GF/BF from both perspectives

@examine_me I think, if he is serious, and you are serious, he would eventually understand if not at first. I can see why you'd feel secretive after this long. You don't even have to say anything, actions can sometimes speak louder than words....

Well, I knew she had her 2% as she called it. But yes I was a bit, what's that all about, feeling her pulse, and then we just discovered more and more, and there is yet more to discover.

So he does it to you, and he likes it when you do it to him.....I'm sure you can explore slowly with that....it sounds like he would be game.

She was far from mortified, very shy, but I don't actually remember the first time I did, or her reactions. She probably does though, I could ask her to remind me.

It's been a little while since I wrote, did you try his pulse again? how did you feel when you did?

How are things with the gf? Anything new? It's interesting hearing about this from a non metfet perspective.

My bf palpated me really hard last time I saw him. He pressed everywhere really deep and asked me if it hurts. He was feeling my pulse in my abdomen and was telling me that's what he was doing. He seemed to be very intrigued by it and spent a lot of time doing that. When he stopped I said no don't stop, it feels so good. He was more than happy to continue and referred to it as massaging my tummy. I took pics too 😉

I feel more comfortable telling him what I like but I have a long way to go

My gf has been away for nearly three months, so nothing really new, except a present I have for her in the form of an oxygen mask....for use later :p

We have discussed a few new things while she is away, but obviously not been able to try anything out yet. It sounds like he would be more than willing to try the things out knowing he should be your personal dr 😉

Whose idea was the pics? He might well continue doing it if it was worthy of pictures to you. My girlfriend and I have a way to go to, there is nothing wrong with slow. Have you told him anything that would really imply medical???

When she comes back you need to give her a very long thorough and serious physical examination. Buy a cold stethoscope.

He doesn't know I took pictures but I will tell him next time. I showed them to my medfet buddy that examines me and he said if he didn't know any better it's exactly what you would see in a textbook abdominal examination. I told him it felt really good and to not stop.

It goes without saying she will get a thorough check up when she gets back :p

She is specific about stethescopes....we will talk about the one to get, but I know she would love a cold one.

You managed to take pictures without him even noticing? You must be some kind of genious haha, I hope I would notice if my gf had taken photos of me doing it. She has a few photos of me and stethoscope around my neck etc. But none when we actually do it (yet).

I will be honest with you, in my opinion, the hardest part for your bf, out of everything, will be learning about your medfet buddy that examines you. I know you are a long way from telling him, but since you brought him up, I would have found it difficult.

Have you watched anything that shows how to give physicals?

I was on my phone and was on silent and you couldn't tell just looked like I was texting.

I would never tell him about my medfet buddy.

Sometimes I wonder if he knows about this site by going through my phone and knowing what I'm into and maybe doing all this for that reason.