Flogging first timer

Of all my various kinks, I have never really had any interest in being flogged. In fact, my girlfriend who enjoys it, took me to watch her being flogged, and it really upset me. I have decided that it was because someone was hurting the one I loved that I found it hard to watch. The last few visits to my club, women have offered me a go on the cross, and each time I have gotten closer to taking them up on it.

I have no idea if I will like it of not, but tonite I will try it. Part of my willingness is my 'I'll try anything once' attitude, and the other is just closer bonding with my girl.

Not one for half measures, I will be bare assed, and cuffed to the cross. I know all about safe words, including, only use green, yellow, red.

A little later I'm going to buy a paddle- Two flaps of thick leather that make a hell of a whack, but not much pain, and she's bringing a silicone flogger. I'm not letting anyone near my tush with a riding crop.

Any last minute advice welcome.

I have been flogged a lot. I love it. Yes...love being naked or nearly naked, bound and flogged. I was at a mostly caning CP session in a Dungeon two months ago. I begged a couple of Tops to flog me. Eventually they agreed, but they were so obsessed with caning,they had never flogged anyone before. They did an OK job. One of them said he quite enjoyed it. After witnessing my flogging, a couple of 'first timer' ( for flogging ) wanted to try it. Again, one said that he quite enjoyed it.

So...well done for volunteering to be tied to the St Andrew's cross for a flogging. I know you will be nervous & this advice will sound so obvious. Try to relax as much as you possibly can. Breathe as deeply as you can. Don'-t worry about gasping or making involuntary noises (in fact, onlookers will probably like that!!). If you are being flogged across the back / shoulders...be prepared for the weight of the blows forcing air out if your lungs. This is quite normal.

You may surprise yourself as to how much you can take. You have your safe words...use them if you really need to. But, don't just 'default ' to them..If say, you felt like using the lowest one...try steeling yourself and see if you could take another 2 or 3 lashes first. Provided that whoever is flogging you is not a crazed, irresponsible, sadistic brute...it could prove to be more erotic than you could ever imagine. But hey..congratulations on having the guts to submit to it. Hot!! Maybe you could report back at some future date? Good luck buddy.

Schoolmed- Thanks. It will be my girlfriends dom doing the flogging, who she trusts completely. Going to keep it to just my bare bum first time.

If you have had your butt spanked, paddled, strapped etc before - then I can guarantee that you will be able to take the flogging. I am sure of it. Hope it all goes well....deciding that you will try to take it is already the biggest step...but I do understand the Sub psyche. That usual anticipatory mix of fear and excitement.

(PS....the crop is not so bad as you might think either.LOL. But...we are all different. I hate the cane, but...here in the UK..soooo many 'Sirs' want to cane their'boys' backsides..there is no escape for me.)

Hope your session goes well.

Thanks- I've never been spanked, whipped, or pureed. It will be completely new to me.

Wow!! Respect!! Then you are an amazing lady to volunteer to go through with this. Truly. You clearly have great mental strength and a positive attitude. If the Dom knows their business ( & it sounds as though they do )...then you will be fine. Of course, it will hurt a little ( at least ). Very Best Wishes and good luck with it all. Bravo!!

I echo the post above, brave you are, but if the woman who administers this discipline is very skilled, (and it sounds like she is) this will turn out to be an extremely erotic experience. I had a female friend some years ago that wanted to experience a more extreme session of flogging than I was comfortable providing. We found a mutual friend whom we knew had been involved in, shall we say, heavier forms of corporal punishment. The first session made me slightly uncomfortable, but my lady friend absolutely loved it. From then on she found a good flogging extremely enjoyable. Please let us know how this goes for you!

Start with a DEERSKIN FLOGGER.

You can beat the crap out of someone and not injure them or leave marks.

The deerskin will allow the person wielding the flogger to hit very hard and for you to get accustomed to the impacts without being badly hurt or having any skin injury. I even bought my daughters deerskin floggers.

Thanks. On my way downtown I bought a suede (no idea what hide) flogger that I'm assuming has about the same characteristics. I also bought a leather paddle made of two layers that make a hell of a sound, and Jenny brought a silicone flogger that packed a whallop.

I can't yet describe the experience until I mull it over some more, I'm a bit confused by it all.

I have quite a pink bottom.

I would have told you any type of rubber--vulcanized, silicone or even latex will pack a wallop of you had asked what type of flogger to use.

Ones that look like suede are often buffalo hyde, smooth hard/shiny are usually latigo and also mark skin and pack a punch.

I received my first flogging as a 50th birthday gift. My girlfriend had hinted that she was into impact play and I had pressed her for more information. She took me to a duplex in the outskirts of Edmonton where I was introduced to a slim young lady in her mid thirties named Silvia. We entered back room which was lied with dark green drapes. A rack of assorted canes, straps, floggers and paddles stood in one corner. A metal A-frame stood prominently in the center of the room. My GF hugged me and left me alone with Silvia. I was not at all nervous and was actually looking forward to the experience. Silvia sat on a high stool and asked to remove all my clothing. I was then led to the A-frame and my wrists were attached to it with what looked like cat collars.Silvia stood behind me and nudged my feet apart with a toe. My GF had told me just to relax and breathe slightly deeper than normal.

Silvia selected a light-looking flogger from the rack. The first blows landed across my buttocks They stung but were not unpleasant. The flogger moved in time with my breathing and I relaxed more deeply. There was pause. Silvia selected a heavier flogger This time the blows landed more firmly, alternating between shoulders and buttocks. Then another pause. Silvia gently ran her fingers over the two target areas and began raining blows with an even heavier flogger. It was painful but pleasurable at the same time. I was released from the frame and told to dress. It was over. Silvia hugged me and I left full of joy.