What makes you so sure of being only a DL and not also an AB?

When I had to return to diapers due to being diabetic at 1st the male ego was really bad the stigma was at the top.I slowly adjusted and feel good and secure in them but no ab.

Because diapers aren't an option they are required,DL is a coping tesource

To much of my life is toddler like I have an aide that cares for me ,and I don't enjoy lilatations like crapping like a toddler ,not being able to get up if I fall,being stuck wherever I am when not in my chair, etc

Using sippy cups so they don't break or spill stuff when dropped, I don't need restraints and mental work to feel childish.,that's were my life is taking me,day by day I lose adult functioning and become more dependant on others.

I was a DL before becoming incontinent due to Covid. No interest in AB.

I subscribe to the spectrum theory when it comes to our sexuality and kinks. i can see this question fitting onto that spectrum, and being more fluid (so to speak) with some than with others.

i've not worn diapers as an adult, but have flirted with it with a few Guys. For me, it's the control and connection between me and the Man who wants that control that appeals to me. The diaper would be a connecting/controlling tool He could use. As with all kinks, it remains a mystery to me why i have some and not others? It's never a question of me responding to a Mans desire. for me, we have to have similar desire.

On my own, i cannot imagine or conjure feelings of AB, but i cannot honestly say "never." A few years ago i experienced being regressed to "boy" and it was one of the most profound experiences/connections i have every had with a Man. i didn't know it was going to happen, and i didn't realize what had happened till afterwards and i had processed.

i do see a difference between being regressed to a boy vs AB in that i was a lot more cognitively developed as a boy than as a baby. i cannot remember much past the age of 5, so to me AB would be more pretend, and i'm only interested in 'real.' But i don't rule it out. i'd have never imagined i could be regressed to "boy" prior to it happening.

For many years after I was finished with college and on my own, I thought of myself as exclusively a DL, in fact for most of those years before the internet I had never heard of DL, only that I liked to wear diapers and rubber pants and wet and mess in them. I knew I wasn't alone and other guys did the same. Had no idea girls did too. I knew I shouldn't be doing that, even though I'd wet my bed well into my teens, wore diapers and rubber pants for that and my family was very supportive rather than critical. I felt more than a little ashamed about my fetish and knew I had a strong sexual attraction to having diapers on, wetting, even pooping in them, and then playing with myself, humping my diaper covered crotch, going to adult movies in diapers and getting aroused while going potty. I stated playing with myself around age 13 after my mom had wiped and powdered me and pinned my diapers on for the night and for many years my only sexual outlet came when wearing diapers. Once I was on my own I loved walking about around other folks, shopping, waiting in lines to buy things always secretly wearing diapers and going potty, getting them wet, even messy. I went to adult movies wearing diapers and wetting and messing myself, rubbing my crotch. Because I wore diapers so secretly and not often I planned weekends in advance where I could spend the entire weekend wearing diapers. I longed to meet women who would let me wear diapers but was so afraid of what she'd say when she found out. But all of this time I never thought of myself as an AB or someone who wanted to regress to my childhood.

Something began to change around 50 however. I found myself looking at baby diaper pins with animal heads for example, and pinned my diapers with them. I went to a baby store and found infant wrapping blankets in cute colors and baby patterns that I could use as diapers(before I found ABDL prefolds on internet sites). I started getting massages wearing diapers and rubber pants that I had wet in, and having them changed by the girl who was massaging me. And then I started sucking my thumb after she had taken my wet diapers off and massaged me. Next I asked her to nurse me and I found I loved to be nursed while wearing diapers. Later of course I found a couple of girls who were lactating and who breastfed me while I was diapered and then let them change me. Without thinking about it I was slowly growing to enjoy the AB side of things. Eventually I bought a couple of baby bottles and formula and started to feed a bottle to myself while in diapers and rubber pants. It was during this phase that I started to meet girls, date and tell them about my diaper lifestyle and how important it was to me. I did finally meet my now wife, we've been together for 12 years and I've been in diapers and rubber pants since. My wife changes me, nurses me, lets me use a paci or suck my thumb when I want to but in all other respects we have an adult relationship, do adult things. We have had many conversations about my diaper needs, my desire to be mothered at times, even dominated. She had told a few friends and I've talked with them as well. I now believe that I have always had an AB side to my fetish, but the DL side is more prominent. I think I could give all the rest up as long as I can continue to wear diapers and rubber pants, wet them always and mess once in a while.

I've always liked wearing diapers and plastic panties since I can remember. They have always been a turn on for me.

I eventually liked the idea of being made to wear diapers and plastic panties, but that isn't always necessary.

Doing the AB thing just doesn't do it for me.

I like it all for pleasure.

I love the crinkly plastic of disposable diapers and how they feel, and love plastic panties and how they feel. Cloth diapers can be fun too!

I like cumming in them, and once in a while, wetting them. I don't want any more than that.

It's not in your mind. It's in your feelings and emotions! What makes you feel good. What you feel comfortable with. What stimulates you. Feelings and emotions override your mind every time.