Help for producing an erection

Sometimes, it happens that a suitable erection does not come; or maybe it was there, but something happened, such as a knock on the door.

In these cases, a decided sex partner may try some tricks to prop the willy back in working order.

What does your partner do to you, or what do you do to your partner, in these cases?

My wife, if the usual caresses on the body and the hand masturbation of the penis don't work enough, may try smacking me lightly on the buttocks, tickling my perineum and tickling my anus, even penetrating it.

I find it deliciously embarrassing to see my penis becoming erect while my wife tickles my backside.

It doesn't happen often, but when it does, I've always had luck with my perineum getting rubbed hard, or having my dick held at the base and kind of whipped around

Yes, please everyone, male or female or trans or anyone, contribute your ideas, as I really need help with serious ED from medication. Thanks.

Eric

I can tell you what helps get me boned up. When i put on certain jockstraps, a "viagra effect" takes over. The way the pouch cradles my genitals, the way the straps grip and frame my ass, jockstraps cause me to sport pretty good bulges.

Either that, or perhaps another type of sexy garment can help.

Then there's always mental imagery or how mental scenarios can excite you enough. When the masseuise paraded me out of the room toward another room to show me off in my jockstrap, that made me bone up too, knowing i was on display.

Then of course, there is that light, sensual caressing. Softly having someone's fingers, or even long hair, sweep over your whole body at varying speeds while you lie face down, occasionally reaching underneath.

So you can experiment with touch, with clothing, what turns you on mentally, whether you can imagine or try to live the experience. These are all things that can help.

I never had much luck getting it back after losing it to an interruption. Best trick was not to let things get interrupted. You can ignore a ringing phone or doorbell. It only happened a couple times, but the fastest erection killer I encountered was a leg cramp, mine not hers.

Quincy: We have children. There is nothing more de-exciting than a cry coming from a child's bedroom. Sometimes it needs urgent help, sometimes it's just a bad dream...

Yes, ignoring knocks on door and phone calls is a good method but the mere knocking or ringing is de-exciting...

JTMac,

Thanks for your post. I already did most of that, but it's good to see a different angle on some things. It's fantastic what light fingertip touch (or hair as you say) strokes over your skin or especially scrotum can do to help an erection work.

Eric

Having children in the house who need attention is a challenge, and so are teenagers. Seems they know what is going on. Best to put them to bed at 8 so by 10 they are settled and in deep sleep. Works for me anyway.

Having children in the house who need attention is a challenge, and so are teenagers. Seems they know what is going on. Best to put them to bed at 8 so by 10 they are settled and in deep sleep. Works for me anyway.

Put kids to bed at 8 so they are sleeping by 10 ???

That's never going to happen. No kid goes to bed at 8, especially any kid over 6-7 years old. My daughters kept their own bedtimes and they always went to bed late. They turned out wonderfully.

When I was a teenager, I always watched the late night TV shows and didn't go to bed until well after 1 AM, and then I masturbated for half an hour or gave myself enemas. I usually went to bed after my parents.

When I want my husband to have an erection, I tell him to get hard and to do it NOW. 15 seconds later, he's in me.

If my husband loses his erection or it gets a little soft, I will try a little light caressing, and run my finger around the base of his head. The one that doesn't wear sunglasses.

Kissing him on the neck works, and just running the tips of my fingernails up and down his body will also sometimes bring back the dead. If that doesn't work, I will put him in my mouth and suck him until either his eyes cross or he gets hard. He says that I could, "Suck start a Harley!"

He's right. I'm not bragging, it's just a fact.

A couple things here - when I started getting to "that" age I started using some hair tying bands as cock rings. I'd stretch 2 or 3 under my balls and over my dick. The tension trapped blood and tickled my nuts during sex. It's great!

During mastubation, sometimes I'd put my wife's vibrating egg wire through those bands and they would hold the egg right under my balls - Wow! Maybe you can do that set up before intercourse.

The best thing however, is to see your doctor and check your testosterone level. I did and I don't have a problem whatsoever. Good Luck ?

After finding the side effects from oral ED meds a bit offputting I got a prescription for injectable Alprostadil.

OK, you do need to inject it deeply in to the shaft of the penis, but wow, a 3 hour rock hard erection every time?

Hard to beat that, so to speak ....

The needle is very thin and can honestly say I hardly feel it going in. Takes full effect in a couple of minutes, so never miss the moment ...

Dreece,

What oral anti-ED meds did you take before alprostadil injections?

Thanks,

Eric

Does anyone have any experience using a Hitachi Magic Wand (or other vibrator - specify) to help them get or keep erections? I have only small bullet vibrators, but I haven't used them specifically to help my ED problems, which maybe I should. If your vibrator (of any size) helps you with ED, please tell me where (shaft, balls, tip.........) and how. I'm looking for anything to help with an (antidepressant medication-induced) ED erection.

Thanks,

Eric

WALK 2 MILES A Day and you will likely have good results.

Lzrd,

Thanks. I'll try it.

Eric

Lzrd,

So, the more exercise the better the erection? Serious question.

Thanks,

Eric