Percent of time with YOUR SAME SEX

1 ----- What is the approximate percentage of time you have sex with YOUR SAME SEX?

2 a --- If HETEROFLEXIBLE OR BISEXUAL, would you like MORE encounters with your SAME sex or is the frequency about right for you?

2 b --- If HOMOFLEXIBLE, would you like MORE encounters with the OPPOSITE sex or is the frequency about right for you?

I am bisexual and find myself equally attracted to both men and women (50/50)

However, I have about 60-70% male partners, and 30-40% female partners.

This is mainly due to availability, since I find myself approached by at least double or triple the number of men than women, so of course I find attractive straight/bi men more easily than I do bi/lesbian women. Having said that, I am not at all complaining about having more sex with men than women, and I'm not sure if I would like to change my current ratio.

Because of the lower number of gay women than straight men, I feel I would have to lower my standards to increase the number of women I have sex with, which I do not plan on doing. If you know me, you know I'm not the type to 'settle' out of desperation. I don't have to, so why on earth would I?!

In a hypothetical world in which there WAS an equal number of gay women and straight men, with enough attractive (both physically and personality-wise) members of both, I would like to spend 50% of my time with both. But that's never going to happen, so I'm perfectly happy as I am!

That was a great answer. Thank you!

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I am heteroflexible. I am more sexually attracted to men than women. I'll post my "statistics".

I am with women about 1-2% of the time. 98% is with my husband. 2-3 times a year I play with one of two women with whom I have developed long lasting relationships. This is separate from S&M parties we attend once or twice a year that is really different from and not a specifically a sexual relationship with a woman or man. The relationship I have with these two women goes far beyond having sex with them. We would be close friends even without the sex and sometimes we don't have sex when we see each other. We truly care about each other and have for many years. We have no jealousy about each other's relationships and we are on solid ground because we don't do it secretly. One of the women is a lesbian and the other is 99% hetero/heteroflexible like I am.

My husband knows and allows me this freedom. I love the closeness these women and I share. The topics of conversation, hugging, caressing, kissing, oral sex, masturbation, nurturing and overall playing with each other's bodies is wonderful. It makes us smile, feel warm and cared for, but sometimes sad if an unhappy topic is necessary to discuss. There is something very tender about discussing something important while naked and holding your good friend.

In many ways it's like the play, "Same Time Next Year."

I never had a threesome with either woman and my husband. We three women never had a threesome together, and we have no desire to do so.

If I were never to play with a woman again, I would miss it but would be OK because from a pure sexual standpoint, I prefer sex with men. It's just different with another woman, especially when they are a life-long friend.

The amount of sex I have with women is all right for me.

I identified as 'heteroflexible'. I'm female and have has sexual relationships with 2 women. I'm currently in a monogamous relationship with a man and happy to be there. My sexual experience to date has been 90% heterosexual (there I just gave you my 'number'). I still find women attractive and don't rule out anything for the future, but neither am I planning or even anticipating anything either and if I never do I'm fine with that - if that makes any sense. From a porn perspective I like naked men a tad more than I like naked women but it's pretty close. Women's bodies are beautiful. I like 'women in peril' scenes vs women dominating men but I think that's because I identify as sub. I'm fine with girl/girl femdom.

I widened the scope of the survey to get more responses.

When in the appropriate situation -

With the same sex, maybe 5% with limits.

I'm heteroflexible. Emotionally, I'm attracted to women. Sexually, mostly women buy there are things that I do - and won't do - with men. There's very little sexually that I won't do with the right woman..

1 ----- What is the approximate percentage of time you have sex with YOUR SAME SEX? 100% now.

2 a --- If HETEROFLEXIBLE OR BISEXUAL, would you like MORE encounters with your SAME sex or is the frequency about right for you? When I was bi I was just hiding the fact that I preferred women over men. I guess I was doing it to protect my family because I grew up in a small town where everyone knows everyone. Back then they were all set in old ways. I say back then it actually hasn't been that long. I made myself sound a lot older than I am. I am in my mid 30's. But, I swear when I was growing up you kept it hidden. If two men were seen kissing it would be the talk of the town and if two women were seen kissing OMG it was worse. For us women you were considered gross not allowed to teach or anything. You would have to move to another town if you wanted to be yourself. My sister and I both were bi but like I said we kept it a secret. She had a harder time than me because she got married. I just dated with the same guy from middle school into college. We broke up a few times and I knew I preferred women. I tried to date another man once just to make sure it wasn't just the guy I had been dating for years. I was always wishing I had more women back then. Once I was in college that changed every time we broke up I would be with women. Lipstick mind you. Then when I caught my ex fiancée with my ex best friend that sort of sealed the deal. My sister on the other hand married and stayed in our home town. Finally her husband became over powering and super jealous. She could not do anything with her friends. She ended up filing for divorce. While that was going on she would come down here on weekends. He trusted me. Little did he know. Now she has a live in girlfriend and they both live here with me.

2 b --- If HOMOFLEXIBLE, would you like MORE encounters with the OPPOSITE sex or is the frequency about right for you? Mine is right.

Sexually speaking the percent I spend with the same sex is 0, which is exactly how I want it.

When I am at work as little as possible.

Please do not misunderstand me, I have no problem or issue with any type or kind of sex or relationships that anyone desires. Do whatever makes you happy, life is too short not to. I just don't really like dealing with women period.

Both of my best friends are women so when I am not at work or in bed,but just in a casual setting or what not I have no problem with women.

Mashie

At this point in time of my life, the answer is zero.

For the last 3 years, it has been my good fortune to have a "special friend" to which we enjoyed our company together immensely, a woman my age, she living in another state and us separated by about a hundred miles. About once a month, we were able to spend the night together, perhaps a whole weekend and several times 3 or 4 days.

About 6 months ago, she had a bad string of luck which dictated that she work the weekend shift in order to earn more money. Thus our time together came to an abrupt end but hopefully better times are coming.

The past year I have spent about 80% of sexual time with my same sex-men. I love being with men but I wish the percentages were reversed. Although anal sex with a man with me receiving is fantastic.

I have come to the point where I prefer women. I am shy when it comes to approaching them, though. My past experiences with women, the women came to me.