Role play examination. Male or female play doctor?

Only the idea of a female doctor does anything for me. I would go without rather than play with a male doctor.

My doctor would be a strict but caring male, preferably in his 40s or older.

Only female…no exception…

In my case either would be nice I had a real life experience years ago when a young female Dr. give me a prostrate exam and seemed to enjoy it very much and so did I.

Male or female playdoc for me. I find it intense with either. That said actually finding a female play doc is virtually impossible.

Yes I have a preference for a female play doc . However most of my experiences thus far a with male play docs. It is more embarrassing having the doc remove my briefs at the start of the exam . Leaving me naked with an erection before his exams starts.

I identify as bisexual, but I feel I can relate to this post still. I personally haven't had a preference for play doctor gender in a number of years.

I was initially pursuing female play docs as a 20 year old new to med-fet and closeted about having attractions to men. Given the smaller pool of female play partners, I ended up meeting with a male play doctor after my first exam (interestingly with a female) didn't quite go the way I thought it would. I had also built up a lot of anxiety around meeting a guy who was sexually into the same stuff I was. However, it proved to be a great experience. Granted, I had a lot of difficulty with processing that first time allowing another man to sexually stimulate me, but eventually I made peace with it and pursued meeting with male play docs.

I think a big thing to keep in mind is that fetishism is not the same as sexual orientation. You can be a heterosexual male or female and find sexual gratification in fetish play for its own sake, and the gender of the partner is secondary to the fetish activity. Just as sexual attraction and romantic attraction are two separate identities, who you engage in fetish play with and how you see yourself can be separate things too.

My preference is definitely for a female play doc. Up until a couple of months ago, it was all just pure fantasy. Late last summer I took a risk and was invited to participate in a CFNM party as a waiter/server (masked & nude). Since then, I have grown more adventurous and although I backed out of one CFNM event, I have since made connections in the local kink community and have become a partner sub to a dominatrix & friend. She and her other, fulltime sub (also female) have had me over for many adventures, including two appointments where they are my play doc & nurse. So my only play appointment experience has been with these two women, and it has been fantastic.

We've had many other experiences and events not related to medfet play, and several have included other members/ couples in the local kink/BDSM community.

While my comfort with the whole thing is growing, I'm not sure how I'd feel about a male play doc doing an exam without my dominatrix or her "senior sub" present. (Liza, the "senior sub" has been together with Karen, the mistress, as a couple for many years. They used to switch, but they told me that it really got awkward, so they brought me in as "the junior sub." Sometimes, Liza and I are equal as subs, and sometimes I am Liza's sub under Karen's supervision and direction, although I am only involved with them a couple of times a month. Seems to work out for all involved.)

My doctor would be a domineering, demanding and strict man, preferably in his 50s

As a straight male, I would prefer a female doctor to examine me in a role-play scenario. Like others I’ve mentioned since they are a few and far between a male patient or doctor would be totally fine as well.

It really depends on what I’m looking for. I’m straight so I’m happy to play with women but I tend To be the doctor in those situations. If I’m looking specifically for a “doctor” I actually prefer a male doctor as that is more in line with what I had Growing up and seems more realistic for me.

So to answer the initial question, yes I find Seeing a male doctor more embarrassing and awkward but those things are part of what makes medical play exciting.

If I am the doctor, the sexual gender of the patients is indifferent to me. Even when I am in the role of patient, the doctor can be male or female.

A fantasy of mine, still unrealized, is to meet two male and female doctors and be examined by both at the same time.

While acting as a doctor I was lucky enough to be able to visit a husband and wife couple.

I have no preference. Most of my play doctors have been male. For me the humiliation aspect adds to the scene. Male doctors also touch a penis differently and often times add a different dynamic because they knownwhat you're feeling and going through. Female doctors are great as well and oftentimes a little gentler and more sensual vs realistic in my experience.

I always prefer that both my real doctor and play doctor are female. Although I am straight and have had real male doctors over the years, nothing compares to the nurturing and more detailed exams that a female doctor will usually provide. I find the dynamic between male doc/female patient and vice versa to be very thrilling.

My real doctor is female and I did have quite a lot of exams from female doctors during the ages of 14-18 and 21. As those exams had both to do with my development and military services they were quite intense to me. I therefore also prefer to have a female playdoc who does similar complete and all including exams.

As a big part of exams also is about psychology, I don’t know and also don’t think that being examined by a male doctor will induce the same reactions … I might be completely wrong there but I haven’t had that experience yet.

Although I respect women as doctors, I still prefer a male doctor. He is more empathetic, knows what it's all about and how to deal with it. Embarrassing situations are minimized by this.

My real life doctor is female but I honestly prefer a male play doc. I’m not sure why exactly