Does my fantasy make me a horrible person?

One of my biggest fantasies is to watch someone get their temperature taken, rectally and unwillingly, unstaged and real. Outside this group a good majority rectal temps are not very welcome, and is often something that has to be done. I'm feeling very guilt stricken for having this fantasy, and I would like it to go away. But alas, this is futile. Anyone having this same fantasy?

I don't think ANY fantasy makes you a bad person. Only if you were to act out something nonconsensual like that would that make you a bad person.

Not alone in that one in any way at least when in the company of med fet friendly folks. Never know, someone might be happy to invite you to watch.

I've always wondered if such fantasies alone makes one a bad person, I sincerely hope this not to be the case. And I appreciate the responses.

RTDude, there is absolutely NOTHING wrong with you or your fantasy so take a deep breath and relax. You are not a bad person, a sick person, mentally special, or anything else.

I greatly appreciate you sharing your fantasy with us and asking the hard question of yourself. I'm a huge believer in that just so you know. You might want to do a search on the word fantasy and see what comes up. I believe you will find many threads along the same lines of yours and you will probably find that what you are feeling is normal and that you are not alone.

Now, on a personal note, the next time I am really sick and Doc comes at me with a thermometer that I know isn't going in my mouth I will give you a call because even though I love them when I am playing and feeling well....Ha, when I am sick I am a whole different animal and you would have your fantasy fulfilled, lol. Trust me. I argue for the first ten minutes until I know he's getting pissed and is about to call for help, then I bitch the entire time it's being taken, and then I probably bitch after it's done to, lol.

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Mashie

That is very good to hear, I have been feeling like quite the oddball for having such fantasies.

And I would love to see that! Should you want to see a lot of good RT content, then my xhamster profile is full of original content 😃

Fantasies can be very healthy experiences since they let us enjoy things we couldn't or wouldn't want to do in real life. The only danger is when fantasies that shouldn't be acted out ARE acted out.

It sounds like you're keeping your fantasy just that, a fantasy. There is nothing wrong with the thoughts you have. However, if you are troubled by your thoughts, you also have authority over your fantasies and can change them or eliminate them entirely.

First off I'd be lying if I said I didn't sometimes have a similar fantasy. But as many people have said, fantasies are just creative outlets for arousal and even if they feel wrong, they don't reflect on you as a person beyond what you find sexy.

I find lots of things sexy but I don't blur the line between life and fantasy unless I've got explicit consent. That makes all the difference no matter your particular loves.

(I'd peep on you if I knew you were OK with it)

Well, there are some things that I find arousing, but that I then find disgusting when they were applied to real unwilling people. Like virginity checks forced on teenage girls.

As someone who really dislikes anything forced or done without consent, I guess a fantasy as long as you wont act on it is fine. We all have them, some unrealistic.

Well, there are some things that I find arousing, but that I then find disgusting when they were applied to real unwilling people. Like virginity checks forced on teenage girls.

Yea, acting on such things is always disgusting and thankfully in most western countries highly illegal.

Most medical fetish fantasies center around the patient ceding control and the doctor impessing his will. The exposure and touching are only secondary elements; whereas, they are the focal point of most erotic fantasies. You must come to terms with your desire to assume the dominant role in your fantasies.

In a word, no.

No, you're one of the gang who has been blessed with this pleasure.

If such fantasies make me a horrible person, I plead guilty. My fantasies are so wild that I'm not brave enough to share them here. Almost all of them tend toward non-consensual acts which, in real life, would push the boundaries of sane behavior. In real life, I would (probably) run screaming.

Sallyxx. . .Love the way you think, as I don't publish my fantasies here, for the same reasons!! 😉 However, as long as they ARE fantasies, that surely does-not make us a bad person!! Like Opie, told his dad (Andy Griffith), when his dad was explaining something to him, "Yeah, I, see. . .Have a pretty good 'magination, Pa!! " 😃 Mike & Kid.

Well, I'm glad I'm not alone. Has anyone here ever been witness to such?

A lot of non-erotic fiction discusses behaviors that are morally dubious, and often illegal, but that does not prevent people from liking books or films. It's just fantasy.

A lot of non-erotic fiction discusses behaviors that are morally dubious, and often illegal, but that does not prevent people from liking books or films. It's just fantasy.

My wife wouldn't read a book unless it was about murder, serial killers or murder investigations. Most other crimes didn't cut it with her either. It had to be murder.

So what to make of that? Nothing at all. Just part of her personality.

I have lots of odd fantasys key is I play out the postive ones.Some things are just left for fantasy only.

I think you can safely include rectal temps into bdsm play though.

I think honestly this is how a lot of rectally temps are taken in real life, unwillingly, but unless you’re a nurse or doctor you’re never going to see it. Anything in a video is scripted and done willingly.

Does my fantasy make me a horrible person?

One of my biggest fantasies is to watch someone get their temperature taken, rectally and unwillingly, unstaged and real. Outside this group a good majority rectal temps are not very welcome, and is often something that has to be done. I'm feeling very guilt stricken for having this fantasy, and I would like it to go away. But alas, this is futile. Anyone having this same fantasy?

You think THAT fantasy makes you a horrible person???

What about fantasies like wanting to murder someone with your bare hands, but deciding not to because you might get blood on your hand-made $4000 silk suit?