I was very curious about cold water enemas for a long time,and just decided to give them a “fair chance” , and discovered I really liked them?! By telling myself I “need “ to be punished, it really helps me endure the temperature of the water , and helps to transform me into a “fantasyland” of continued pleasure! It’s just a mind thing, I guess, but it really works for me?!
The repeated” edging” is much more enjoyable, in MY opinion , because the desire to continue keeps being encouraged, as opposed to orgasm—- which culminates the session ( the party’s OVER) . To me , orgasm and enemas should NEVER be a part of the same session!! But, that’s just me!!??
At 75 yrs old, I really have very little desire for sex anymore with any mate, as enemas provide ALL the pleasure that I need?
deepclean
Nice of you to reply to my questions.
The "need to be punished" motivation makes some sense. I do something similar when filling and holding a large/very large enema (which I prefer to smaller more frequent ones). I'm a switch and really enjoy enemas as a sub. The Domme I fantasize in my head is constantly listening to my moaning and complaints about so much volume, but enduring the pressure, distention and occasional cramps are made more submissive, more tolerable and more erotic by trying to please her. I'm not sure I could tolerate let alone enjoy a cold water enema like you, but it's worth a try.,
And I understand exactly about the repeated edging. As long as I'm holding an enema, usually combined with my other kinks of rubber clothes and sneakers and hood/mask/gag, it's extremely arousing and makes me want to edge trying to have an orgasm, but the orgasm buildup/edging sensations are so erotic and enjoyable that you almost want them to go on indefinitely. With me, eventually I'm overcome with arousal and finally orgasm, but prolonged buildup is really a joy.
I'm 67.5, solo for several years, with very little erectile function from ED, but enemas and my fetish clothing usually allow me to have orgasms. I'm really glad your enemas, now especially the cold ones, work well for you. I hope it goes on for a long time to come. Thanks again for answering so many questions.
All the best,
Eric