriding thoughts are the exciting humiliation of a beautiful girl holding me still as she watches me get shots in my vulnerable bare bottom.

For me the two keys things that make exams exciting and arousing are the transfer of power to another individual and the embarrassment aspect. Now, I've never had a health professional purposefully try to embarrass me or anything but I've certainly been embarrassed during exams because of the things of treatments received or the questions asked. It's also a bit of a reflective thing for me: I might be embarrassed and slightly excited during an appointment but most of the excitement comes when I get home and can replay the interactions in my mind.

I think it might figure into why I like to see a girl in a medically required mask. My old friend with cystic fibrosis wore masks in public for her immune system, and to avoid particulates. She was a stunning, slim brunette in her upper teens, and sometimes I did imagine her getting all dressed for the evening or day or whatever, and then at the end masking up, and how surreal that must be to need to do that.

Yes, this is my whole thing.

While I did experience some sense of embarrassment during my earliest school physicals, because it was the first time I remember being naked in front of strangers, all of my other physicals when young were with our family doctor who I'd known forever, so I didn't have much embarrassment there, with the exception if a new office assistant might be there.

However, as I've written about in another post or two, I did gain an appreciation for embarrassment in situations where someone is stripped in front of others, by watching TV shows where this sort of thing was used in comedy.

There were lots of shows, including many for kids, where they'd have some skit or scene where a guy would have to undress in front of others, usually in a public place, or he would be stripped by others. I remember some game shows where people would undress for prizes, usually covered from the neck down by a screen or sheet. There was one where the host went into a laundromat, and offered a woman money to take off articles of clothing, eventually getting her down to just wearing a towel.

Even done in educational shows, where something would be demonstrated, like measurement, by having a guy undress. Often, this was at the direction of a female, or group of women.

It was usually comedy, and the embarrassment, and humiliation, was meant to be funny. There wasn't really a sexual component to these situations, although it often involved women being present when a guy was undressing or being undressed.

I remember that feeling of my stomach dropping whenever I'd see such a scene. It left me with a thrill, and I'd certainly think about these scenes over and over. I'd talk about it with my friends, sometimes we'd even play out similar scenes, pulling down each other's pants or shorts, laughing about it.

And, of course, there were situations where kids might try to embarrass someone they didn't like, by de-panting them. This never happened to me, but I witnessed it several times. Usually, it was an older sibling doing it. Where I grew up, this wasn't done too viciously, never involved an outright assault, so it didn't have that type of trauma around it. I could certainly see it going that way if taken not all that much further, though, and that would likely have left a very different impression on me.

So, this was very much part of what fed my interest in Medfet, exhibitionism, etc. A good example of images from social media influencing us from a young age.

It is the biggest turn on for me.

When I was nude in the changing room in HS I was painfully embarrassed because I was being bullied. When I moved to Europe I was initially equally embarrassed being seen naked by others both in the changing rooms and in group physicals, but it was a nice embarrassment even though I felt shy and it turned me on.

When I went inside twice I was totally out of my safety zone especially during processing when the most intimate exams were conducted.

I am an harden nudist, but I am pleased to say there are still times that I am genuinely embarrassed and I love it, as I do when I see others embarrassed.

When I moved to Europe I was initially equally embarrassed being seen naked by others both in the changing rooms and in group physicals, but it was a nice embarrassment even though I felt shy and it turned me on.

I keep on bringing this up because saying something is done in Europe, is almost the same as saying something is done on Earth. It is not specific enough, there being dozen and dozens of quite different cultural approaches to things in the dozens of countries that are in Europe. Every country, and differing regions in one and same country may also have very different customs and ways of doing things.

Unless you can say where, in which country, which region you are taking about, the info is vague.

I can relate a lot to that

I'm not strictly a MedFet enthusiast though I've done exams for people in the past when they wanted them as MedFet. I only enjoy embarrassment when playing with one of my ex Domme partners who would "force" me into wearing or enduring several of my or her kinks in order to have a fun, arousing sexual session together. This frequently involved consensual forced rubber clothing, sneakers, anal plugging, large long enemas, spanking and servicing her sexual needs during this humiliating submission to her. We were both switches and enjoyed reversing roles so she could also enjoy her humiliatingly submissive side. Great fun.

Eric

Some of the things that were the most embarrassing to me during my physicals as a kid and teenager are now the most important parts when thinking back on the experiences. I think the embarrassing parts are key to my fetish.

Fully agree, being embarrassed is a huge turn on for me.

PS. Writing this with a glass thermometer inserted in my butt and removable orthodontic braces in my mouth in order to create embarrassment for me.

OMG! I definitely can relate. Embarrassment is such a turn on.

Like so many others here, I relate to the idea of being embarrassed by doctors - play or real. Even having my tonsils out as a boy was somehow embarrassing. And a few years later, when a smiling dental anaesthetist (maybe trying to be nice) asked me, 'Have you had your tonsils out?', I remember bashfully saying 'Yes' as he and the dentist grinned at me. (A moment later they put me to sleep.) My embarrassing exam by a panel of dermatologists when I was a young teenager, and they inspected me both front and back - and for a moment or two, wholly nude - I have described in another thread.

My MedFet is intimately (!) related to my capacity to be embarrassed - or to fantasise about somebody else being embarrassed.

- Ken

I think embarrassment is a huge factor for most of us, certainly for me. Sometimes it's big things, sometimes it's little...

On the minor end of things, I remember going to the ER when I was on vacation in Canada in probably first grade - I had a bad case of tonsillitis and it wasn't getting better. I remember being more embarrassed or self-conscious about going there in my pajamas than I was having my temperature taken and being given a (painful) penicillin shot in my butt. (Seriously, I remember asking my aunt who took me to tell the nurses that I don't ordinarily leave the house in my PJs....this is was in Montreal and I didn't speak French...).

And I think there's something naturally embarrassing about being exposed in a medical scene - whether it's walking around the doctor's office in just your underwear, being subjected to a quick genital check, etc... the idea, especially as a kid, of trying to reconcile that it's perfectly ok (actually it's legitimately in your interest) that this person you don't know (doctor, nurse, etc.) can ask you to undress or touch you in places.

In other cases, I like to work in elements of more embarrassing moments that I experienced into play scenes... for example, the surprise of a babysitter who found out I still got my temperature taken "that way", or a friend who might have become aware of that through conversation or when playing doctor.

And of course there's always the risk of embarrassment of getting aroused....

Embarrassment certainly plays a prominent role as far as my medfet is concerned. I have memories from early childhood of being very embarrassed when being examined by a doctor. This continued throughout my school years with the then compulsory school medical examinations carried out in the UK in the fifties, sixties. I believe they were still going on in the 70's and early eighties. I'm certain these embarrassing experiences were the catalyst for my medical fetish.

Embarrassment plays a conspicuous part of my role play examinations both as "doctor" and as "patient"

P.S. to my last. I was rather hoping that someone here might elaborate about their embarrassment on the thread I started (and hope to keep going) on 'Fetishes - in the big context!', in The Lounge/The Parlor, in which I'm trying to establish a link between childhood feelings and adult fetishes. As I pointed out last time, my boyhood tonsillectomy felt like a kind of embarrassment, as well as something beyond my control - and now look at me! As good a MedFet specimen as you'll find anywhere, present company excluded??!!

R.S.V.P.?

- Ken

Same here. It’s the fact that the nurse and doctor are in control. They tell me what to do, when to undress, etc.

I know this not only from medical situations. Some of my lovers loved when I blushed and tried to encourage my blushing with words or otherwise. It is such a battle inside to be ashamed and turned on the same time.

I think that's the most exciting part for me too. And maybe the power exchange. Having someone have that much control over me definitly makes me feel very submissive and helps me to just relax and enjoy the experience.

Yes. 100%. I love the idea of being put in embarrassing situations.

I think there can be some fun in a metfet situation without embarrassment, but I agree that, for me, embarrassment is the aspect that appeals to me the most.

I think that exhibitionism is equally significant, partially because it creates and heightens the embarrassment.

Embarrassment heightens self-awareness and thus awareness of one's body and genitals and their vulnerability/availability for an other. It is readiness without control and can be delirious.

I certainly enjoy the embarrassment aspect but it's also coupled with power exchange and more generally with intimacy. Giving who might be a total stranger access to your most intimate areas is, for me at least, pretty thrilling. Also, sharing with that practitioner very personal details of your health or habits can be embarrassing. I've never had anything really embarrassing happen at the doctor but just being exposed is embarrassing in and of itself.

I've never had anything really embarrassing happen at the doctor but just being exposed is embarrassing in and of itself.

I have been excited by physicals ever since I started having my briefs down for full visual examination of my genitalia at age 11. The first time I ejaculated was when I maturbated after my first genital exam.

I can definitely relate to this. I love the embarrassment of being in these situations. I think that one cause of this fetish is that, in my daily life, I rarely get to feel this way - exposed and embarrassed. And when it comes to living this out in a play scenario, knowing the doctor is enjoying it. I know that real doctors couldn't care less what they see or touch, but it's very exciting to know that the play doctor is doing something that is arousing to them.