Do you like OTHER men to watch YOU cum?

My husband had no choice to cum. He got excited watching another Zity member play with me. I posted a picture of that session. You see the other Zity member's hands in me. He had cum all over his hand. Lol.

No men, please, only a well-known trusted woman, thanks.

Eric

Ericmason I agree as I’d prefer it to be only women, as that’s my attraction. However men are very visual and seem interested so why not? It doesn’t hurt me, and if they enjoy it, no harm. I mean I’m already having an orgasm, so it’s nice someone else gets some enjoyment too.

Yes, It's a huge turn-on for me to "show off" in this way, like sharing one of life's most intimate secrets.

Yes, for sure. Nothing hotter than someone watching you come.

I would like to have an audience. When I was in school and college I was a member of a group who had open masturbation sessions. It was always arousing. I miss it and would like to find others and do it again.

I like watching him do it.

I used to be very shy about this, it somehow felt like a very private moment. I did let more men see it happen and quite enjoy it now.

Nope, sorry...

Za

Nope. Not at all. No thanks.

Eric

Nope, only let my wife watch

It's physically pleasurable for me to cum, but i like OTHER men who like to control my orgasm and either keep my horny and just short of cumming or giving me a ruined orgasm. What i really like is a Man who gets me to a place where His orgasm is mine.

Have had my cousin watch me and once or twice and it’s fun knowing he’s watching me to the end

Yes. Very much. I don't enjoy intimacy or even touching with men, but I do love being watched by them. My biggest fantasy is to be watched by two guys at once, or more, women welcome too.

Yes ,being watched adds to the embarrassment of being seen naked ,and completely under control of your masturbator and other men watching or helping to enhance your impending orgasm!

No. Just my wife.

I love being watched and shown off. A lot of that has to do with why I love exams so much. Im glad to show off ejaculating as much as during an exam.

In principle, I don't have a problem with this and enjoy it as part of the feeling of complete exposure, typically at the culmination of a play exam (sometimes combined with BDSM) session where I am either required to produce an ejaculation on my own, or where the playdoc "extracts" it from me using methods of his own choosing. I really enjoy exams that gradually build a feeling of vulnerability, loss of control, and exposure, and a forced or at least observed semen sample puts a really satisfying exclamation point on that arc.

But the one thing that complicates it for me is that I'm very much the opposite of a "big shooter". I've always assumed that this is related to a genetic condition that I have which causes male infertility. There's no sexual dysfunction, but sometimes there's not much ejaculate while other times it's almost a normal amount. At least once during a BDSM session that involved long edging with a lot of lube, the dom didn't even notice that I had finished, and I had to tell him, which was pretty embarrassing. I've also had to explain this in play exams as well: yeah, actually, that was it, just a few drops. It's a bit of an anticlimax from the perspective of the guy watching, though for me it feels the same whether there's a lot or a little.

I'm neutral about other men seeing me cum, but a woman has to be the person making me cum.

I not only enjoy watching another guy or woman cum, but also HEARING them orgasm is a great thrill. Hearing them orgasm usually makes me cum even quicker! I LOVE feeling another guy's penis pulsating between my fingers, or in my mouth as they are cumming. When a woman orgasms, I love to hear her moans of ecstasy and feel squirts of her vaginal fluids, whatever they may be! As I've gotten older, I enjoy helping/watching/hearing/feeling others orgasm as much (if not more) than my own orgasm!

I was caught masturbating once by a homeless man. I was in my truck, waiting at a signal when he approached me. He just stared. It made me ejaculate. Now, I try to get "caught" if I'm in a semi private place.

Definitely! I love to have others, male and female watch me cum/ejaculate and watch others. Would love to find more partners into this. In addition to watching, the sighs, moans, shouts of pleasure and seeing the facial expressions on their faves is so exciting. If doing it along with oral, the smell and taste of the results is just so wonderful and leads to a more pleasurable climax for me.

Nope. Not at all. No thanks.

Eric

No. Just my wife (or GF).

Right. Still the same now. I had said no thanks for any other men, and then member dgh completed the point by adding his/my wife (or GF). I agree. Obviously, my 2 ex-wives and a few prior GFs watched me many times, frequently helping in the process, which we both enjoyed. I have no exhibitionist tendencies, but I certainly shared and enjoyed both my and my partner's orgasms being watched. I'm divorced and single, but if I find another lover, GF or wife I'll enjoy being helped and watched by her again.

I've never understood and never will, men enjoying or seeking out circle jerks or similar viewing venues for masturbation, but for those who enjoy it, I'm not standing in their way. I'm a very straight sexually enthusiastic male switch. I just don't do men.

Now thinking about this for awhile another scenario did occur to me, though still not men. As I said before, I've never been an exhibitionist or sought out others to join my partner/wife and I in our sexuality, except perhaps for one fantasy I've had many times. I'm a switch and really enjoy taking large long enemas from my switch/Domme partner as her sub. If my wife or partner had ever said she had one or more friends who like she and I, are switches or perhaps Dommes and would enjoy joining us in giving me an enema with me as sub, that would be erotic and great. However, this is only true assuming that her friends were a) sincere in enjoying Domme-ing me, and b) just as confidential and trustworthy as my partner, I would actually enjoy that and find it extremely erotic. The key is not only enthusiasm but absolute trust in their confidentiality. But still no men, just her women friends.

As a fantasy, I've envisioned this above scenario uniquely linked to my own kinks of rubber suits, sneakers and enemas and my love of SCUBA diving. It would occur on a chartered SCUBA diving boat off southern CA where IRL I've dived many times. My wife/GF and her selected switch/Domme friends would come on the boat with us for a weekend or several day dive trip and act as my collective Dommes to assist and enjoy my GF being dominant to my sub. More details on request.

Eric

There is a webcam site called dirty roulette. It is primarily guys jacking off. I have watched other men cum and been watched as I came. Sometimes it is almost simultaneous. It is one on one. My wife has lost all interest in sex so it is a god release for me.

As a teen a cousin and i would go into a garage and watch each other jerk off and it was exciting. Several times we went into woods near their home and would urinate into a stream that flowed there and then masturbate facing each other occasionally touching each others penis which would bring on instant ejaculation between us. We hadnt been in puberty but a short tenure and i recall it being very awesome and adventurous both being maturing boy youths.

Yes. Been doing it a long time. Me and a friend did as a teen and I've been doing it online as an adult a long time.

I'm a straight guy but, depending on who the guy is, I might let him watch. But it's much more fun to have someone else make you cum, though I don't normally do this, I just might. I'd probably rather watch a man cum than have him watch me, not because I like watching men it's that I think's it's naughty. But if some guy asked me to cum in front of him I just might do it.

Yes when I was about 13 my best friend use to watch me and I would watch him. Then he started to give me a hand job till I would cum for him then I would give him head till he came in my mouth. I kinda miss it.

When I was in the seventh grade, I had one friend who was not in my same social group, that I hung out with sometimes. I had known him since the sixth grade and had a,ways had a physical attraction to him. He was unathletic, and a bit on the effeminate side, and I always suspected he had a homosexual orientation. One afternoon after school, we were over at his house and, as often was the case, no one e,we was home. He asked me if I would let him see my penis, and I agreed with the provision that he show his to me. I went first, stood up, took down my pants and briefs, and my penis sprung out. He did not just look, but reached out and started feeling the shaft and balls. He started to stroke the shaft and it was obvious he intended to jerk me off. I really wanted him to, but I wanted to see his penis, so, I pulled away from him and told him to take his pants down. He reluctantly took down his pants and briefs, which were a kind of nerdy, old men’s style of Jockeys, and out came an uncircumcised, very mature looking penis with slightly more of a pubic bush than I had developed. This was the first time I had seen a penis with a foreskin and I insisted on retracting the foreskin to see how it looked underneath. Once I had a look, I lay back across his bed and told him to resume the handjob he had started. It took less than a minute to shoot a big load of semen across my chest and abdomen. He enjoyed doing it and I was hooked on coming in front of another guy. He and I got together after school many times during that seventh grade year for him to beat me off.

I love having other men watch me cum (and vice versa).

In college, I had a straight buddy I would masturbate with occasionally. We had seen each other flaccid once or twice before. One night, we were hanging out on my bed in our boxers, one thing led to another and we started watching porn. I got an erection, and pulled my boxers down to mid thigh to show him. He thought I had a huge penis (6.5", but was bigger than his). He stood up on the other side of the bed, looking at it, and commenting. Then, he got back on the bed, slipped his boxers off, and started lubing up his penis with some vaseline. We both masturbated together, and it was the first time that another guy saw me cum. Over the next year or so, we jo together pretty frequently, always watching porn and looking over to each other and commenting. We moved away, stayed in distant contact, and then about 9 years after were hanging out together again and ended up having a super hot jo session.