I had to compress the title a bit, but you get the idea. Like many people I have a few kinks but many others hold absolutely no appeal for me. I just read the thread about how a kink might be formed in the first place. I THINK the answer to my question may be contained in the suggestions as to the formation, (i.e. in the actual early experiences that result in our kinks.) I do understand the appeal of these other kinks but I cannot visualize myself experimenting. Kinks, therefore seem quite "specific".I consider myself a tolerant, broadminded, and openminded individual, so I'm a bit surprised that a lot of the material on here interests me, but doesn't tempt me.