Masturbation during menses.

I wanted to ask women if they find anything weird or unhealthy relating masturbation during period's? I have searched and didn't find anything wrong with it but my cramps got worse when I tried it myself, and it was my fifth day.

I don't think there is anything unhealthy about it. I get really horny when I am on my period. My cramps pretty much stopped once I had my kids, but I still get them every now and again. I would think that having an orgasm would make your cramps worse because an orgasm causes everything in the area to contract and tighten even more when your orgasm in an area that is already contracted and crampy. That's just my nursing logic there, but I am not 100 percent that is why, but it makes sense.

I am sure higher medical professionals than myself could offer more accurate information than I. Maybe they will weigh in here.

Mashie

I get super horny starting a few days before continuing until like a day after. Masturbating of having sex helps my cramps.

As a guy, I can attest that I've known more than one woman who a) got particularly horny a few days before her period, and b) told me that orgasms helped to relieve cramps.

It always made sense to me.

As a guy, I can attest that I've known more than one woman who a) got particularly horny a few days before her period, and b) told me that orgasms helped to relieve cramps.

It always made sense to me.

It is opposite for me in the case of cramps, I do get extra horny but I also know that doing anything about it would only end up badly 😢

My husband pleasured me with his tongue and lips during my menstruation days. My clitoris and vagina were both worshiped orally for many years. A well lubricated soft make-up brush gently rubbed on my clitoris would put me in orbit also. A few very special times while I would face sit him he was able to get the tip of his tongue into the opening of my cervix (OS) That was heavenly and resulted in a cervical orgasm. He was the keeper of my menstrual castle!

Nothing weird or unhealthy. Before my period my libido went through the roof and stayed pretty high during. Except on the day (s) my cramps were so bad I would become nauseous and want to this my cookies. (Nothing hot and sexy about that.)

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I masturbate all the time during my period, well, not constantly, but daily--same as when I'm not on my period.

Besides, orgasms cause the release of endorphins that give me a nice afterglow for a good while after the orgasm.

I usually masturbate while in the shower, provided I have time, so being on my period doesn't change that. However, I won't usually bring myself to orgasm while I have cramps. I know some women who say organisming helps alleviate their pain however for me cramps get marginally worse. If I feel really stressed or angry (thanks to the hormones and lack of sleep) an orgasm can help with that though. So I weigh the good and bad points to an orgasm, but either way I enjoy it!

I don't get very bad cramps , I never did . I mostly get lower back pain , probably because I have a retroverted uterus . Only seldom do I get mild cramps in my lower pelvis . I do get even hornier during my period and always masturbate during it . If my period is heavy I will do it in the shower , if not then in bed . When the urge arises .....?

I usually touch myself during my period because I get horny but not like I normally do. I'm usually more gentle, taking my time and not pushing the boat out too far. Sometimes I won't bother to orgasm, just a light tickle to get my mind from pain to pleasure.

I masturbate during my period because it feels good and temporarily relieves some of the cramps.

I find I masturbate more leading up to my period and am very horny during that time

During I find though horny sometimes the 'mess' turns me off a bit though as my period lightens so during the last couple days I occasionally will masturbate

I also find that I get more crampy the day I start or the day before and masturbation does temporarily relieve the pain when that happens

Ibuprofen (motrin , advil, etc) is a prostaglandin inhibitor-- and that's why works exceptionally well for cramps. 800mg by mouth (always with food) can get you through 6-8 hours (for those who can tolerate it and are not on other medication or have bleeding tendencies)

I'm well past menopause, but way back when, I loved masturbating on my period. Admittedly I had, and still do sometimes, have a menstrual fetish. I enjoyed getting a little messy during self pleasure, and I enjoyed going down on a woman during her period. It washes off you know!

I often masturbate when I am menstruating to get rid of my cramps. My cramps tend to be during my heavy flow days. My experience is that the cramps actually may get worse for an hour or so after I masturbate but they go away completely after a couple of hours rather than drag on for two days. I have noticed my flow gets very heavy with clots for a few hours after I masturbate and I suspect the vibrator in my vagina and multiple orgasms breaks everything loose. Intercourse during my heavy day does the same thing but it is not always effective at eliminating the cramps while masturbating always works!

I prefer to masturbate in private but my husband likes to watch so I often tell him I am going to do it. I don't like him helping me unless it is foreplay prelude to intercourse.

Dita

I am really horny just before as well as when on my period. I love having sex at that time, but also like to pleasure myself, too. If I can I'll also use my vibe then. Not only does sex and masturbation relieve my crampiness but it relieves the built up stress that comes with that time of the month.

Sure I masturbate during my period.

If I want to be neat about it, I leave my tampon in and I tuck the string inside so my rubbing doesn't cause irritation. Alternatively, I can take the tampon out and masturbate the way I normally do with one hand on the vulva and the other with two fingers in my vagina. Of course it's a lot messier that way, but I'll do it and then take a shower. It's only blood.

An early girlfriend asked me to masturbate her during her period. A bit bloody and smelly: she used a pad (not a tampon), and she asked for fingers inside. As Susie says, it's only blood.

My wife, later, also asked for masturbation during her period.

I am completely in agreement with Susie here on this one. Although my finger placement is a bit different 😉

Also, if I am bleeding heavy I just do it while I am in the shower .

Multitasking at its finest ! ?

I don’t think there is anything weird or unhealthy about it. I am usually horny right up until I start my period, but the first four or five days of it, I just don’t feel like masturbating or having sex. I don’t orgasm as well as I usually do, I kind of think of them as second rate orgasms. The consistency of my wetness is different too, it seems a lot stickier. I never found that orgasming did anything for my cramps, which can be bad at times. Usually by day five I am feeling better and ready for action again.

Nothing a nice warm enema wouldn't fix. I've heard they are good for cramps, butt then I'm just another weirdo enema guy.

Oh Moppy Baby, your words not mine, lol. "Weird enema guy", lol. You enema guys are all the same, you seem to think that an enema fixes everything. Again, LOL!

We are not sure what is quite going on with me these days but I haven't had a period in a year and a half and I don't seem to be in menopause yet..........damn it. Not having a period is a good thing for me. I have always hated them. In this case I don't want to be fixed. Lol.

Mashie

No, no, no, Mashie. A well placed, experienced tongue fixes everything.

You won't get any argument from me there Roscoe, no argument at all!

Mashie

Orgasm are best pain relief.

My wife does masterbate in her periods and we also have Sex as well, although she has cramps but still she asks me to give her a deep intercourse as orgasm helps her to get relief from the pain and the feeling of her vaginal contractions on my penis during her periods is something totally different, which is a also pleasurable for me.

Many women including myself have masturbated in that time. We get very horny then and it helps out with the pain.

Fine line between pleasure and pain.

Sometimes when my wife had her period she would get horny and we would make love. (I would have done it every period if she had wanted to.) She always left her tampon in when we had sex on her period so it was a bit crowded in there, but I didn't mind that or any blood that got on me. That's why soap was invented.

Every time we had sex with her tampon in, the string got pushed up into her vagina and she couldn't find it afterward. So I would have to go “fish” for that string, something I enjoyed very much. When I found it, I would just pull her tampon out of her vagina and drop it into the toilet. Then she would clean up and insert a new tampon and I would wash my hands and clean myself up.

Cleaning up after having sex is one thing the movies never show nor do you read about it in any books. I guess it breaks the romantic mood. But if you don't clean up, then it may be okay for the man, but the woman will have his cum running out of her vagina onto her legs and onto the sheets if she doesn't wear any panties or if she does put panties on afterward then it will leak into her panties and make a sticky mess or worse yet, dry overnight leaving any pubic hair glued to her panties just as pubic hair on boys gets glued to their pajamas or undies after a wet dream.

Great fun to pull your PJs off with your pubic hair stuck to the cloth.

She never masturbated during her period as far as I know, unless she happened to take a bath and would use the hand-held shower massage after we got one. The shower massage is the only way she has masturbated after we were married. She would never talk about masturbation with me or say if she did it when she was growing up or how she did it if she did. It was too embarrassing to discuss she would say. I never understood why she is that way and yet I got to “fish” her tampon out after sex and that was all right with her. Sorry for the long post.

Have had menstrual sex with my wife for many years.That all ended about 25 years + ago. She never used tampons, only pads and I just can't imagine a penis inside a vagina with a tampon too. Please explain!

She never used tampons, only pads and I just can't imagine a penis inside a vagina with a tampon too. Please explain!

The tampon is removed first.