How can you tell if she wants an enema?

A lady nurse friend that I know has Health issues with mold. She has been to the doctor and has been prescribed to take medicine She has mentioned several times to me in the same conversation that constipation is an issue with the medicine . Do you think that she is suggesting to me that I asked to give her an enema ? Or do you think she is interested in getting an enema? She is a nurse and has given enemas to many people. Also what I offend her if I mentioned that I would give her an enema .

Have you asked? That might be a start.

Skeet , she is a nurse, she knows exactly what to do and how to do it . I think its a hint on her part but just to play it cool ? you could suggest that you would be happy to assist her with that problem .

Like jds4med said, try asking. You risk making her mad, but if she's brought the subject up several times, she's probably beginning to think you are either enema-unfriendly, or just dumb as a post.

Ask her if they ever do enemas anymore or her line of work. That should get a response as to what she thinks of them.............

Thank you for your responses . I am considerably older than her. she looks at me like her father. that's what gives me the idea that she might be interested . I have offered before but not to a great extent. At this moment I'm trying to decide whether to press the issue or not like buying equipment setting aside time etc. do you have any other comments ??

I know you think I'm naïve and I've given plenty of enemas before two ladies but it was obvious what they wanted. I just don't want her to think negative about the situation

Skeet,

I think if you sit her down somewhere where you have privacy, take her hand, look her in the eye, and say you are concerned about her, and because you are concerned about her and care about her you want to ask her a personal question that might be embarrassing. Is it okay with her, if you ask. She will most likely say yes. Say, she's mentioned several times about her new medication making her constipated. She's also seemed to not feel very well. As she may or may not know, an enema or two might help with that problem. She also may or may not know that you are a very experienced enema giver, and you'd be happy to help you with this ongoing problem if she'd allow you.

You think the world of her and would never want to upset or embarrass her but are very concerned about her and want to help. Your knowledge and experience with enemas leads you to think that getting one would help immensely and having them regularly would help prevent her constipation problem. You might even mention she's like a daughter to you and this is what you would do for your daughter if she was having the same problem.

If she is truly angling to for you to give her an enema, she will jump at the chance to either get one, or to talk about it. You can also let her know if she's too embarrassed to get one from you due to your friendship, you'd be happy to find an enema clinic to administer one to her. However, you think she'd be better off in your care. You can point out that if something happens the next day or later, she can always come to you for help and advice. That is actually a pretty big item for a newbie.

I say this because I reached out via PM to another member who was a colon therapist when I had some problems after receiving an colonic at a clinic. He was able to alleviate my concerns and let me know what was happening.

Let her know you care and want what is best for her and you are there for her no matter what. If she says no, you can say that's fine. If she changes her mind she can always come to you anytime. You are there for her. Trust me, she will be very touched at your willingness to approach the topic with her and your evident care.

If nothing else, it may plant the seed in her mind.

Crossing my fingers for you.

Sweet kisser

What a thoughtful, considered response. You expressed it so well and the advice was excellent.

Do it in a joking manner. If she recoils in horror, you have an escape. If she acts interested, you just hit a homerun.

@TheRoyalFlush

I have to disagree, do NOT do it in a joking manner. If you do, she will NOT take you up on it. She'll think you were kidding and wish she'd never brought it up. Men bringing up things in a joking manner completely turns me off. For me, it tells me they cannot handle a serious conversation or topic, and there isn't any way in H*LL I'm going to trust him on any level. I know some men kid each other and then will ask for help, but when you are dealing with touchy subjects, for many women, making a joke out of it makes us feel stupid for every trusting you enough to bring it up.

It pretty much guarantees we won't every fully trust you. Being open and honest with us, gets you a lot more mileage and even if we don't take you up on the offer then, we may come back to talk with you and take you up on it later after we've had time to think about it. Make a joke out of it and H*LL will freeze over before we ever go to you again.

Just my two cents...okay, maybe five

And yes, this is a sore subject with me.

I AGREE ASK HER PERMISSION TO APPROACH THE SUBJECT , she is a trained professional and it would seem she has some level of trust breeching that trust would be a huge mistake talk as a responsible knowledgeable adult that is concerned and willing to help if it goes sexual good for you talk to her intelligence not at it

Well I have brought it up over a dinner date WTF I’m paying for dinner. Some have talked with me about it one did go with it . Some look at you like your crazy and I am some see it as perverted and guilty on the charge to. I’m sixty four

and have no time to waste for vanilla relationships that will go nowhere so I have step up my game. My house is paid for the rental is paid for and I own a interior design business that’s been family owned 51 years. I want shared interest and having fun doing it with someone as into it as me. I never bring up my assets when dating and will say I’m in interior design but leave it at that. I want you into to me not my possessions. I chat with people here but no one here in Colorado so I keep turning over rocks so to speak.....There out there just need to find her ! Oh and some ask if I’m gay Because of my profession or my enema use very quick to judge you . I have written here that my wife’s college roommates played with us in other post and yes her husband would join in to ,so I am bi

How can you tell if she wants an enema?

Get all the enema materials set up and tell her she is getting an enema.

If she readily accepts it, she wants it.

If she resists, she doesn't.

Very simple! 😁 😁 😁 😁

It is the same for men.

SS you got balls the size of watermelons the nurse comes slipping out at times !

I would ask if she would care to watch a fetish video and see if leads to an open and relaxed conversation especially if she takes lead in the points of the conversation my approach then would be to insure the clit stimulation took her to a couple of orgasms before I started lubrication and stimulate with the nozzle after insertion in and out side rotate to maintain her and the clit thing trust me its a winner help her want the next one

thanks HIGGINSBULB

After months of discussion of my kinks during courtship, my switch ex-wife was delighted to enjoy all my kinks with me, This consisted largely of her being Domme and giving me enemas mixed with our other kinks. A few months after the wedding, she spontaneously told me that her deepest sexual secret was for her husband to give her enemas for sex. As you might rxpect, I was very happy to do so, usually switching roles and my giving them to her as my sub.

So in my case, it was easy. She beat me to the punch! Since she liked sharing all of my kinks with me, I would have guessed she might like enemas too, but hadn't gotten around to asking her by then.

Eric

If you know her well, kindly ask her if she'd mind you asking her a personal question, usually they'll at least let you ask... She shouldn't get upset after that point, she's given you permission, she still feels in control and has dignity.. Approach with kindness and seriously, don't make jokes or make her feel like you take her situation as a joke... It very well honestly is a hint, but she's also testng the waters to see how you react and if that's an subject she really can trust you on... I've given many enemas to girl friends and even a few lady friends that I haven't slept with... They want to know they can trust you to treat them kindly, keep your mouth shut and tell anyone and allow them to be vulnerable with you... Giving an enema is an intimate experience regardless of it being medically driven or sexual... It's a show of trust in the person their literally showing a whole different side to, one of vulnerability, intimacy, arousal, humiliation, embarrassment are all possible outcomes. Show you're empathetic and you genuinely care... She'll be more likely to show you she's willing to be submissive to your tender offer to help her. Good luck