Aroused by embarrassment?

I also can very much relate to this; embarrassment, humiliation and the overall ritual of an examination is very huge part of it for me

An older, clothed Dr certainly adds to it

I'm totally aroused by all the embarrassment caused, though that's just part of the whole experience for me. I also enjoy the sense of humiliation, submission, exposion and so on.

As several others have described, I am aroused by those situations where lots of people watching, It doesn't particularly matter whether I'm the only one being examined or whether I'm part of a larger group physical. When I want to increase the intensity of the fantasy, I imagine the on-lookers are folks (female and male) that I work for and with. Letting them know I have this other side to me creates some degree of shame (which I also find arousing.) However, letting them watch as I'm 'forced' to experience the examine, completes the sense of embarrassment. Though nothing is said directly or indirectly during the exam, it's understood that I would gladly make myself available to any of them should they wish to carry out a scene of their choice.

Not only the embarrassment but fear of pain too!

Not only the embarrassment but fear of pain too!

Embarrassment and fear of pain go hand-in-hand when I am bending over bare-bottomed for injections. It a shot really hurts, however, it makes me forget about the embarrassment.

I agree. The embarrassment and exposure are as important as the pain aspect.

The language too..."this is going to be uncomfortable".

I agree. The embarrassment and exposure are as important as the pain aspect.

The language too..."this is going to be uncomfortable".

Even worse than the phrase you quote is the question, "Would you like to be held down?"!

The "stage fright" effect the embarrassment has is a major turn on. So is the cocooning effect of physical submission to the examination process, which some vanilla oriented play "Docs" may find offputting as it's hard to gauge if a "purist" patient is enjoying the situation.

It's definitely a huge turn-on and the central part of my medical fetish, which also started by enjoying watching or reading about other people's embarrassing situations, which made me become interested in getting embarrassed myself. I think it's specially embarrassing, if the person who is conducting the exam is attractive or you happen to know them.

OH YES! Embarrassment is a major turn on for me. I am told I exhibit a tell-tale blush at various points of embarrassment. Is that a function of my naivete and my softness? I'd bet it will be there forever for me since I don't think I can ever do hard core. I might as well start blushing now! =^_^=

The "stage fright" effect the embarrassment has is a major turn on. So is the cocooning effect of physical submission to the examination process, which some vanilla oriented play "Docs" may find offputting as it's hard to gauge if a "purist" patient is enjoying the situation.

I find this very perceptive. Thanks @draft_examinee. It explains why, when I'm with a real doc, I'm not likely to be aroused. But later I remember the details and may indeed get excited!

Hmm. One of the 'advantages' of doing a physical exam by PM (personal messaging) with an intelligent and experienced medfet doc is that you can both tell each other what you're 'secretly' thinking - the sort of things neither doctor nor patient is likely to own up to during a real exam! In such a play exam both doc and patient take it in turns to describe or react to the stages of the exam, but with the sort of 'meta-commentary' I've just described. For example, the doc may describe just how he's 'conditioning' his patient for more invasive procedures to come! Helps build suspense and gives the whole business an extra dimension!

(Btw, any good play docs out there? I'm always looking!)

- Ken

Yes, this is a turn on for me. When I was a child, long before I knew what medfet was, I'd play back embarrassing scenarios in my head. Most of the time, I'd imagine someone I knew, usually one of my mom's girlfriends, at the doctor's office. They would be subject to take off their pants and the doctor would take a look "down there." I remember lying on my bed with an erection (didn't know what they were back then), playing out these fantasies until I got tired or lost interest. It was almost like my own way of masturbating (before I knew what masturbating even was). Looking back now, it's no surprise I'm turned on by medfet and embarrassment.

Yes, I find that i get aroused by embarrassment; which in turn leads to more embarrassment and a nice circle (in play situation).

In a play situation I like to "take advantage" of this by having the following exam process:

Start with the general history (but nothing sexual at this stage)

Carry out the main part of the exam - finishing with a very detailed abdo exam which includes feeling bladder & femoral arteries.

[at this point i'm guaranteed to be at least partly erect!]

Doc then removed underwear, but before continuing genital exam gets me to stand with legs spread & hands behind head.

Observes my erection & makes comment questioning why i'm in that state.

Continues with a very intrusive / intimate sexual history / behaviour questionnaire (I've got a 60+ question questionnaire). Being stood in that position allows clear observation of any physical reactions to the questions, which adds to the arousal / embarrassment cycle.

Then continue with extremely detailed genital / rectal / prostate exam.

I have to admit that seeing a blush and downcast eyes before an enema or an exam are a major turn on for me. The embarrassment factor is a major part of a session and tells me a good time is about to be had by all.

Embarrassment is a big turn on for me. Humiliation in particular. I have always dreaming of being caught in compromising positions and forced to serve the whims of the catcher to stop from being more embarrassed and humiliated by him or her sharing my "secret."

For years after masturbating, often with diapers on, I would fall back, flushed with humiliation even though nobody was there. I used to visit porn shops and jackoff thinking about being made to walk through the place with my wet diaper on and forced to service all the men in there who kept laughing at my diaper and spanking my ass for being a sissy baby.

In reality, when I would cum, I would hurry up and get out of there as soon as I could, even though I wanted to be forced to continue to serve even after I came.

The embarrassment of older boys getting bared and spanked and also being diapered with others present.

"Initially, this meant that I enjoyed watching others who were embarrassed by their exams and/or treatments"

I enjoy watching medical exam videos where it is clear the patient, male or female, is embarrassed by having to expose themselves or getting exposed by the doctor as the doctor adjusts the gown or drape. And also if the patient gets embarrassed by things like being asked to cough, knowing they could possibly be heard by others in the next room.

I also get aroused when imagining I'm doing a jockstrap photo shoot somewhere, and one or more people appear by surprise, really into what they're seeing, and smiling and maybe even laughing at seeing me in a jockstrap and feeling vulnerable. One time when a masseuse brought me into another room to show her co-worker me in a jockstrap, I started getting hard, feeling like i was on display. I think the arousal by embarrassment is an extension of all those years where i was afraid to be seen wearing a jockstrap. Thinking I'd rather be seen nude than in that embarrassing undergarment which felt and looked more like male lingerie than anything athletic. I would have been embarrassed to be seen on that kind of display, even if in a locker room of other guys.

Now the thought of it arouses me.

For someone who has a submissive role in their fantasy like being a patient, I think the idea of embarrassment can play into it and make it that much more of a memorable thing. Things like mirrors letting the patient see themself, or even a clinical camera to see what's happening from the doctors point of view would bring a new element to the visit. The moment you see a pair of foot stirrups sliding out and being spread apart, there isn't much doubt it's going to lead to a bit of vulnerability and embarrassment.

I think the main turn on in a play exam is the embarassment

I enjoy and get aroused by humiliation only during D/s scenes where I'm the sub. As long as She is in charge and making me do submissive things that ally with my kinks, I'm delighted to both act and feel and sound very submissive. This especially occurs during the Domme giving me an enema, but also will work without one, such as putting me in rubber clothes and sneakers, tying me and putting in an anal plug. The submissiveness and embarrassment only serve to improve and intensify my arousal and orgasm, which I love. But then after each of us has had enough orgasms, we go back to our normal equal lovers and talk about how we each liked the D/s sssion and who wants which role next time.

Eric

Absolutely...the embarrasment/humiliation is a huge part for me

I can't say I can be embarrassed or humiliated by anything having to do with my body.

You can examine me, march me around naked, give me enemas, make me shit them out while you watch, whatever you want.

I don't have the same body I had when I was 18, but I still wear the same size clothes, I am in very good shape and a damn good specimen of the species.

I don't have the same body I had when I was 18, but I still wear the same size clothes, I am in very good shape and a damn good specimen of the species.

I hate you for that!

There was an article in a business magazine giving advice to young men entering the business world 5-10 years ago. I copied it but cannot find it in my computer right now.

One of the pieces of advice was to buy a tuxedo upon graduation from college AND TO STAY THAT SIZE.

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OK, I found it. The article was titled "Goldman Sachs Unofficial Guide to being a Man" that first appeared in 2013.

The article said buy a tuxedo before you are thirty and stay that size.

The article said buy a tuxedo before you are thirty and stay that size.

Would have been an utter waste of money. I cannot for the life of me imagine any event requiring a tuxedo I would be required/asked and especially willing to attend ... ha ha

Would have been an utter waste of money. I cannot for the life of me imagine any event requiring a tuxedo I would be required/asked and especially willing to attend ... ha ha

You travel with a casual crowd.

We usually attend one white tie and a few black tie affairs every year so owning two gorgeous tuxedos (picked by me of course) is far less costly than repeated rentals as the years go by.

There’s something about it being so innocent yet so sexual that’s a turn on. You knew it was going to happen. How could something so good for you be so bad... and yet the bad feeling is good. The wave of emotions and confusion about what is right is what makes the experience of being embarrassed so unnerving.

Absolutely relate. Being naked in front of others is as exciting as it is embarrassing. The first time I related the sensation as something sexual was during a physical exam around age 12 or 13. When the doctor pulled down my underwear slightly and examined my penis and testicles I was mortified with embarrassment. But it was so powerfully exciting to be in that submissive, powerless position, totally exposed to his eyes, feeling him touch such private and sensitive areas. Then my blood really started to boil when he pulled my underwear back up and asked me to roll over. Now the sensation of embarrassment and also confusion built as I wondered what he would do. Surely not something with my bottom? And before I could put 2 and 2 together, I felt his fingertips under my waistband and suddenly my bottom was bared and I felt the cool air. And I swear I also felt hot knowing that his eyes were looking at my exposed cheeks. My palms actually felt moist and then to my complete shock and embarrassment and thrill the doctors hands spread my cheeks wide apart, a sensation totally new to my very pubescent and hormonal body. He didn’t touch my anus even or say anything at all. Probably it took a few seconds for him to check my anal area though it felt much longer. So utterly intense and intimate, why did it feel both so naughty and yet so exciting that he was doing this? I went home tingling for hours and looked at my bottom up close in the mirror for the first time that night. All my many sessions playing doctor as an adult began that day. To this day it’s still deliciously embarrassing every time someone’s fingers pull my underwear down to examine me, whether doctor or girlfriend.

Surely not something with my bottom?

It’s the fact of not knowing what’s going to happen, thinking you know, wanting to know, and also not wanting to know all at the same time that’s the thrill. I’d say it’s a similar tie to why people like horror/suspense. You know, but don’t want to believe, but also do all at the same time.

One of the reasons I became a medfet play Dr was to revel in the anxiety and humiliation my male patients relished. From the pre-examination questionnaire, to being told to "get undressed and put on the examination gown that opens to the back," to the incredible shock of being told they were to receive a rectal temperature reading - my enjoyment hinges on seeing my patient in all kinds of "stressful" and "embarrassing" assessments and examination positions. This is also why I spend many hours learning how to give as an authentic physical as possible and to learn more of the less common examination techniques. What a thrill to find this community.