Of all my various kinks, I have never really had any interest in being flogged. In fact, my girlfriend who enjoys it, took me to watch her being flogged, and it really upset me. I have decided that it was because someone was hurting the one I loved that I found it hard to watch. The last few visits to my club, women have offered me a go on the cross, and each time I have gotten closer to taking them up on it.I have no idea if I will like it of not, but tonite I will try it. Part of my willingness is my 'I'll try anything once' attitude, and the other is just closer bonding with my girl.Not one for half measures, I will be bare assed, and cuffed to the cross. I know all about safe words, including, only use green, yellow, red.A little later I'm going to buy a paddle- Two flaps of thick leather that make a hell of a whack, but not much pain, and she's bringing a silicone flogger. I'm not letting anyone near my tush with a riding crop.Any last minute advice welcome.