Females in the Doctor Role

I can't stand female doctors in either a play or a real setting.

Mashie

I enjoy roleplaying the role of the doctor, but I have a huge craving about being the patient of a female doc.

Vulnerability, helplessness, anesthesia nurses or ICU team taking care of me... this is a huge turn on for me. That's what I like the most.

Anyway, sometimes, I like male doctors as well.

If I were to do a medfet scenario (which I don't do. I just write stories, really), I would be the doctor/nurse/whatever (I'm male), but IRL, I have actually related better with some female Drs.

New to me since I joined zity, I have taken on the doctor role way more than the patient. Not what I expected, but since I am kind of a control freak, it works. Like I have said before though, I cannot do things without knowing the right way to do it, and details really make the difference I think. I have watched LOTS of videos on surgeries, something else I never thought I could or would do. So if anyone out there needs a doc, let me know!!

New to me since I joined zity, I have taken on the doctor role way more than the patient. Not what I expected, but since I am kind of a control freak, it works. So if anyone out there needs a doc, let me know!!

A female play doc offering her services to male patients is bound to result in a full inbox of private messages. ?

I don't really have a preference overall. It just depends on the setting. If I'm playing with a GOOD and knowledgeable male doctor, I love being the patient, especially if he needs to put me under and operate.

However, I love having a male as a patient and putting him in those vulnerable positions of exams and tests, not knowing what the results will be. Is something wrong? Is there a problem? Will he need to go under in the operating room?

I think I'd definitely prefer having a female play doc if I'm playing the patient. My experiences with real male docs have been less than stellar (more likely to be rude and dismissive than female docs, I've found), so I'd be very hesistant to have a male play doc in a sexual scenario. It'd take me much longer to let down my barriers than with a female play doc.

Of course, it depends entirely on the individual.

As a male, my personal preference is a female doctor, in both role-play and real life settings. There's something about the gentle touch of a female hands that's comforting.

I’m female and I prefer the patient role - but I identify as sub in the whole BDSM thing. I’m not even a little switchy. My husband and I started playing med fet about 10 years ago or so. He had prior experience, I didn’t (unless you count playing doctor as a kid). We wanted to try everything at first so we did switch a few times with me as doctor and him as patient. It was ok. I mean it wasn’t bad or anything but I didn’t get the same reaction as when I’m the patient if you get what I mean. Actually how I got it to work for me in my own head was that I was being paid to get him off and with that fantasy I was able to make it work. He found he prefers the doctor role anyway so we stopped switching fairly quickly.

I don’t know a whole lot of people into the scene so I couldn’t tell you if it’s a male/female thing. I do know one woman who I’ve been comfortable enough IRL to have a convo about BDSM with and she’s totally Dom. So out of a sample size of 2 we have 50% lol

I have both male and female doctors and am turned on by neither, although two of my female MDs are gorgeous. Candidly, I can never remember being horny when I was real sick …

Great story: Many years ago when I went for a vasectomy, I had a urologist who was not only a frequent golfing buddy but was a great prankster. His nurse took me to the examining room, told me to strip completely, and had me place my feet in the stirrups (my first time for that and it has since become an incredible enema/pegging turn-on … I see stirrups and instantly get the same sensations I do at the sight of an enema bag with a healthy-sized nozzle.)

Back to the story: I am naked on the table -- covered modestly in a sheet -- when his nurse, pleasant in appearance, about 40ish with I what I would guess a D-cup chest, says she is going to prep me for the procedure and puts a basin filled with warm water on a shelf between the stirrups. She starts to wash my cock and balls in some soapy mixture, massaging far more than I believed necessary, and I started getting an erection so fast I could have won the Olympics. I didn't dare make eye contact but did but notice her nipples, despite her uplift bra and scrubs top, were so thick and pronounced I still recall the moment many years late when I masturbate.

"Oh, look," she said in her best matter-of-fact voice as she actually masturbated my cock for four or five strokes. "You men sometimes get an erection that is perfectly natural … but I'll fix it …"

With that, she grabbed the crown and the upper shaft of my penis tightly, took her other hand in an over-the-shoulder slap directly on the top of my engorged cock and -- so help me -- it blew the wax out of my ears!

Needless, to say, her counter-move was most effective and she and the doctor laughed about it much to my chagrin. The operation was a success and I could never get the nurse to give me a second try because she was married and I suspect the doc was involved as well. She gave me a compliment, which I imagine was a consolation when she told me I had a beautiful cock several months later, and I could only shake my head. "I've got D.S.B" I told her and then explained, "Dreaded sperm build-up." She's still giggling.

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@gententn I'm really into this, and I want to dissect it.

I had a urologist who was not only a frequent golfing buddy but was a great prankster. His nurse took me to the examining room...... when his nurse, pleasant in appearance.....,

So, your urologist was a prankster, but his nurse was very much in on it, and did most of the prank.

"Oh, look," she said in her best matter-of-fact voice as she actually masturbated my cock for four or five strokes.

Interesting behavior from a medical professional, especially if your urologist was "in on it". Which, i started imagining him telling her to stroke you a bit as part of the prank.

.... and she and the doctor laughed about it much to my chagrin.

Interesting how they candidly laughed about playing with your genitals.

I could never get the nurse to give me a second try because she was married....

Do you suppose she goes home and tells her husband about her behavior with other men's genitals, or is that a well kept secret from him? That's the kind of thing I would wondfer about.

She told me I had a beautiful cock several months later,

Interesting that you got a compliment on your cock from a medical professsional. Something that would be nice to receive every once in a while.,

I dont think female medical folks in the cysto rooms get off on this stuff. Oh sure... of all the cystos they do, its likely a huge, handsome cock shows up every now and then, and they get to stuff a scope into it... but then there's a dozen other scrawny dicks waiting (me, included)... some clean, some stinky, etc. So I dont think the cysto room is a place nurses/techs get off. Its been explained like this to me, once... hamburger, hamburger, hamburger.

And the Belgium ORR... I had no idea they were raided... interesting. They had THE most authentic exploration scenes... too bad... the world needs places like that, so TRUE aficionados can get the invasion the need...even at a price. And their videos were certainly much more clinical than all the crapola from pornhub, etc.

And the Belgium ORR... I had no idea they were raided... interesting. They had THE most authentic exploration scenes... too bad... the world needs places like that, so TRUE aficionados can get the invasion the need...even at a price. A.

The ORR clinic wasn't actually raided. What happened was that the doctor in charge, a German who used the name Doctor Steve, was horribly overweight and during a session apparently had a heart attack or such. He died on the premises. It was his own house, part of which was converted into the ORR clinic.

Anyway, he died on a upper story of the house. When medics/doctor were called to help and then verify death, it then became apparent he could not be carried down the stairs, so the fire department was called to lift the body out through the window (this happens more often than you'd think in old houses). Anyway, along with the fire department, came the police and then it became an official report/matter and the medical setup was obviously noted, but the place was not a listed clinic or doctors office and so an official investigation was started, which was mainly conducted on the charges of unauthorized practice of medicine meaning also charges of bodily harm to the patients (none of who were willing to testify by the way).

I can be either the patient or the doctor but when I play the patient I prefer a really firm stern doctor.

Thank you agracier for the information. I only knew of ORR from afar, but had some thoughts of trying to schedule something next time in Europe. Your information is more complete than anything else I had heard on the topic.

Thank you agracier for the information. I only knew of ORR from afar, but had some thoughts of trying to schedule something next time in Europe. Your information is more complete than anything else I had heard on the topic.

I have an article from a local magazine on the closing on ORR, lots more info, but it's in Dutch. It's an article from 2009 about the happenings in ORR that took place in 2007. I was a bit surprised it was that long ago.

Being as i am a Male i love to be the patient...... there is Nothing like being fully vulnerable to a strict firm nurse who knows how to give a full head to toe realistic exam....

The doctor!

I wish there were more females in the nurse/doctor role near me. I cannot find a female near me in MA USA willing to give an exam! It is next to impossible!

It's hard to find a female patient, never mind a female that is either a switch or a doc.

Good luck!

I am pretty much almost exclusively in the doctor role. Is it because I hate being the patient? Not at all, quite the opposite, if left to my own device and had to choose between two equally good RPs, one of which I play the doctor and the other the patient, I'd choose the patient every time. Problem is, maybe I'm just too picky, but I haven't found a lot of doctors that can do a satisfying job. Most doctors I've had are inexperienced, not particularly interesting/creative or go out of their way to ignore my boundaries and turn the RP into a BDSM rape fantasy. When it comes to medical play, or really any kind of scene with clearly defined dominant and submissive roles, the dominant being good at what they do is crucial. An experienced doctor examining an experienced patient is best, but an experienced doctor examining a novice patient is still pretty fun. A novice doctor examining an experienced patient is torture I wouldn't wish upon my worst enemy.

I like being the patient as much as I like being the doctor.

I am new in this exam med fet but I recognize myself as a play doctor.

Welcome Doctina!

@Jajonly i could definitely use one of those (:

Here my wife is 99% of the time the doctor.

Though I really like to play the doctor too she's not really into playing patient.

Pity but yeah, I won't complain, she's becoming better and better as a doc! 😁

I prefer to be the patient because being the doctor is like work to me.

Well my being lesbian I always had the wish to get an exam from an older (55 plus) aged female that is thorough but gentle

Well I would love being examined by a female play doc (maybe over 50 yo )…anyone is free for a visit? 😉 the patient is ready!

I would like to find a female doctor who does thorough exams for sure.

Really hard to find, but then again, they don't promote it all at their front door ...